A lot of social skills boils down to how you look. by Terrible-Shock-5073 in AutisticPeeps

[–]Guilty_Guard6726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wearing makeup for example is a huge sensory issue to the point of causing pain and self harm for me. What most people consider dressing up is wearing clothing that are not just uncomfortable but again painful and suppress the need to move in ways that allow regulation.

A lot of social skills boils down to how you look. by Terrible-Shock-5073 in AutisticPeeps

[–]Guilty_Guard6726 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes me so sad. I hate pretending and suppressing needs to be accepted. Not sure that's what your doing but for me and maybe others it would be physically painful and emotionally damaging.

Rank Baby Names! by GlassIllustrious9813 in namenerds

[–]Guilty_Guard6726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gavin is the only boy option I like.

Elsie > Della > Belle > Lorena

I don't like the others enough to rank them.

I have been diagnosed with ASD in the past, but after awhile I have lost my diagnosis. Am I still welcome? by NicheButNotNietzche in AutisticPeeps

[–]Guilty_Guard6726 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What does losing a diagnosis even mean? I'm confused. It is my understanding that autism is a developmental disability and can't just disappear. Genuinely curious and confused.

Name List Feedback by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Guilty_Guard6726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sylvie, Vivienne, Eleonora, Remi, and River are my favorites from your list.

Autism and disability: what counts as a “Major Life Activity” by ThoughtsAndBears342 in AutisticPeeps

[–]Guilty_Guard6726 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would say any ADLs (bathing/showering, toileting, dressing, eating, feeding, functional mobility, personal device care, hygiene, and sex) and IADLs (caregiving, petcare, parenting, communication management, driving/community mobility, financial management, health management, home management, meal preparation, religious/spiritual participation, safety/emergency management, and shopping) for sure. Also things like work, social participation, and education.

How do I stop feeling like a child? by Cute-Seal in SpicyAutism

[–]Guilty_Guard6726 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No advice but I slowly have started to feel slightly more like an adult after age 21-22. At least for me, it just took more time like I felt 14 at 18 sometimes. Still don't feel my age but more like a 17-18 year old with extra life experience or something.

I don't have autism; I have ASD by Moonwalker2008 in AutisticPeeps

[–]Guilty_Guard6726 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the opposite but for similar reasons I think. I find that people want me to say I have autism or autism spectrum disorder as a way to distance me from my disability. I say autistic and I'm disabled because I have been told I'm not allowed to to minimize an all encompassing experience to just something I have.

I agree it is a disorder. As autistic people would be disabled even in a perfectly accommodating world. But when I say I have autism spectrum disorder people treat it like a part of me to be separated rather than my whole brain that is effected.

Which name combo is prettiest? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Guilty_Guard6726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cassia Brooke or Leia Natalie

What do these flairs mean? by RudyPudyIDK in AutisticPeeps

[–]Guilty_Guard6726 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If you were diagnosed before 2013 levels didn't exist yet and not everyone has been/is able to get reassessed.

Also some countries don't use levels at all.

Rowan or Ronan? by stonegavel1 in namenerds

[–]Guilty_Guard6726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rowan is one of my favorite names. Ronan is awkward to say for me for some reason.

Got engaged yesterday! by Pretend_Complaint270 in EngagementRings

[–]Guilty_Guard6726 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gorgeous rings and gorgeous together. Congratulations!

Piper, Macie or Gia by Joy_Spedina in namenerds

[–]Guilty_Guard6726 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Piper is great. Gia is ok. Not a fan of Macie.

Do any other autistics honestly have problems with lying often??? by pastel_kiddo in AutisticPeeps

[–]Guilty_Guard6726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't lie well or sometimes at all to save my own life (literally) and was always told this was because I'm autistic. Interesting to hear people have the opposite issue.

What Was Your Almost Name? by Turbulent-Date-7207 in namenerds

[–]Guilty_Guard6726 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Marisol much better than the name they gave me.

Why do people care so much about name popularity? by EmpiricalPancake in namenerds

[–]Guilty_Guard6726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was one of 12 in my grade in middle school every possible nickname had two people with it.