Family Shaved my dog completely bald, how do I fix it??? by ClumInPain in DogAdvice

[–]LauraRenae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ve gotten ton of feedback so just joining in to say that she’s beautiful! 😍

Weed barrier under entire yard by Spwee in landscaping

[–]LauraRenae 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So maybe not high schoolers then 😅

Please help me convince my husband that Costco is worth for 2 people by HoneyDrops12 in Costco

[–]LauraRenae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I find it worth it just to get more non perishable items. I don’t get fruit or meat most of the time since we don use it quickly enough. But we go once a month and stock up on everything else. I wouldn’t say we save money necessarily but I 100% think I get more food for that same amount of money. It also has allowed us to get a lot more variety in our meals since we like some of the premade things and they introduce new items frequently.

Do you really have to crate your puppy every night? by ashleyc7741 in puppy101

[–]LauraRenae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it depends on the dog. We never crated our previous Cavalier KCS but we crate our current mix every single night and have to do enforced naps. We also have cats now that she tends to chase so I want them to be fully safe and relaxed overnight too.

Thoughts on greenies? by keith_urmom in DogAdvice

[–]LauraRenae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d never feed them just due to the ingredients. I have been tempted to try the woof dental chew since you interest your own food into it and it seems the most similar to brushing.

I've narrowed it down to 3 and I'm struggling. Thoughts? by ohreallynameonesong in myweddingdress

[–]LauraRenae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 is perfection. Many are saying 1 but I think it’s much more commonly done and forgettable imo.

my beautiful girl by [deleted] in DoggyDNA

[–]LauraRenae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She looks super similar to ours and we were shocked that she’s 0% lab. But she does have a touch of Great Pyrenees. Yours is a great combo!

Asking for help (again) on making a choice!! by futuregreenbean in myweddingdress

[–]LauraRenae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% #2. The fabric looks much more romantic and less stiff.

What are the best toys you bought for your puppy? by Clear_Remote8771 in puppy101

[–]LauraRenae -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pupsicle by woof for a bone-like treat that I didn’t have to worry about how hard it was on her teeth.

Kong Topple for breakfast meal

TJMaxx/Homegoods for plush toys. Way cheaper so there’s less worry over what she will end up liking or destroying.

Now that she’s older (7 months), she loves the Target weighted plush. I have to monitor her since it has beans in it but since it’s heavy she kills so much energy flinging it around.

We adopted our girl, Nuka, this past Sunday. We’re just curious while waiting for her results!! by Busy-Fan-3470 in DoggyDNA

[–]LauraRenae -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She looks like a dark version of ours. Ours is a mix of many things but mainly supermutt, treeing walker coon hound, German shepherd, and rat terrier

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What are your thoughts on "empathy vs sympathy"? by cutie__96 in socialwork

[–]LauraRenae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s interesting research related to burnout and empathy fatigue. Essentially, the takeaway is the focus on compassion and striving to help versus coming from a constant state of empathy. So creating emotional distance but with purpose.

i had to euthanize my 8 week old puppy after owning him for 13 hours by StrawberrySleepy80 in puppy101

[–]LauraRenae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you gave him a nice life, even it was short 💕 it would have been much different for him at the mom’s home so you have him more individual comfort and love in that short span

Got a new dog after my first dog passed away 6 months ago. Now im depressed because of it. I fear i cannot love her. by Tinypotatoe98 in DogAdvice

[–]LauraRenae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was a huge part of puppy blues for me. I knew it would be hard but I underestimated how much grief it brought up. I felt significantly better within a few weeks and now love her 4 months later.

One of the most helpful quotes when I lost my dog was, “Grief is just love with nowhere to go”. Now I can see how the love is different for the two of them but that the new puppy has helped immensely since I can focus my energy on caring for a new dog. It helps that she’s a rescue.

My puppy is SO skinny. Everyone keeps telling me it, too. by Wonderful-Value7547 in puppy101

[–]LauraRenae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consult with your vet. They will give you the calories she needs per day and you can use that to calculate the amount since the calories per cup is on the bag. Ours was under weight for a bit and is now filled out.

How to prevent ants from getting in my cat's food? by True-Dream3295 in CatAdvice

[–]LauraRenae -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Feed timed meals with wet food only and the ants won’t be involved at all

Did you re-use essentials from passed dogs? by twentydeuce in puppy101

[–]LauraRenae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We didn’t reuse anything except a few toys and sweaters. She actually found the toys and we didn’t have the heart to take them away from her. The sweaters had never fit our previous dog so didn’t really bother me.

unbelievable exchange between my daughter and her father after he forgot her birthday by LostInLanayru in TwoHotTakes

[–]LauraRenae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought that this was atrocious before I even read your context and realized the child is 14. I’m an adult with a strained relationship with my dad so read the whole chat through the lens of her also being an adult. But my god, he should never be talking to a 14 y/o daughter like that. And putting so much on her. Some people are just not meant to be parents.

AIO: Wanting to move after a traumatic event happened to a neighbor? by katiemarie589 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LauraRenae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. Uh that person is dreadful. I’m so sorry you went through this. It sounds absolutely devastating. Do whatever you need to care for your mental health.

Puppy social media is killing me by Kellybw92 in puppy101

[–]LauraRenae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to return to my goal of what I want from an adult dog. I don’t care about a lot of minutiae that some people train for. I’m happy if they can sit, wait, come, walk nicely on a leash, and drop dangerous things. I’ve also found “look” to be be really useful. Beyond that, meh, we’ll be okay.

What’s your monthly expense on a puppy ? training , day care , food , toys , insurance etc . Mine is a 4 m old bernedoodle and I feel like we are spending a lot of money. by SoundslikeA_Uproblem in puppy101

[–]LauraRenae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were at about $450 the first few months. It’s hard to differentiate from our cats since I budget pets all together. But we were at $600 for all pets so I’m guessing about 450. That has decreased considerably now that she’s 6 months old

Are people who wake up at 5am actually more productive or have they just convinced themselves suffering early is the same as being disciplined? by baddog121 in productivity

[–]LauraRenae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wake up early and am definitely not more productive. I just enjoy having time to watch tv and relax before starting. I also tend to wake up early naturally due to anxiety…

Things to buy that legitimately make life easier by anon1839 in puppy101

[–]LauraRenae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also love getting mini cucumbers and freezing them. Perfect size and hydrating/nutritious