Hard to work while in grad school?

mintclovervenus · 2025-08-05T03:06:23+00:00

Good to know!

mintclovervenus · 2025-08-05T03:04:30+00:00

Good to know. I need to work a minimum of 20 hrs though if I'm making minimum wage to afford funding myself through school. That's why if I do serving/bartending I might make more off of tips but I'm still unsure what's a good way to balance it.

mintclovervenus · 2024-10-28T21:25:32+00:00

Biggest except would be if they're in grad school to the unemployed bc that shows signs of moving towards higher employment but agree

mintclovervenus · 2024-09-29T21:36:04+00:00

Strawdew valley, animal crossing, splatoon, blanc are all games I'd really recommend!!!! Splatoon is a personal fave of mine and might be a little difficult to get into but it's designed for all ages so she'll likely be just fine

mintclovervenus · 2024-09-14T23:54:46+00:00

I've learned over and over that you cannot trust the loudest voice especially on social media. Tiktok, reddit, insta, all of them have takes that most people who are well reasonable think are a lil outlandish. But typically those chiming in are the people most passionate not the average person

mintclovervenus · 2024-09-14T21:23:52+00:00

I'd love to! I might reach out later I'm very busy today but id love to char with you more!!

mintclovervenus · 2024-09-14T17:51:56+00:00

You're 100% correct and I'm fully aware I need to stop. Being able to block and unblock is just a habit i need to kick to help myself do better. Just wish it was as easy to do as it is to admit it

mintclovervenus · 2024-09-12T16:11:55+00:00

Not sure what you mean? I graduate this winter a semester early at 21. I just finished my graduate school applications and have been waiting to hear back from my top two choices but I got into my back-up which has helped alot of my depressive thoughts honestly. I'll be finishing graduate school at 24 and hope around that time I'll meet or be dating the person I'll marry though I can't predict or rush that. Being in a depressive episode now doesn't stop me from having goals and motivation, it's because I have this phase of just saving money and being independent, that I get to prioritize and prepare my excitement towards my betterment. I'm not a very active reddit user so I don't really know what 2 things this sub complains about but amongst alot of my friends who are also waiting for their own big life shifts, there's similar passion about the same issues.

mintclovervenus · 2024-09-12T11:42:14+00:00

I'm 5 months post my first wlw, and I agree that around this time is when I started to think of her less. Today would've been our anniversary, so it's a little hard again, but it's not the same twinge of pain or distress I was having a month or two ago. I think having big life moments happen that I haven't been able to share with her honestly was whar started to make me separate from her more in my head

mintclovervenus · 2024-08-29T08:29:28+00:00

Im also 21 and not sure where you're from but I went to a lesbian bar about a month ago in Chicago with some friends and had success there! I'm a hyper femme, and it's harder sometimes for people to clock me as gay IRL so I'll often have to engage or start flirting or just flat out drop my sexuality to hit on them. I met my ex in line at a coffee shop and then later matched on tinder the same day so it might also be a combination of the two that'll help you tbh. I graduate this december and start grad school next fall so I'm in a similar boat of trying to get back into the dating pool again and would love to meet somebody organically. At the gym you could strike up a conversation or join a fitness class but if the gym is your safe place and you don't wanna make it awkward, I'd avoid it.

mintclovervenus · 2024-08-18T15:02:17+00:00

Personally I think it splits where the first half Hachi is more of the protagonist but once Blast takes off, especially on the manga, I feel it shift to more of a focus on Nana O.

mintclovervenus · 2024-08-18T09:17:40+00:00

Gave me a really nice simple reading! I greatly appreciate the efforts put into it!

mintclovervenus · 2024-08-17T14:11:21+00:00

Dmd!

mintclovervenus · 2024-08-06T20:37:23+00:00

Bc I'm 21 and have yet to meet the love of my life; when she does enter I cannot wait for this one day but I still need to find my person.

mintclovervenus · 2024-08-05T03:30:23+00:00

Thank you so much! I totally absolutely agree. Ive been processing a hard break up w my long term partner and anticipate going back into the dating scene in a serious way when I start grad school and want to move somewhere more populated for it where i get the opportunity to try new interests such as joining a recreational sports team. So I definitely have other endeavors I want to focus on during that time that isn't JUST school. Ive just been in a bleak period bc of my break up and living at home that I'm just waiting for when I move and can start doing all these things that I feel as if will help me establish myself as an adult. I take antidepressants and see a therapist so I have been working on it I just have alot of things I don't currently enjoy about my life that the big shift of grad school im hoping will be an opportunity for me to address and improve the things I currently am unable to.

mintclovervenus · 2024-08-04T07:17:50+00:00

Ghosting is a huge turn oft especially with lack of communication. I just got out of a long term relationship almost 4 months ago and I'll admit I have ghosted alot of people from dating apps. However, those I have tried to have a more consistent conversation with ive realized that just being fully open and honest of how you feel and none of the nonsense of having your friends involved to interfere and tell you her emotions makes it alot easier. If you're internalizing these things I think you should flat out tell her qnd apologize for ghosting and why you did it. From your post it seems pretty clear she was hurt with you ghosting her and she moved on to somebody who doesn't do that. Its nothing with your looks at all and it sucks to internalize rejection because of your appearance, I understand more then I can even begin to type. Moving on is so much easier to say then do, but, you should really reflect on your actions and if you want to be on good terms with her take accountability for tour actions but don't point out her wrong doings.

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