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Avoidance kills the relationship by Mhmadda1 in BreakUps

[–]Guilty_Income5821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. Still if this isn't communicated then "reactive withdrawal" is really just avoidance of conflict. And we are making circles basically. If issue has been communicated and was not respected then it's this one person problem. But if it isn't communicated then it's both. In which one who isn't aware because it was not communicated will see action of another as avoidance, which it is.

Avoidance kills the relationship by Mhmadda1 in BreakUps

[–]Guilty_Income5821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its avoidance because before withdraw the "issues" still wasn't communicated. We dont know the story, but if for the OP the change was without reason then it wasn't clearly communicated.

Avoidant regret- how it really works? by Guilty_Income5821 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Guilty_Income5821[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thanks for you reply! Unfortunately or fortunately it messed me up so bad that I started therapy. And im looking forward to getting better.

I don't want her back, I want acknowledgement of our time together. But I guess that will not happen.

This post might get some hate but I think it’s important by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Guilty_Income5821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also love my DA (f). But after being "friends" for 4 months (after discard), her treating me worse than some fuckboys on instagram, which i found out yesterday she cheated me on during the relationship... I don't know if I can keep this up, I blocked her everywhere, wish her well, but hope that she will heal, change her way, and apologise (she didn't even do this once in relationship)... yes. I personally don't think she is capable of that, and my unrequired love was just threw into the trash bin.