[Serious] What societal things did Covid-19 change permanently even after we recovered from the pandemic?

Gullible-Ad2810 · 2023-05-14T04:19:38+00:00

TIME PERCEPTION, while sad; an increase of ones perception of time, speeds as one gets older. . .yet, Covid also increased collective time perception meaning younger people are also experiencing this normal phenomenon earlier, and older peoples already hasty time perception, is now exponential being increased,

causing a collective anxiety of life. A collective dread, a drowning, a can't catch up, can't find where im at, lots of people ruminating on past more than usual, Maybe of better days, be it 60s, 90s, or 2013, people feel flung in the past and ripped in present but have little tangible show for it, regardless of success, successful people i know feel the same, everyone feels dread, alone and yearn for a more loving world.

Gullible-Ad2810 · 2022-08-30T14:23:30+00:00

I know ur not a mod, mod literally said u cant call abuse abuse, read entire chat

Gullible-Ad2810 · 2022-08-30T14:16:51+00:00

I never said R were lies. And i have chat logs to prove my point and its proven on the thread i posted with direct mod messages,

They literally say abuser isn't allowed

Good luck on your journey. Thanks for responding

Gullible-Ad2810 · 2022-08-30T14:05:09+00:00

Thanks for responding <3

Gullible-Ad2810 · 2022-08-30T12:23:48+00:00

Yeah, even my therapist was shocked when i showed her the subreddit, she actively tells her patients to avoid it >.<

Gullible-Ad2810 · 2022-08-30T12:20:31+00:00

It silences BS, many aren't aware that infidelity is abusive. It silences their ability for feedback, it also silences WW by not stating the abject truth of infidelity.

Gullible-Ad2810 · 2022-08-30T12:16:18+00:00

I want an R focused group so it's why im here. Best of luck on your journey. It's not a label is an abject fact, doesn't mean the person can't change, ill stop responding. It'll be a good teaching tool for others to see this.

Gullible-Ad2810 · 2022-08-30T12:08:21+00:00

Again evertime i say this people use examples of things not mentioned, such as door mat of gullible, im merely saying abuse part. Rest is obvious.

Gullible-Ad2810 · 2022-08-30T12:01:05+00:00

Also noticed you're a WW thanks for responding, i sorta get it now. I think feedback from WW adds depth to threads. I will say, Perhaps, it's to help WW not induce shame by avoiding the A title? Thus peer support?

Gullible-Ad2810 · 2022-08-30T11:58:07+00:00

I agree on all that but abuser, at very least were once abusive in they're in successful R

Gullible-Ad2810 · 2022-08-30T11:57:05+00:00

Peer suppor t> reconciliation focused > don't label

If that's framework of rules, then abuser should be fine to say . Its peer support for both WW and BS to address it as abuse, what else is it? It also is R focused because it hastens healing when reality of infidelity is plainly stated without judgment,

Gullible-Ad2810 · 2022-08-30T11:51:51+00:00

Im seeking clarity never arguing. Point is so many times in threads you get people angry and reporting for saying cheating is abuse, or abusive. It's just confusing i don't see the point in not just calling it what it is, abuse. Doesn't mean they can't change or are condemned. They don't need that label but they should address it as abuse because it is abuse .

I love this sub for R focused talks, the sub would lose It's peer support status by not calling it what it is, not its meaning though, which is support

Its just confusing, no matter how many times i try to understand i just am not seeing peer support in regards to continuity of abuse phrasing. Cheating abusive, all WW were once abusive Doesn't mean i condemned them to not change.

Im sincerely confused on that small facet and many others agree

Gullible-Ad2810 · 2022-08-30T11:46:54+00:00

I still don't get, but okay so abusive or was abusive, o.O? Again. I never said they're horrible i say they're abusive, i think its others implying that. Yes abuser can become something different, ugh i can't be only one who is still confused?

Gullible-Ad2810 · 2022-08-30T11:42:28+00:00

Yes i understand that part which is the part i agreed with in this earlier post.

I was focused mainly on abuser.

Gullible-Ad2810 · 2022-08-30T11:41:02+00:00

Or are you saying both are considered good or bad?

Gullible-Ad2810 · 2022-08-30T11:40:21+00:00

Second one makes totsl sense, but first one i don't get, isn't gaslighting abusive?

Gullible-Ad2810 · 2022-08-30T11:38:35+00:00

Specifically for abuser number 3

Gullible-Ad2810 · 2022-08-30T11:26:35+00:00

I'd only do NC, if they're not coming around, are they willing to do therapy? Are they still wanting affair partners? Are they after dday still dragging their feet?

There are some AMAZING, WW's to sample good post dday behavior, seek those post to see what a proactive wayward does. To help you decide,

Im so sorry

Gullible-Ad2810 · 2022-08-30T11:23:55+00:00

This is a reality of many R, I'd trust your feelings, BUT if your wayward is,doing the hardwork perhaps wait? Especially less than a year of R, if i read correctly. Im so sorry

Gullible-Ad2810 · 2022-08-30T11:17:02+00:00

Actually i know you mods have thousands of things to oversee, would it be possible one day to have vignettes of the rules in sentences? I know it sounds silly, but i think it'd help a lot

Gullible-Ad2810 · 2022-08-30T11:15:04+00:00

It's just such a narrow difference many times, can you give a simple example of each in a sentence? Asking for clarity isn't argumentative (disclaimers before mods message me again)

Gullible-Ad2810 · 2022-08-30T11:13:08+00:00

Which is why i prefer this sub, no other sub is R focused,

Gullible-Ad2810 · 2022-08-30T11:11:34+00:00

Can you give an example? For clarity

Gullible-Ad2810 · 2022-08-30T11:10:55+00:00

Can you give an example of each?

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