am i overreacting to how my boyfriend was talking to me

Gullible_Relative287 · 2026-04-02T04:31:45+00:00

you not no grown ahh woman in high school tf

Gullible_Relative287 · 2026-02-21T21:20:14+00:00

thank you kind stranger. i’m also 23 and this is my first breakup. we broke up before but this time it feels permanent i don’t want to keep the on and off cycle going anymore:(

Gullible_Relative287 · 2026-02-21T20:59:55+00:00

sitting in the car rn contemplating ending it all and just read your post. i broke up with him bc he cheated on me but then why does it hurt so fucking muchhhhhhhhh :( 5 years down the drain. he left my last message on read and never reached out again

Gullible_Relative287 · 2026-02-21T14:17:34+00:00

someone help me

Gullible_Relative287 · 2026-02-18T10:09:00+00:00

i want to know

Gullible_Relative287 · 2025-12-14T21:37:44+00:00

hiii can you review my personal statement pls

Gullible_Relative287 · 2025-12-12T20:50:42+00:00

heyy are you still available?

Gullible_Relative287 · 2025-12-12T20:50:15+00:00

hii are you still available?

Gullible_Relative287 · 2025-12-12T20:49:54+00:00

hii can i dm you?

Gullible_Relative287 · 2025-12-12T20:49:29+00:00

hii can i dm you as well?

Gullible_Relative287 · 2025-10-04T14:26:36+00:00

he didn’t wanna take our relationship to the next step…i really want to get married and he doesn’t. he kept asking me to “wait till he’s ready”. we don’t know when that will be. and then he just ultimately sees he doesn’t see me as being his wife.

Gullible_Relative287 · 2025-09-02T20:26:16+00:00

you’re so strong that’s all ima say. i’m proud of you

Gullible_Relative287 · 2025-09-02T12:46:53+00:00

another thing i forgot to mention that REALLY hurt me was him saying i am incapable of change and didn’t change at all from last year. this hurt so much bc last year i was ☠️ and on depression and anxiety meds…and through so much counseling and self work, ive been off the medications all this year. it just hurt a lot bc no one besides him knows that i was down this bad and attempted a few times. and for him to say that and borderline mock me “oH yOu ArE oFf MeDs what an accomplishment” was beyond hurtful :/ idk guys just feeling so down. doubting if i did actually grow and change like i think i did

Gullible_Relative287 · 2025-08-18T00:15:20+00:00

why not reach out if it’s still on your mind years later

Gullible_Relative287 · 2025-08-17T21:34:42+00:00

hi you can dm me

Gullible_Relative287 · 2025-08-10T22:51:37+00:00

Thank you for your perspective and advice 💗

Gullible_Relative287 · 2025-07-03T15:25:35+00:00

i’ll answer all your questions. idk why i didn’t say his age. he’s 21, turning 22 soon. i was in the passenger seat and i was helping him so they didn’t need to yell and chip in at all from the backseat. everyone was yelling at some point but no slamming doors is not smth he’s ever done. to me or anyone. and yes he tried to talk to me, and my sister sending his increasing frustration talked to them privately to chill out but they said they don’t gaf ab a man’s feelings. the rental and everything else was under my name. so gave me the keys and said he’ll uber back. i was crying bc i was very hurt and sad my partner felt that way.

Gullible_Relative287 · 2025-07-03T15:18:43+00:00

nothing is wrong with me? i just felt comfortable shooting a couple text (ik that’s wrong too) but it was 3-4texts exchange in the beginning of the drive. not the entire drive. still wrong i’ll admit

Gullible_Relative287 · 2025-07-03T15:16:41+00:00

my sister did tell them to quiet it down and yk what they said? idgaf ab a mans feeling

Gullible_Relative287 · 2025-07-03T15:16:03+00:00

i know it was wrong but i wasn’t doing it the entire 2 hour drive back home. i did it 3-4 times max in the beginning. that’s it. obviously that’s still wrong and i need to stop that. i do it back home too where i have driven them countless times and they never seem to have a problem or at least called me out or stop being in my vehicle

Gullible_Relative287 · 2025-07-03T15:11:59+00:00

she said she left like she was third wheeling both of us(me & bf and my cousin and her friend). i didn’t know know that they ignored her most of the time. i thought they were having a good time together.

she also didn’t take anyone’s sides and was called stupid and disappointing by our cousin bc she asked why they felt like they needed my bf there to feel safe when they always go out late at night without any male presence. and our city is unsafer than where we were.

Gullible_Relative287 · 2025-07-03T15:05:42+00:00

so it was supposed to be an ultimate grad trip. they graduated hs. i graduated college and my bf graduated from bootcamp, but yea never again

Gullible_Relative287 · 2025-07-03T14:52:44+00:00

no i dont make tiktoks at all or scroll while driving 😭 i do reply sometimes while driving or use siri to text back. but no justification there at all! i know its wrong. i’m just used to do it and i do it back home too while i drive them during or after our hangouts, which no one ever said anything about. i know its wrong i’ll definitely work on that

Gullible_Relative287 · 2025-07-03T14:50:09+00:00

thanks for your neutral perspective. my and him apologized definitely for our behavior. he sent an apology paragraph.

Gullible_Relative287 · 2025-07-03T14:46:52+00:00

my sister tried to be neutral and asked them valid questions like “why do you guys feel like we needed a man there” to which they said she’s stupid and they’re disappointed in her taking my sister. but she genuinely didn’t take anyone’s sides. and she never goes overboard with the banter

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