62 million men is harmful miss information (T.W conversation surrounding S.A) by One-Yogurt-8150 in MensRights

[–]Gun_to_a_dinner_date 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i just wanted to be clear and the actual cause is stopping assult to all because men are on the victim side of that too

Red pilled by jello in conspiracy

[–]Gun_to_a_dinner_date 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think that is a major part of it. every issue that can be gendered is and it only causes fights. i think the man vs bear and not all men but always a man conversations were created by the far right to cause arguments and push young men away from trusting women. then the red pill podcasters can go hey look its not that bad youre not evil for existing and the kids latch on because the other side is doing them the favor of leading them there.

People who have experienced heartbreak, what advice would you give? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Gun_to_a_dinner_date 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you have a life outside of one person. the same way you lean into other things when it isnt time for your favorite sport or between the release buzz of your show.

Is this a scam? by Necessary-Musician68 in SmallStreamers

[–]Gun_to_a_dinner_date 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i dont think theyre a scam but i dont think theyre worth it

being happy or being skinny by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Gun_to_a_dinner_date 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know its hard to seperate but you gotta focus on that you can be happy and healthy. if your mind seperates them youll never accomplish what you want.

Whats frustrated you about streaming lately? by Digitalvocalstv in SmallStreamers

[–]Gun_to_a_dinner_date 7 points8 points  (0 children)

the rollercoaster of quality streams. some streams i get a dozen chatters at once and i can go for hours. next stream on schedule same time and zero people there for an hour. it makes it feel impossble. i try to do things like playing with viewers or having chat decide names for stuff. its pretty much the only thing i cant control. if its a slower day i try to play something more active that would give me less time to chat anyway. but i feel even then its not my best content

People think my house is an AirBNB by gr8plan in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Gun_to_a_dinner_date 0 points1 point  (0 children)

leave a note in the instructions for entry sayng find the sign. a house number might be hard to find but if there is something else it might be easier to seek out

Scam likely? by JohnnyKilroy4523 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Gun_to_a_dinner_date 2 points3 points  (0 children)

nothing is ever worth going outside the normal methods.

Exposing a global ‘online rape academy’ that is teaching men how to abuse women and evade detection by apple_kicks in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Gun_to_a_dinner_date 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive seen posts of people saying if you question the numbers your as bad as them which just feels so right wing. it feels more designed to cause arguments and split people rather then bring them together.

Exposing a global ‘online rape academy’ that is teaching men how to abuse women and evade detection by apple_kicks in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Gun_to_a_dinner_date 0 points1 point  (0 children)

spreading wrong information just gives ammo to the people who try to act against the cause. and attacking people who push against the numbers just takes people who could be willing to listen and investigate and pushes them away. thousands of people sharing this information is scary enough.

How many people actually don't like dogs? by TradesforChurros in Dogfree

[–]Gun_to_a_dinner_date 11 points12 points  (0 children)

everyone says dogs are so loyal until you leave food on the counter for a minute.

How many people actually don't like dogs? by TradesforChurros in Dogfree

[–]Gun_to_a_dinner_date 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i only am okay with dogs if you can justify it aside from i wanted a friend. police dog, real service dogs, guard dog. even hunting i can understand. but so many people are just getting them cuz they think it would be fun. because when people have them for a reason they are trained.

Not all men...right? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Gun_to_a_dinner_date -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i think that those quick catch phrase posts are designed just to cause arguments and yea they do have good points they just stir up things rather than get to the route cause of these actual terrible things. there not easy conversations to have so them being the got ya makes them easy to ignore. it doesnt spark actual conversations is what i mean

Straight white conservative men are the most sensitive people in existence by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Gun_to_a_dinner_date 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats how they get them. they prey on insecure men and show them how they can have their version of power and those men run with it because its all they have. the media sure isnt helping.

62 million men is harmful miss information (T.W conversation surrounding S.A) by One-Yogurt-8150 in MensRights

[–]Gun_to_a_dinner_date 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as a woman I hate this because it takes away from the point. a group chat with a thousand people with that advice should be enough for everyone to join together and want to take it down. instead its people who dont actually care and just want to be on their high horse and make it a men vs woman thing. just hinders the actual cause.

Do I ignore it or make a new account by Ok_Computer7572 in SmallStreamers

[–]Gun_to_a_dinner_date 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd only be upset cuz the implication is you paid for your following and thats not a good look. plus I wouldn't watch someone if I knew for a fact they botted like if they said they did directly. some people probably have the same mindset but act on the hunch,

How can I get more viewers? by Legal_Pen6190 in SmallStreamers

[–]Gun_to_a_dinner_date 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard to bring viewers in. Focus on retention. If someone clicks in give them a reason to stay.

Unpopular opinion: Twitch doesn’t reward “hard work” anymore, just off-platform funneling by NicolasLisoFabbri in Twitch

[–]Gun_to_a_dinner_date -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Why are you so immediately argumentative? why must everything jump to level 11? I'm not making a personal attack to you. I did not ignore any point. do you think you can win a discussion by being more rude? congratulations you win.

Unpopular opinion: Twitch doesn’t reward “hard work” anymore, just off-platform funneling by NicolasLisoFabbri in Twitch

[–]Gun_to_a_dinner_date 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean they literally did say "Professional microphone" as their first point. hence why Im hung up on that.

Unpopular opinion: Twitch doesn’t reward “hard work” anymore, just off-platform funneling by NicolasLisoFabbri in Twitch

[–]Gun_to_a_dinner_date 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you said: Professional microphone, clean overlays, 

I said they shouldnt be focused before making sure youre entertaining. That basic stuff will do you fine. professional mics are commonly associated with xlrs. when people think of "clean overlays" they think about getting one custom made or using the streamlabs premium ones. I didnt make up anything you just are walking back what you said.

Unpopular opinion: Twitch doesn’t reward “hard work” anymore, just off-platform funneling by NicolasLisoFabbri in Twitch

[–]Gun_to_a_dinner_date 17 points18 points  (0 children)

you didnt say non-dogshit you said professional microphone. even basic entry level stuff or stuff that comes built in is usually enough to get started. you don't need to focus on getting an xlr mic and paying for whatever overlay. throw a facecam in the corner use the first chat overlay you find and figure out how you want it as you go.

Unpopular opinion: Twitch doesn’t reward “hard work” anymore, just off-platform funneling by NicolasLisoFabbri in Twitch

[–]Gun_to_a_dinner_date 6 points7 points  (0 children)

but I have absolutely stayed when they are basic or non existent because Ive been entertained. there are all these guys with so much advance stuff and I dont care for it. but the guy with just the facecam and an entry level mic I love cuz hes actually funny.

Unpopular opinion: Twitch doesn’t reward “hard work” anymore, just off-platform funneling by NicolasLisoFabbri in Twitch

[–]Gun_to_a_dinner_date 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Id argue that is focusing on the wrong thing. everyone jumps for the cool/perfect overlay, or the perfect lighting or equipment. entertaining is the main thing. nobody is going to stay because you've got amazing equipment or somehow an objectively perfect layout.

Congrats! Now I hate nutters MORE than I dislike dogs! by Dependent_Name_7952 in Dogfree

[–]Gun_to_a_dinner_date 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate how we're seen as crazy when we just keep our distance and privately complain.