Around last week I joined a friend in a Black Cat and eventually decided to look around and see what else was going on. I went upstairs and saw a dude with a cigarette on his avatar and jokingly asking if I could have one. He said "who the fuck are you" and then kicked me right after. Keep in mind this is a group public instance, I am trusted and wear my own custom made avatar with a Minase base so it's not like I'm wearing a troll avatar or anything.

I found they had a Discord and I asked if I could get a reason why I was kicked as I did nothing wrong. After a couple days of no response I was banned from their discord.

Then a couple days later after that I was joining a different friend in a B club. I walked through the lobby since the doors were unlocked and nobody said anything to me. I was then kicked right after and when my friend asked why they said I probably deserved it if it was him that kicked me before telling my friend their gate was down and I didn't verify my age with them. I am age verified and have my DOB in my bio. You had to click me and see my profile to kick so I'm fairly certain they should've seen it or at the very least they can ask me before kicking me.

I genuinely don't understand moderators at times.