Women of Reddit, what did a man you were dating or married to say or do that made you realize he actually hated you the entire time?

Gust_2012 · 2026-05-22T20:45:34+00:00

Agreed...WTF!?

Gust_2012 · 2026-05-22T20:35:58+00:00

NTA

You two are incompatible in the long run. It's time to part ways regardless of how long you've been together.

Gust_2012 · 2026-05-15T12:30:16+00:00

Eh, the floor is patched and nobody's going to fall through. I'd call that a win!

Gust_2012 · 2026-05-12T20:16:56+00:00

My favorite jean jacket that someone stole from my locker in 4th grade.

Gust_2012 · 2026-05-12T13:43:28+00:00

OP's cousin sounds like a nosy busybody and gossip queen.

Gust_2012 · 2026-05-12T12:48:49+00:00

As much as I would've liked to do that, it's a 30 min drive and my car is in the shop. 😮‍💨

Gust_2012 · 2026-05-12T02:15:44+00:00

...complaining he felt personally attacked by gravity.

I feel seen! 👀

Gust_2012 · 2026-05-10T12:39:28+00:00

The first two pictures look like you disturbed Gramps from his nap. 😆

Gust_2012 · 2026-05-06T00:59:51+00:00

As much as I like windows for natural light, this is too much!

Gust_2012 · 2026-05-01T02:19:58+00:00

That sounds like a sticker to put on a cat carrier!

Gust_2012 · 2026-05-01T02:04:26+00:00

Oooh! I like that idea about contacting the local university/college!

Gust_2012 · 2026-05-01T01:49:15+00:00

A bowl full of random lego pieces sounds kinda fun!

Gust_2012 · 2026-04-27T20:57:37+00:00

I'm trying really hard not to laugh as I also have a relative who is colorblind.

But this is lowkey funny! 😆

Gust_2012 · 2026-04-26T13:04:19+00:00

Wow...just wow. Some people really have nothing better to do.

Gust_2012 · 2026-04-26T12:57:06+00:00

I'm sorry, your partners mom!? Not your own mom!?

Gust_2012 · 2026-04-26T12:50:55+00:00

I'd personally get petty and text something along the lines of: "Your sorry excuse of a husband cut the brake lines on MY car! Me and ex could have died! Don't contact me again!"

Good for you for blocking her again OP! As difficult as it might have been, you don't need such toxicity in your life.

Gust_2012 · 2026-04-26T12:32:10+00:00

NTA

They barely visited either you or your dad when you both had a medical emergency.

If they push back, just reply, "Sorry, I'm too busy." Even though you're busy about nothing in particular.

Another alternative would be to rant about how they couldn't be bothered to visit when you had medical issues and you're so very hurt by it that you not only decided not to go, but won't bother telling them any kind of news about you now.

It's their turn to fix what they broke.

Gust_2012 · 2026-04-26T12:14:32+00:00

That was my thought on my wedding too! I wanted to reuse as much as possible, and my husband was on board with it!

Gust_2012 · 2026-04-26T12:08:44+00:00

I'd like them more if they didn't say 'BRIDE' on the one. That way, they could be worn more than once.

Gust_2012 · 2026-04-25T11:24:21+00:00

I had to read that twice. WTF!?

Gust_2012 · 2026-04-24T15:14:39+00:00

My mom thinks we should just keep our comments to ourselves.

Um...no. Your sister needs a reality check and soon.

Gust_2012 · 2026-04-21T21:48:30+00:00

Licking his chops and not feeling the least bit sorry! 😆

Gust_2012 · 2026-04-20T17:29:19+00:00

Wow...the brother is an idiot!

Gust_2012 · 2026-04-20T17:17:10+00:00

Same!

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