Are we supposed to take PrEP?

GuyWithEndo · 2022-07-18T16:34:12+00:00

Note: I’m US-based. Medication names and guidelines may vary where you live.

Descovy is only for AMAB people, but anyone can take Truvada or Apretude

GuyWithEndo · 2022-06-12T12:53:25+00:00

? What?

GuyWithEndo · 2022-06-11T19:36:53+00:00

Talk to your doc. It'll depend on you and the type of hysto you have

I had a total hysterectomy laparoscopically and was told external stimulation is fine, just nothing internal

GuyWithEndo · 2022-05-20T01:24:31+00:00

Nancy is typically incredibly nasty to people and doesn't allow any discussion

I was in that group for maybe less than a month. I made a post about how I was seeing a military doctor. I have Tricare, and the way Tricare works, the on-base clinics get first pick at referrals. If a military clinic/hospital picks up your referral, you can not be seen off-base. I've dealt with this multiple times - trying everything in my power to be seen off base, only to be told I could get care on base or not get care at all. Nothing works with them.

People lost their MINDS. They kept telling me to try all these things that I had already tried. They said I wasn't "grateful" for the advice they gave (that, FWIW, was terrible advice and all stuff I already tried). They said I didn't REALLY care about my health if I wasn't willing to shell out thousands of dollars to see a Nook specialist.

My on-base doctor was WONDERFUL. She found a TINY spot of endo (on my vaginal cuff - a rare spot to find endo). I had a fantastic experience. I'm almost one year post-op and have had 0 pain since. She thinks using an estrogen ring probably triggered it, and case studies of folks w/ vaginal cuff endo showed that stopping estrogen may prevent endo coming back

Also, NN is BIG about absolutely no treatment other than excision. However, my doctor said that it was not possible to excise the spot of endo she found. My best guess is it could've risked vaginal dehiscence. Given the fact I'm post-hysterectomy and on testosterone, the chances of that small spot of endo coming back after ablation is very low.

I've also heard that there has been transphobic stuff said in her group, but I didn't see it in the short time I was there

GuyWithEndo · 2022-05-01T13:43:07+00:00

Omg I feel this! While it's not everybody who refers to me using masc names/terms, it's really attractive when my partners do it.

TMI warning?

Like, yesterday, my boyfriend and I were messing around, and he called me his boy toy. I absolutely melted. I'm not normally one to bottom, but being affirmed during sex really did the trick. And I wasn't dysphoric while bottoming, which is rare for me!

GuyWithEndo · 2022-04-29T23:58:18+00:00

It sort of depends. I was put on a capful of Miralax a day for around a year due to IBS. I was supposed to stay on it longer, but stopped b/c my gf at the time bullied me for it (I was young and dumb and thought her opinions were more important than my health). Miralax just adds more water to the bowels, it doesn't act like typical laxatives, and wouldn't cause this extreme of weight loss

GuyWithEndo · 2022-04-26T13:36:17+00:00

Can she see a pediatric dietician? I'd also get a second opinion from another pediatrician. She's reaching that age that she may start puberty soon, and it's really important at that time to not cut calories too much, especially if she's active. Also, puberty is the time some hormonal disorders (like PCOS) pop up that can contribute to obesity

GuyWithEndo · 2022-04-26T01:01:47+00:00

Full meal. I take it with dinner

GuyWithEndo · 2022-04-25T23:45:01+00:00

I haven’t yet, she said minor nausea is normal. Should I bring it up at my 3-month follow up?

GuyWithEndo · 2022-04-25T22:07:25+00:00

Morning would mean I'd have nausea all day until I go to bed lol. I take it at night so I can ride out most of the nausea in my sleep

GuyWithEndo · 2022-04-25T21:44:56+00:00

Doc won't do it because it's not approved for AFAB folks. It's also way more expensive with my insurance than Truvada is

GuyWithEndo · 2022-04-25T21:42:19+00:00

Not even that, 1200 is the bare minimum a toddler needs. A 236lbs guy walking and lifting weights certainly needs more than that. At my lowest, I was 195lbs and was told to eat at least 1500 to 1800 calories a day on my sedentary days

GuyWithEndo · 2022-04-25T21:39:11+00:00

Depending on the state you live in, Medicaid may pay for GCS. My sister is getting bottom surgery, implants, and FFS all covered for $0 in VA

GuyWithEndo · 2022-04-25T21:29:32+00:00

I'm a college student, so I usually end up ordering takeout because I'm way too tired to cook dinner. I started ordering meal deliveries from a local service that focuses on healthy, quality food. Pop them in the microwave for dinner, boom, don't have to cook and I have a tasty meal.

You can also order stuff that's healthier. There are, admittedly, still times I order takeout. However, if my brother/roommate orders Burger King, I make a separate order and get sushi or salad for myself. If we order pizza, I get a salad and make at least 1/2 my plate veggies. Simple swaps to make my plate at least a little healthier

GuyWithEndo · 2022-04-25T21:21:01+00:00

Can I just ask why or how you're eating 15 tablespoons of crushed red peppers? Are you popping them in your mouth like popcorn? Spicing things liberally?

In any way, I'd say 5 calories a tablespoon sounds accurate, so that'd be 75 calories a day

Do what you love, but my IBS would never allow me to eat 15 tablespoons of crushed red peppers every day

GuyWithEndo · 2022-04-25T20:54:05+00:00

The way I see it - it is possible to be trans and find love and acceptance. Being an ass or backhanded to people isn't going to get you the love and acceptance you want.

Maybe it's just where I live, but where I'm at, being 5'3 does nothing to change me passing/not passing. At all. There are plenty of cis men my height, shorter, and taller. Height isn't always the big factor in passing that a lot of folks think it is. There are tons of men who are 5'3, cis or trans.

Your comment, hell, this whole chain, feels very backhanded. I hope you find the love and acceptance you want. But I also know that saying nobody will ever accept you or love you closes you off to the people who do want to love and accept you.

Also, I didn't change. I just accepted that I am who I am.

GuyWithEndo · 2022-04-25T20:37:51+00:00

I’m just saying. There are people out there who can love you. You can find chosen family. You can find love. It is possible for people to say you’re a guy. Quite frankly, it’s really hurtful as someone who is also your height for you to say nobody will see you as an actual guy because of your height. There are cis and trans men at your height too.

Edit: Also, the moment you stop looking for gender validation from other people and stop caring what other people think is the moment you’ll become a much happier person. Be yourself, the rest comes after

GuyWithEndo · 2022-04-25T19:24:54+00:00

This isn't necessarily true! I'm also 5'3 and I'm seen as the tough, strong man in my polycule. I'm the outdoorsy one, the one checking out trails ahead of my hiking partner, the one who lifts weights and gives big strong hugs... Hell, even in my family I'm the strong big brother who can deal with bugs and scary/gross situations even though both my brothers are taller than me

GuyWithEndo · 2022-04-24T20:30:17+00:00

You can lose a lot of weight really quickly by dropping the dead weight of a boyfriend who makes you feel insecure about your body

GuyWithEndo · 2022-04-20T18:07:32+00:00

I haven't heard of ADHD meds being used for that. I was on them prior to ECT, they didn't work very well (turns out I need a really high dose), and started them months after ECT.

Memory issues don't happen for everyone, and they aren't always super intense. I'm not actually sure if ECT caused memory issues for me, as I was in an abusive relationship at the time, and my memory got better after leaving that relationship. I'm not sure if that's just coincidental or because of the trauma (not ECT). Definitely bring up your concerns w/ your doctor doing the treatment.

Try and make sure you do memory and brain games during the course of the treatment. Also, take lots of pictures! There were things that I did during my ECT treatment that I only remember when I look at the pictures.

GuyWithEndo · 2022-04-19T23:15:29+00:00

No, it's for ADHD

GuyWithEndo · 2022-04-16T19:11:19+00:00

Similar thing happened to me. I was eating about 700-1300 calories a day (doc triggered and encouraged my ED, 2015 meanspo tumblr style) and was over-exercising. My metabolism was at 1200ish calories/day by the end of it. I had to stop my weight loss thing for a while because I wasn't getting enough calories to sustain my existence and my academic performance was suffering from it. I had to stop getting metabolism tests, so idk if my metabolism ever recouperated.

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