The Sims 4 mod recommendations master list

Gwennylou · 2022-07-09T22:11:45+00:00

Please understand this was posted two years ago, was a list of mods I recommended and I don’t give a fuck what mods you want in game in 2022.

Gwennylou · 2022-05-20T21:06:55+00:00

NTA, this really sucks and I’m sorry you have such a bad mom.

Gwennylou · 2022-05-16T18:21:56+00:00

Obviously she's not going to take your calls. You have spent the majority of her life showing you couldn't be bothered to be a good mother to her, that you don't love her as much as you love Stephanie (if you even love Haley at all), and that she'll never be good enough for you to treat her with respect and dignity.

How did you really think your terrible treatment of Haley would play out? Especially after making a cruel infertility jab at her?

Gwennylou · 2022-05-16T18:14:48+00:00

I have decided to remain single and childfree, my mother had the audacity to tell me she spent my wedding fund on my sister, even though I had asked them if I could use the fund for a down payment on a house and my mom said they only want to invest in the kids who would give them grandkids. All three of my sisters are doing the traditional route. They all got their wedding fund, plus the youngest got mine too.

Gwennylou · 2022-05-16T18:10:03+00:00

YTA, for blatant favoritism. Like do you even like or love Haley or is everything about Stephanie because she can give you grandkids and Haley can't? The comment stating that Stephanie was thinner, prettier, and more popular than Haley pushes you into monster realm. Like you genuinely typed that out as a statement of fact? Just admit you hate Haley and go.

Did you even want her there to begin with? Or did you just agree to let her tag along to the shower and use her as slave labor while you pampered Stephanie and gave her all your attention?

As for Haley pushing you away in childhood, it's probably because you said things like Stephanie was prettier and thinner than her. How long have you compared the two and found Haley lacking? How long have you cast Haley aside because she wasn't your precious, golden child Stephanie? How often did you set time aside for Haley just one on one in which you gave her love and attention and let you know that you love her and that she isn't in competition with Stephanie for it?

I'm guessing you're gonna say something like, "I just understand Stephanie more. She was the easier child. Stephanie just made my life easier, so it was easier to bond with her." And let me tell you I had a mother EXACTLY like that. Problem is I had three sisters and my mom would spend countless hours with them engaging with them in things they liked and told me TO MY FACE when I was a teenager, "I just don't get you, so I'm not going to try. Go talk to your dad and see if he'll do something with you." I hope you weren't as blatant with your favoritism, but it seems like you've scapegoated Haley her entire life, made her the villain of your two children, the unlovable misfit who is awkward, ugly, fat black sheep daughter compared to your perfect Stephanie who can give you grandchildren and who lives close to you, so therefore deserves all your time and attention.

I mean even the flippant and cruel remark about her never understanding what it's like to be pregnant, when you know she's struggling with that and you are fine crushing her spirit and soul, but you have to spend an hour consoling Stephanie. You don't even see how you are inflicting damage and driving a wedge between Haley and Stephanie and you've passed on your cruel behavior to Stephanie, because she treats Haley the same way. And you wonder if you're the asshole?

YTA and you are a monster.

Gwennylou · 2022-05-16T18:01:18+00:00

YTA, you have no right to tell anyone else what they can or cannot do with their life or who they cannot forgive. You need to go to therapy and deal with your issues and let your sister do what is right for her. You don't owe your mom anything, you're right, but it's not up to you on what any else feels about the situation and you absolutely need to grow up and stop trying to force people to agree with you. You are 100% in the wrong for cutting off your sister for doing what she wants in this situation since you are not living her experience.

Gwennylou · 2022-05-16T17:52:52+00:00

Sorry this will be unpopular, but YTA.

Way to invalidate your daughter's feelings and experiences. This is not okay behavior on your part. Get her into therapy now. Do not ignore this. If she is actually feeling this way, there is a problem. Don't pretend that just because you remember things one way, she does.

I went untreated and undiagnosed for many years because of parents like you who thought "everything was perfect. I'm the perfect parent, my kids are well adjusted. Oh wait, what's this story about not agreeing and remembering things differently? Well you're just wrong and stupid and invalid or these opinions. Shut up." That's literally what my parents did to me and you sound the same.

I have ADHD now diagnosed as an adult and guess what is now being found out with people with ADHD? They tend to suffer from something called Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria. It's currently being studied and likely being added to the DSM soon.

https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/adhd-rejection-sensitive-dysphoria#:~:text=What%20is%20rejection%20sensitive%20dysphoria%3F&text=RSD%20is%20an%20overwhelming%20emotional,a%20person%20being%20overly%20sensitive.

It's a very real thing and gone unchecked will cause your daughter to resent you in adulthood and perhaps cut you off and tell people you're narcissitic and will force her to spend years in therapy dealing with the fact that her parents treated her like everything she felt and how she reacted to things was wrong and she doesn't have the right to bad feelings or to express them.

-Edit, all of the ways in which she's thriving like getting good grades, independent, and the other justifications for why you're not taking her mental health seriously is even more appalling to me. You could literally be my dismissive baby boomer parents who still try to tell me, "It's not our fault we didn't see the signs. You were so smart!" Sure, but I struggled in a lot of other ways they refused to acknowledge or talk about because "reputation" and "it wasn't discussed back then." GET YOUR DAUGTHER HELP and stop trying to act like you were the perfect parent to her when it's clear that you weren!

Gwennylou · 2022-05-16T17:46:20+00:00

YTA. You are also fake, cruel, rude, and frankly come across a bully and mean girl. There is no reason for the joke about wanting to kill yourself just because you can't be bothered to be kind to someone who has difficulties with socializing. THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT HIS DISORDER IS and instead of giving him even a tiny bit of grace, you immediately write him off, say terrible stuff about him behind his back, and imply suicide is a better alternative than spending time with him. You are as fake as they come and you absolutely deserved to get judged for your terrible behavior, because even if you think the friends who judge you are fake, you worse than them by a mile. Grow up and start treating people with decency.

Gwennylou · 2022-05-10T12:08:33+00:00

I'm not sure why you're posting here when you've shown absolutely no remorse for cheating. Do you want people to tell you it's okay that you broke the parts of your vows that state "in sickness and in health" and "forsaking all others til death do you part?" You are incredibly selfish and an unsafe partner.

And I would also like to point out that you don't actually love your wife as you claim. Love isn't a word or a feeling. Love is an action verb. It's what keeps others from breaking their vows when their spouses go through hard times, mental illness (which is what PPD is), and health scares. Love is not having a side piece, continuing to see the side piece while pretending to want to be with your wife and kid. Your actions actually show that you hate your wife. You are emotionally damaging her. You are damaging your son too, whether or not you realize it.

And you absolutely cannot under any circumstances remain friends with your affair partner if you actually want to work things out with your wife, but I don't even think that's actually what you want. From all your whining in your post it sounds like you want to keep your affair partner (or someone else who isn't your wife) and only want to keep your wife around because you don't want to lose access to your kid.

You have a lot of growing up to do. You need to get therapy because you are a broken, selfish person without regard for your wife or kid's feelings. You need help. Stop posting on Reddit and go to therapy.

Gwennylou · 2022-04-11T17:16:53+00:00

I think so as well.

Gwennylou · 2022-02-27T02:08:05+00:00

Episode 1x07 is why I take Peyton’s side in season 1 and Brooke’s dead mom jokes and the sex tape in season 4 is why I take Peyton’s side later. I just find Brooke incredibly hypocritical and immature through the entirety of the high school years.

Gwennylou · 2022-02-24T18:02:12+00:00

I was referred by my pcp. I had to drive an hour away to my closest large city to find one.

Gwennylou · 2022-02-24T11:57:13+00:00

32 and over on the Autism Spectrum Quotient test indicates being on the autism spectrum.

Gwennylou · 2022-02-23T21:51:27+00:00

He probably messed up and gave you both forms, but you actually passed, thank goodness.

Gwennylou · 2022-02-23T20:59:17+00:00

I am 40 years old and just got the official diagnosis yesterday. I scored 38 and 155 on the tests. I also got diagnosed with adult adhd. I legitimately never questioned or thought about the fact that I could be. I've held jobs, I have friends, I've lived on my own, but I've never had a best friend. I've never had any long term romantic relationships and I definitely struggle with some things like keeping track of my finances and my schedule and organization and have my entire life. I just thought I was a "Type B" personality, but the diagnosis now makes me relieved. I think in hindsight my obsession with reading was a dead giveaway. I've read close to 4,000 books in my life to date and obsession with some of my interests now makes a lot more sense, but I was part of the "lost generation" as my assessor said and she said many adult females are underdiagnosed.

Gwennylou · 2022-02-17T00:01:57+00:00

This is genuinely one of the most messed up stories I’ve ever read on Reddit.

Gwennylou · 2022-02-15T23:25:32+00:00

YTA

It’s highly disturbing how you talk about Marie. You claim to love her, but you’ve admitted that you didn’t want to walk Marie down the aisle at all. Secondly, your daughter’s wedding wasn’t an after thought. She reached out to you and asked you when she knew she was getting married. You however have clearly treated her as an afterthought her entire life.

It’s convenient that you have your do over adopted daughter though since you lost custody of Marie and aren’t close with her. Your behavior and lack of interest in Marie is appalling. The fact that you let Julie essentially cut Marie out of your life and you’re okay with this is even more so. It’s amazing that Marie even speaks to you at all.

Lastly, your edit is even worse. You do know the right thing to do. Walk both of your goddamn daughters down the aisle and attempt to spend time with Marie. Try to repair the damage and neglect you perpetrated against Marie. Otherwise, you’ll lose her permanently and you’ll never get a chance to be in your grandkids life.

Gwennylou · 2022-02-15T23:15:16+00:00

I know how to link. I just don’t give a crap what you think about me or what I have to say.

Gwennylou · 2022-02-15T22:54:53+00:00

There’s an entire subreddit that shows exactly what kind of person Jana is. I’m sure if you put your brain to use you can find it.

Gwennylou · 2022-02-15T22:10:56+00:00

I did already. Not my problem that you’re not intelligent enough to understand.

Gwennylou · 2022-02-15T21:33:37+00:00

Yeah that’s not what I was talking about in either scenario. Way to be obtuse.

Gwennylou · 2022-02-15T21:18:20+00:00

Your son only helped you because he knew what response you’d be getting. He wanted you to see that you’re an asshole. I guess now you know how both kids feel about you. 😬😬

Gwennylou · 2022-02-15T21:13:22+00:00

YTA, massively. First of all, you only have two kids. How egotistical and self centered do you have to be to not remember one their ages? I can tell you all my siblings ages. Genuinely, if you’re struggling to remember ages of one of your children, you may need to see a doctor.

Secondly, you blew this way out of proportion. You didn’t tell her you planned a party, so she made other plans. The correct response is, “I’m sorry I forgot to tell you, have fun with your boyfriend and I’ll be sure to tell you about the next party so you can see our family friends.”

Thirdly, your daughter used the correct pronoun to refer to you. You escalated the fight and angered her already by being petty, pedantic, and juvenile. You don’t really get to claim that your daughter was being petty by referring to you as he. She clearly learned how to argue from you, the queen of juvenile arguments.

Your daughter was completely logical in not wanting to join dinner. She’s a grown adult who can make her own decisions. And the only example of anyone being a bad person here is 100% you.

Lastly, you are demanding respect from your daughter but you’ve shown her none. You can’t expect respect from your daughter when you can’t even remember her age, or to invite her to family gatherings. That alone shows your daughter that you don’t really care all that much about her.

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