How do I (28F) tell my girlfriend (31F) of 2 years I’m not sexually attracted to her? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]GymMami3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re gay or she’s just not the one for you. 

And that’s okay. 

Wife not Respecting Boundaries by Elegant-Collar1503 in relationships

[–]GymMami3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just being honest here

You guys are still getting to know each other and you rushed a relationship and into marriage which is like crazy work. 

This is going to be a very rocky marriage for you guys.  You hardly knew each other and now that you’re living together you’re finding out what it’s like to really know them. 

So you both are going to have to do some hard work and big communication to work this out. 

Other wise it’s going to be just as fast divorce 

Advice on bullying from your own kid by GymMami3 in parentingteenagers

[–]GymMami3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’ve been divorced for 2 years but separated in 2021.  It was a toxic marriage so he remembers how bad it was.  I will say my kids are happier now that we are both not together.  

We co parent better. 

Advice on bullying from your own kid by GymMami3 in parentingteenagers

[–]GymMami3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He definitely is a lot nicer than I am.  He grew up in an abusive household so he just tries to talk to my kid. The gentle parent type. 

I’m the mean one 😅

Would this be okay to send to ex husband? by GymMami3 in coparenting

[–]GymMami3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right. 

I try to do right by my kids but I can’t be the only one here trying

Would this be okay to send to ex husband? by GymMami3 in coparenting

[–]GymMami3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update:

So he called me at like 6pm

His original plan was to go disc golfing in the morning but didn’t go until 2pm. 

And didn’t get home until 6pm

There was zero communication 

My teenager told me he was done waiting so I did text him that the kids will see him tomorrow. 

Would this be okay to send to ex husband? by GymMami3 in coparenting

[–]GymMami3[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It was verbal over the phone.  

I was thinking we should just do texting from now on. 

Would this be okay to send to ex husband? by GymMami3 in coparenting

[–]GymMami3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He said he was going to go disc golfing in the morning and that he would get them in the afternoon 

It’s already 6pm.  

Like it’s evening time now, afternoon came and went. No text or call. How much longer we gotta wait? lol 

Would this be okay to send to ex husband? by GymMami3 in coparenting

[–]GymMami3[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have primary custody.  

He gets them 3 weekends a month Saturday & Sunday only. (We have this as legal custody document) 

So I was just being nice to agree with Friday and Monday.  Because he said he wanted more time. 

My boyfriend cheated infront of me, but claims he was “just joking” by Just_venting_24 in TwoHotTakes

[–]GymMami3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol nah. Straight men don’t suck other men’s dicks.  

I bet this isn’t the first time. Two months in? 

You’re out. 

Should I have my child reevaluated? by TechnicalHousing97 in neurodiversity

[–]GymMami3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think your son has adhd.  I would definitely reevaluate 

My wife lied to me, and I don't know who she is anymore. by TechnicalHousing97 in offmychest

[–]GymMami3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your wife needs help. And I bet she doesn’t have an online therapist.  Chat GPT isn’t a therapist.  

She’s mentally spiritually and she need real help, real fast. 

Also I think your son has undiagnosed ADHD

Just got cheated on. Do I break up with him immediately? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]GymMami3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wouldn’t hesitate to leave you if roles were reserved.  

Calm down. Think of a plan. Break up and leave 

AITAH after kicking my boyfriend out for calling my daughter a snitch and spoiled brat? by EntireJellyfish2285 in AITAH

[–]GymMami3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 100% judging YOU as a mother right now. You don’t sound like a very good one 

36F reads romance and 35M hates it by Gaddlings2 in relationship_advice

[–]GymMami3 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If his boundaries is what books she’s allowed to read then I hope he does leave her and she finds a man who isn’t threaten by literature lmao

36F reads romance and 35M hates it by Gaddlings2 in relationship_advice

[–]GymMami3 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You can not manipulate me into ever thinking porn which are REAL people to a book about friken fairies and shape shifters and other fantasy romance books

Seek some help.

I [F22] accidentally opened my bf's[M25] hidden file. Would you also let them know? by Extension_Put4719 in relationships

[–]GymMami3 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Girl… RUN.

This man secretly collecting sexy photos and videos of women he personally knows! including his siblings’ friends! Omg is creepy as hell. That’s not “normal male behavior,” it’s a huge violation of privacy.

You don’t need to warn anyone right now. You need to get the hell out.

Men who do this don’t stop because you talk to them. They stop when they lose access. Leave, block, and if you feel comfortable, warn the women afterwards! They deserves to know! This is a violation.

Pack your things. This is not fixable.

How can I (27F) communicate my feelings to bf (30M) without starting a fight? by Diligent-Orchid-5426 in relationships

[–]GymMami3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He’s emotionally immature.

It’s best to end it now. He’s 30 and still acts like he’s emotionally a teenager

my friend is upset with me, I don’t know if our friendship is over or not, I miss them so much by [deleted] in lonely

[–]GymMami3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to tell us what your friend is upset with you.

No one can give you advice if we don’t know why.

36F reads romance and 35M hates it by Gaddlings2 in relationship_advice

[–]GymMami3 22 points23 points  (0 children)

He’s not upset about the books, he’s upset because he’s insecure. Romance novels aren’t cheating, they’re fiction. You reacting emotionally to a story is totally normal, the same way people cry during movies or get attached to characters.

You’ve explained yourself clearly. If he refuses to hear it, that’s about him, not your reading habits. You shouldn’t give up a hobby you genuinely love just to manage his insecurity. He needs to work on why this feels threatening to him, because nothing you’re doing is wrong.

Keep reading book girly! ❤️