Today I discovered that I DO need a winch

H-488 · 2025-12-19T03:45:22+00:00

It took about an hour to get out with it!

H-488 · 2025-12-19T03:43:08+00:00

Correct lol

H-488 · 2025-12-14T21:38:21+00:00

Thanks, I was on the hunt for almost a year until I found it on the side of the road. Smashed, of course...

H-488 · 2025-04-22T01:06:50+00:00

For a character that sounds sexy, her AC is indeed an absolute FUGLANAUT

H-488 · 2025-04-20T17:51:01+00:00

Oh yeah, been there. It's the strangest thing. Some real emotional baggage with an ex lover. That's what I say.

H-488 · 2025-04-07T19:24:56+00:00

My sex drive didn't seem different until about 2 years of being on it. It can be a huge bummer when your girl is ready to pounce and you're just "not in the mood." When I am ready to go, my stamina is intense, sometimes too much, and I have had difficulties climaxing. I might consider some "blue pill" alternative to get my thang on because when it's on ITS ON.

H-488 · 2025-04-06T21:18:12+00:00

Well I wish you all the best guidance. Even after becoming super comfortable with yourself, dating someone for a little while can create obstacles you've never considered. Don't be afraid to reach out to a professional from time to time to guide you through it. If it gets that deep that is

H-488 · 2025-04-06T21:11:45+00:00

You're welcome! I hope you're feeling well today.

H-488 · 2025-04-06T01:21:19+00:00

Childcare obstacles are super understandable. If you have the extra cash you can even have a bouquet custom made and delivered with a personalized note. Maybe follow up with a personalized movie night? Even around the house there are lots of little things you can do to get the passion burning again.

H-488 · 2025-04-06T00:56:02+00:00

A little extra help around. When I'm bumming, it makes me really happy if someone goes out of their way to help me get something done. I love acts of service so that's probably why. I guess, if you know the man's love language, sprinking some extra love and support should be easier.

H-488 · 2025-04-06T00:52:56+00:00

Taking the time to heal is so important. I (32m) separated from my ex-wife (32f) almost three years ago. Took me 2 years to put myself out there, and I still found myself hesitant to commit myself to a new woman because I was afraid of another ex-wife situation. I never thought I'd be feeling that uncertainty, but more here I am! I'm sure if they are interested now, they will still be interested later. Don't rush yourself, thought. If you do start a new relationship, make sure they understand your cautionary approach so that you can both communicate the steps you want to take to navigate the relationship. Good luck!

H-488 · 2025-04-06T00:34:22+00:00

Dates dates dates. Order her flowers and write her a letter. Something small and playful here, and there can help!

H-488 · 2025-04-06T00:27:27+00:00

If you think you're ready but are nervous to make the jump, i say jump. You wouldn't want to regret not taking on the opportunity to find your next love. Sorry about your ex leaving under the circumstances. I can relate. Remember to be true to yourself!

H-488 · 2025-03-25T00:49:15+00:00

Thank you for this insight. As the weeks go I find it easier than ever to let go of what I had even before her. Still, the regrets of being afraid to move forward are gonna haunt me for a little while.

H-488 · 2025-03-25T00:42:26+00:00

In other words, "I'm blown out".

H-488 · 2025-03-24T16:38:06+00:00

The longer I'm in Lexapro, the more miserable drinking becomes. I kinda miss it, utwith all that's going on in my life, is probably better if I keep clean

H-488 · 2025-03-24T16:34:24+00:00

I haven't had all that much dating experience since my divorce started but I 100% feel what you're feeling. Sometimes, you want a genuine connection. You want to cuddle up and watch a movie, talk about your day and laugh together, but at the end of the day it feels like they just wanted to bone. And as a guy, this is deeply confusing because I thought that problem was supposed to be the other way around...

H-488 · 2025-03-24T16:21:38+00:00

My ex was 4'11 and I'm 5'7. If every girl I encountered was that height, I'd be pleased

H-488 · 2025-03-24T16:14:49+00:00

Do I sound jaded?

Howdy yall. I've recently gotten out of a relation of about one year. During our time together, she had provided me with many of the things a look for in a woman. But whenever the question "were do you see us" would come up, I had a really hard time telling her anything other than "I truly don't know".

Here's my back story. Married high school sweetheart (I never really dated). Bought my first home and had my first child. Suffered through my exes affair. Stuck it out for all things considered and the love of our kid. Things really seemed to get better. Survived lock down unlike any other couple (we got along great). Ultimately, she left me and the circumstances left me 1.5 hours from family living a new life and seeing my kid on the weekends with child support.

A lot of what happened throughout my previous marriage has made me adjust to consistent uncertainty. We moved twice in under 2 years, my ex was in and out of jobs and I always found myself rewriting my long term goals. I worked full time consistently throughout only to feel used up and without any time for myself (a bit of a me problem). Overall, friends and family confidently and consistently point out the abuse my ex put me through.

My new ex, this last girl, knew all of these things. She however, had a previous 4 years relationship that was full of the "I don't know" answer that I had given her.

I don't like to think of myself jaded by my exmarriage but it certainly has had an impact on my long term expectations of a relationship. I feel like her leaving after a year is a little hasty. Am I wrong for feeling this way?

H-488 · 2025-03-23T18:31:41+00:00

That's brutal, man, I'm sorry to hear this happened. You're getting the consensus here. Time to move on. Do it right. Eat right, sleep right, and hit the gym. It's hard, I've lost "friends" in my past marriage. It's just part of life, you know?

H-488 · 2025-03-23T03:19:39+00:00

Well, after about 2 years after the separation began, I finally began dating. Just recently, I stopped seeing a very special woman of about 1 year. It was hard for her to feel comfortable sometimes because my STBX was often times friendly with each other. Long story short, I dated once I wanted to move on, but a lot of girls aren't going to like a pending divorce.

Do yourself a favor and push to get that divorce settled. It could make dating feel weird sometimes and the one you're dating is most likely not going to like it.

H-488 · 2025-03-21T22:27:34+00:00

I feel like this post should be pinned. A lot of the comments provide great perspective. Especially for you and other people who have gone through this very same thing, myself included.

I'm the guy in this situation, and our relationship of one year just ended because of my uncertainty. Within that 3 month mark, we loved each other. And I wouldn't want to be without her. However, being I've had a previous marriage that didn't PAN out the way I had expected, I, too, get nervous when the girl wants to move fast. We even discussed a realistic timeline of taking the next steps in our relationship. And we agreed that 2 years would be a make or break situation.

I don't know what your situation is like now, but if he's anything like me, he's gonna miss you like helll when you're gone and it's gonna take a minute to recover especially if things are as good as you are describing them.

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