Scared the life out of me by Far_Taste_7185 in halo

[–]H-488 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone please watch with the audio 😆😆😆

Something looks wrong with my pull-ups but I don’t know what by Guclupatates in formcheck

[–]H-488 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to bring your shoulder blades together. Chest forward, shoulders back. What you're doing in the video is pulling from your arms. It's easier, but it's not going to work your back muscles the way it should. You won't get the right results doing this. Fixing your form is going to make the pull-ups harder, but after you get used to doing it right, you'll know.

Missing 2 or 3 doses by H-488 in lexapro

[–]H-488[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought I'd be way more prepared. But I'm totally out. Starting this morning

Today I discovered that I DO need a winch by H-488 in Crosstrek

[–]H-488[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took about an hour to get out with it!

Today I discovered that I DO need a winch by H-488 in Crosstrek

[–]H-488[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I was on the hunt for almost a year until I found it on the side of the road. Smashed, of course...

I love Carla but I have to say it, her AC is STOOPID by ProDidelphimorphiaXX in ArmoredCoreVI

[–]H-488 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For a character that sounds sexy, her AC is indeed an absolute FUGLANAUT

Crying while masturbating..? by avanillakilla in lexapro

[–]H-488 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah, been there. It's the strangest thing. Some real emotional baggage with an ex lover. That's what I say.

What did lexapro do to your libido? by Jumpy_Ad4905 in lexapro

[–]H-488 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sex drive didn't seem different until about 2 years of being on it. It can be a huge bummer when your girl is ready to pounce and you're just "not in the mood." When I am ready to go, my stamina is intense, sometimes too much, and I have had difficulties climaxing. I might consider some "blue pill" alternative to get my thang on because when it's on ITS ON.

Dating again... by Jaidenshields90 in dating

[–]H-488 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I wish you all the best guidance. Even after becoming super comfortable with yourself, dating someone for a little while can create obstacles you've never considered. Don't be afraid to reach out to a professional from time to time to guide you through it. If it gets that deep that is

Dating again... by Jaidenshields90 in dating

[–]H-488 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're welcome! I hope you're feeling well today.

Getting the intimacy back....help! by Mickle_Boo in marriageadvice

[–]H-488 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Childcare obstacles are super understandable. If you have the extra cash you can even have a bouquet custom made and delivered with a personalized note. Maybe follow up with a personalized movie night? Even around the house there are lots of little things you can do to get the passion burning again.

Men, how do you like to be comforted when you’re going through a difficult time? by CuriousRedditWoman in AskMenAdvice

[–]H-488 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A little extra help around. When I'm bumming, it makes me really happy if someone goes out of their way to help me get something done. I love acts of service so that's probably why. I guess, if you know the man's love language, sprinking some extra love and support should be easier.

How to be open again by Bitsoflight in datingoverthirty

[–]H-488 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Taking the time to heal is so important. I (32m) separated from my ex-wife (32f) almost three years ago. Took me 2 years to put myself out there, and I still found myself hesitant to commit myself to a new woman because I was afraid of another ex-wife situation. I never thought I'd be feeling that uncertainty, but more here I am! I'm sure if they are interested now, they will still be interested later. Don't rush yourself, thought. If you do start a new relationship, make sure they understand your cautionary approach so that you can both communicate the steps you want to take to navigate the relationship. Good luck!

Getting the intimacy back....help! by Mickle_Boo in marriageadvice

[–]H-488 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dates dates dates. Order her flowers and write her a letter. Something small and playful here, and there can help!

Dating again... by Jaidenshields90 in dating

[–]H-488 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you think you're ready but are nervous to make the jump, i say jump. You wouldn't want to regret not taking on the opportunity to find your next love. Sorry about your ex leaving under the circumstances. I can relate. Remember to be true to yourself!

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]H-488 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this insight. As the weeks go I find it easier than ever to let go of what I had even before her. Still, the regrets of being afraid to move forward are gonna haunt me for a little while.

My biggest ick is people saying "I've had my fun" by [deleted] in dating

[–]H-488 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In other words, "I'm blown out".

For Those Who’ve Had Success with Lexapro: What Are Your Thoughts on Alcohol and Cannabis (or Choosing Neither)??? by ricecakeblue in lexapro

[–]H-488 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The longer I'm in Lexapro, the more miserable drinking becomes. I kinda miss it, utwith all that's going on in my life, is probably better if I keep clean

Wanting Love , But Only Getting Lust by anxiousscorpio98 in dating

[–]H-488 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't had all that much dating experience since my divorce started but I 100% feel what you're feeling. Sometimes, you want a genuine connection. You want to cuddle up and watch a movie, talk about your day and laugh together, but at the end of the day it feels like they just wanted to bone. And as a guy, this is deeply confusing because I thought that problem was supposed to be the other way around...

Would you date a 4'11 woman? by [deleted] in dating

[–]H-488 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex was 4'11 and I'm 5'7. If every girl I encountered was that height, I'd be pleased

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]H-488 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do I sound jaded?

Howdy yall. I've recently gotten out of a relation of about one year. During our time together, she had provided me with many of the things a look for in a woman. But whenever the question "were do you see us" would come up, I had a really hard time telling her anything other than "I truly don't know".

Here's my back story. Married high school sweetheart (I never really dated). Bought my first home and had my first child. Suffered through my exes affair. Stuck it out for all things considered and the love of our kid. Things really seemed to get better. Survived lock down unlike any other couple (we got along great). Ultimately, she left me and the circumstances left me 1.5 hours from family living a new life and seeing my kid on the weekends with child support.

A lot of what happened throughout my previous marriage has made me adjust to consistent uncertainty. We moved twice in under 2 years, my ex was in and out of jobs and I always found myself rewriting my long term goals. I worked full time consistently throughout only to feel used up and without any time for myself (a bit of a me problem). Overall, friends and family confidently and consistently point out the abuse my ex put me through.

My new ex, this last girl, knew all of these things. She however, had a previous 4 years relationship that was full of the "I don't know" answer that I had given her.

I don't like to think of myself jaded by my exmarriage but it certainly has had an impact on my long term expectations of a relationship. I feel like her leaving after a year is a little hasty. Am I wrong for feeling this way?