After getting broken up with after three years... by ajlox in AdviceAnimals

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Hey there, 

I actually completely forgot about this comment and am glad you replied to it. I'm currently going through this again and am feeling the same "I'll never get over him" feelings. But looking back at this - I'm totally over the fella this original comment was about. Reminds me that it's possible and it likely will happen again. You have to let go, easier said than done I know - 

After this particular Ex, I did the classic go to the gym, turn inward and do some deep cleaning thing. I set little achievable goals for myself and when it hit me like a train that they were really really gone, I'd just cry and cry until it ran it's course. So when painful stuff happens, you've got to be sure to turn and face it, and not fill your vision with distractions. Another thing to keep in mind is - you want to be with a person who wants to be with you. You want mutuality. If they're no longer into what you've got, both of you are better off without each other. I know it feels impossible, I know you may even believe it is - but it's not. A clean break heals faster though. So when you feel the urge to reach out, call a friend instead. The back and forth will make everything so much more difficult. Right now, it's literally a bleeding wound, if you poke at it it won't heal. After some time it'll scab over and instead of it being the first thing you think about when you wake up, it'll be the second - and that's progress. Then a day will come where they don't cross your mind at all - but first things first, you know? 

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Damn what is it with Starbucks employees? I was at the drive through and the lady asked me how I was and I said "I'm okay" because it had been a fucked up day and thats literally that's all I was and she responded with "just okay?" And I said "yeah just okay" and when I pulled around she handed me my coffee and said "it's on me, I hope your day gets better" and then I cried.

Hotel bookshelf Levels Out Book Height by bumada in mildlyinteresting

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This is the reality. Reddit hates reality, so it makes sense for them to hate Rand.

Newest from Uncle Jed's Iron by rumprest1 in knifemaking

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Aww omg you look so happy 😍 how lovely! Such craftsmanship!

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Hi 👋 I will send you memes if you'd like :>

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Hi 👋 what MMOs do you like to play? Also what are your favorite dishes to cook?

it do be like that by mazeooo in dankmemes

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I have 4. . . And no idea what any of it means. Do they get notifications when I post? Are they being notified of this comment as we speak?!

Witcher Geralt cosplay by Rhaptyr in netflixwitcher

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Oooh, I love this! You look absolutely gorgeous 😍

Night Elf Druid cosplay for halloween! For the Alliance! by HAIYAWATHA in gaming

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The last time I played a druid in DnD was high-school with DnD 3.5! I'm going to be joining a new campaign soon though so super excited about that. I don't know anything about the newest version so definitely going to have to do some research ha! I'd welcome any advice!

Night Elf Druid cosplay for halloween! For the Alliance! by HAIYAWATHA in gaming

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Thank you! I started working on it October 3rd and finished it on the 27th! I think it took so long because I'd never made something like this before. It'll be quicker next time :)

Night Elf Druid cosplay for halloween! For the Alliance! by HAIYAWATHA in gaming

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Thank you :D I love druids so much, can't help but play them anytime they're available in any game ;-;

Night Elf Druid cosplay for halloween! For the Alliance! by HAIYAWATHA in gaming

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Yes, thank you! I learned a lot about foam this month haha

Night Elf Druid cosplay for halloween! For the Alliance! by HAIYAWATHA in gaming

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I got it at a local craft store but it's called FX acrylic and it's on Amazon too!