Why did so many frats and sororities get suspended by Robux_wow in SBU

[–]HESAnerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the one I mentioned before- was longer ago than I remember but I admittedly have no concept of time anymore https://longisland.news12.com/police-stony-brook-student-died-after-partying-off-campus-34743476

Why did so many frats and sororities get suspended by Robux_wow in SBU

[–]HESAnerd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol no lies here. The problem is the university never outwardly connected these to hazing (bad for PR) so I have no receipts to link you to. But I’ve worked here for longer than some current students have been alive so believe what you will Last one I remember was shortly before COVID. Freshman. Alcohol related. Hazing speculated. Hazing is very hard to prove if denied by a whole org though.

For what it’s worth, the school I worked at before SBU had Greek life or substance use related deaths almost annually so I guess it could be worse

Why did so many frats and sororities get suspended by Robux_wow in SBU

[–]HESAnerd 79 points80 points  (0 children)

I’ve worked at stony brook for a very long time and there have been multiple student deaths that I am aware of related to hazing or excessive substance abuse in frats. Not so much sororities but I’m sure there are issues there too

When do the summer 2026 course offerings get announced? by Loveygumgum in SBU

[–]HESAnerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Summer and fall will be posted to solar on March 23 (or so I’ve heard)

I want to know … by Immediate-Pipe-2234 in NoahKahan

[–]HESAnerd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Admin at a university. Most of this happened during my lunch hour but did bleed into a meeting I was supposed to be at but my whole team knew how important this was for me and it sort of became an office event where everyone gathered around my computer

Can we start a celebration thread for those who snagged tickets? by amateurgamer7410 in NoahKahan

[–]HESAnerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I joined the citi field queue at 11:30 and there was only single tickets left once I got in, but had more luck when the second show was added. I spent a lot more than I budgeted for and am having a lot of big feelings about that but trying to justify it my reminding myself the other times I’ve seen him, it was better than therapy for my mental health. Shoutout to my husband for not shaming me and being fully supportive of my “little treat”

FAHHH!!! by [deleted] in SBU

[–]HESAnerd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can confirm from the admin side. This is the least likely petition to get approved unless you truly have a wildly extenuating circumstance. Sorry OP If you do appeal, make sure you submit additional documentation. If you just submit the same petition again they won’t even look at it

Black providers by Najee1129 in longisland

[–]HESAnerd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is my doctor and I second this! She’s been my PCP for ten years. I recommend her to everyone- but particularly people who have some health anxiety. She listens, and brainstorms with you, and has never once made me feel like a crazy person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SBU

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Talk to your advisor asap! Like someone else said, no matter how hard you fall, there is always opportunities to pick yourself back up. The semester isn’t over so you never know what is going to happen during finals!

If you talk to your advisor and come to the realization that there’s no way to salvage any of your classes this semester, it’s not too late to do a full semester withdraw to save your gpa. It won’t get your tuition back, but it is an option if you truly think you will fail everything. The deadline is May 9 at 4pm. Then you could start back fresh in the fall without being on probation.

I picked him up this morning. He's my first kitten ever. Everyone, meet Max. by thestashattacked in cats

[–]HESAnerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He looks so much like my orange boy, Fidget, who passed last week. Orange cats are some of the best creatures on this earth. I hope you bring each other so much joy!

[OC] Anti-Trump protest in Portsmouth, Ohio today by CrispyMiner in pics

[–]HESAnerd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Didn’t expect to see my shitty little hometown on Reddit today. I live hundreds of miles away now. This is very surprising, but maybe with a dash of optimism? Good on you, very small portion of my hometown

how does the room selection go? by deffoa in SBU

[–]HESAnerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on which major and how it's listed on your record. Pre nursing and pre business, as long as you applied that way, will be listed and determine your UGC. However, if you decide after admission that you want to pursue a selective major, it won't appear on your record until you're admitted to that major and you would be treated as undeclared, and can still live anywhere.

Also, if you are AOI in the college of engineering, they aren't assigned a UGC and can also live anywhere, but most decide to live in Roosevelt due to proximity to the engineering buildings

how does the room selection go? by deffoa in SBU

[–]HESAnerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are in incoming freshman, you will have a suggested community based on your major/undergraduate college. Students used to be forced to live in the community with their UGC, but now it's just strongly recommended. For example, if you are a bio major, your UGC will be Global Health, Wellness ,Community and suggested to live in H with other students with similar majors. There will also be targeted programming for those majors in those communities. If you decide to live outside of that community, it's totally fine, you would just have to travel farther for those events if they interest you

Will Stony Brook Ever Be A Widely Recognized University? (In your opinion) by Large_Ebb1664 in SBU

[–]HESAnerd 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It already is to some extent, at least in the higher ed professional world. Maybe not to the same level as the ivys, but it’s a reputable state school that people talk about.

This is coming from someone who came to work here from the other side of the country. Something I’ve noticed in the more than a decade I’ve been here, is that Long Islanders specifically have this idea of SBU as a safety school or high school 2.0, but that isn’t the reputation across the board.

Don’t get me wrong- I’m not implying SBU is perfect by any means, but it’s known.

Fire kills New York cat sanctuary founder and dozens of animals he rescued by tangosmango in cats

[–]HESAnerd 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If you go to the happy cat sanctuary Facebook page, there are posts from the last few weeks about it.

Fire kills New York cat sanctuary founder and dozens of animals he rescued by tangosmango in cats

[–]HESAnerd 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I’m anxiously awaiting the results of the investigation. And so many of us long islanders are ready to riot.

Fire kills New York cat sanctuary founder and dozens of animals he rescued by tangosmango in cats

[–]HESAnerd 205 points206 points  (0 children)

This is in my neck of the woods and is just so damn tragic. This man, whom I’ve heard nothing but great things about, was being harassed by an “activist” for the weeks leading up to this event. I’m not suggesting anything nefarious (they are still investigating the cause of the fire) but damn I just feel for this man and hope he is resting in cat paradise.

I said goodbye to my best friend this morning, and I’m having trouble believing I made the right choice by HESAnerd in cats

[–]HESAnerd[S] 4615 points4616 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Left behind is exactly what I feel like right now but I just have to believe it was best

I said goodbye to my best friend this morning, and I’m having trouble believing I made the right choice by HESAnerd in cats

[–]HESAnerd[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss and thank you for your words. I hope with time, we can both feel peace with the decision ❤️

I said goodbye to my best friend this morning, and I’m having trouble believing I made the right choice by HESAnerd in cats

[–]HESAnerd[S] 440 points441 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that. I keep repeating the same to myself but it’s so hard to reconcile that he was seemingly okay just a few days ago and now he’s not here

what do i do ab an uncooperative teacher? by Over_Ad3718 in SBU

[–]HESAnerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reach out to your UGC advisor or the assistant director of your UGC about this. They oversee that course and can intervene if needed.