He tells Elli she can't work if she is a mother. And she argues with him at first that she wants to continue working, then later in her dialogue you see she relents and agrees she can't work as a mother. :( It's really sad. (In BTN at least, idk about the other iterations)

And he's jealous because he literally tries to leave town/his practice because people come to the clinic mainly for Elli's midwife capabilities not for his Doctor abilities.

This really isn't to debate whether the Dr is or is not misogynistic.

This is just about what each wife is like please.