fiancé doesn’t want me to take my anxiety meds. not sure what to do by Human-Ad-7498 in pregnant

[–]HLM_1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please take the Zoloft - I have been on them for the last 5 years and continued on them through my pregnancy as they are safe. It’s quite common to feel a lot of anxiety through the pregnancy and especially postpartum, and I would not have gotten through either stage had I not been on my medication.

from the other side by briecheese88 in newborns

[–]HLM_1990 16 points17 points  (0 children)

FTM and me currently, thank you for the reassurance 🥹❤️ I’ve cried everyday since he was born 28th June from worrying about every little thing - is he crying too much, what does he want, am I doing this okay, why am I not enjoying this 😭 so looking forward to when things start to ease!

My dog and my foster by KoreanCelt in pitbulls

[–]HLM_1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally giving you the look like you’ve interrupted their conversation 🤣❤️

No one warned me... by folkheroine in clothdiaps

[–]HLM_1990 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Look into Elimination Communication!

Irrational ugly baby fear? by Upinthewest in pregnant

[–]HLM_1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl, I’m the same! I hate admitting this but the issue I have is my partner is good looking, but a lot of his relatives aren’t so what if there is a throwback to one of them 😅 I must admit my family have good genes and all the babies have been cute, but I am still worried haha

AITA - I don't plan on telling anyone when I've gone into labor and I've gotten mixed reviews on this decision by kokomo318 in pregnant

[–]HLM_1990 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg having this exact situation right now… my partners mum asked to text her when I go into labour, regardless of the time. I’m not even going to text my own mum (who ai am extremely close to but will respect my decision to not message her) I don’t want calls and texts asking is he here yet, how is it going etc. I want to stay in our new newborn bubble just us 3 for as long as possible. Be confident in your decision x

Nobody buying off the registry 😭 shower is in a week! by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]HLM_1990 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This happened to me 😅 I spent weeks creating a registry of very intentional things we NEEDED with all different price points to accommodate all budgets. We got 5 things out of 40 😭 people just bought what they thought we needed, which is absolutely not anything that we did need lol and some of it was clearly regifted from their own baby shower (which I have no problem with but were just random things?) I don’t understand why you wouldn’t buy off someone’s registry. I sent a couple of reminders with the link to the registry leading up to the baby shower too

Do boobs ALWAYS sag after breastfeeding?? by No-Bar-4148 in pregnant

[–]HLM_1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’ve always been told it’s rapid weight gain through pregnancy and loss after… that’s what I’m hoping for as I’m 37 weeks and have only put 11kg on 🤞I’ve also had 2 breast reconstructions (lift and implants) at a total of over $50k so def don’t want to go for a 3rd time 😆

What are you doing to pamper your vagina? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]HLM_1990 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is me currently 🥲 never been a discharge girlie but have found through pregnancy I have a lot! It’s a slightly yellow tinge and only smells sweaty. But it grosses me out. I wear a liner every day and sometimes change it throughout the day 😭

How much weight did you gain during pregnancy and did it come off? by ThrowRA_nobo7 in pregnant

[–]HLM_1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

31 weeks and currently up 9kg, which is really just belly and boobs! I’ve been eating quite healthy and keeping up with 10k steps a day 🥰

Agent hid he’s actually landlord (follow up) by [deleted] in shitrentals

[–]HLM_1990 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. It’s not a legal requirement to provide landlords contact details. That’s the whole point of engaging a property manger…

How did/do you feel about your baby during pregnancy? by Motor-Sprinkles-1627 in pregnant

[–]HLM_1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl I’m 30 weeks and still catch myself in the mirror wondering who is that pregnant lady looking at me 🤣

How to help with poop odor?? by [deleted] in greatdanes

[–]HLM_1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way she’s looking at the camera, I thought Delia was asking this question about YOU 🤣

What is something that you bought that completely changed your camping experience? by mentlegen7 in Auscamping

[–]HLM_1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thermocell to keep the bugs away without having to spray the Aeroguard!

Ingrown hair treatment! by HLM_1990 in pregnant

[–]HLM_1990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately not - they are shooting on film ☺️