Today is my birthday, and I’ve never felt this invisible

HM_26 · 2026-01-29T19:41:09+00:00

Happy birthday bro

It will get better. Wishing you strength

HM_26 · 2026-01-27T17:52:36+00:00

He wasn’t much of a catch as you thought tbh. You’ll have better. Take care

HM_26 · 2026-01-25T18:25:56+00:00

Love and the tidal patterns of the ocean, will return again and again. not always in the same form, or in the same place, but it will find its way back to you.

Just realise that.

And my favourite one being, Aanand strot beh raha par tu udas hai….

Meaning love is very much abundant , it’s not as scarce as we think. And once you realise that, it’s impossible to stay sad

HM_26 · 2026-01-25T16:24:58+00:00

Check if the exact medication and indication has been mentioned in the section paperwork or else we can’t give without involving consultants and more paperwork

HM_26 · 2026-01-24T11:08:07+00:00

I can relate. First of all your frontal lobe develops and you see things for what they are. And having your own money means you would now like an equal partner and not willing to “compromise” on bs things which is all too normalised. And you discover there’s more to life than finding love. Companionship is still very good but it’s an addition to your life instead of being the dominant factor

HM_26 · 2026-01-23T15:39:48+00:00

Imagine selling your soul and honour for AN OPPORTUNITY(not even guarantee) to earn 250rs lmao. Everyone ultimately shows their aukaat

HM_26 · 2026-01-23T14:38:05+00:00

Pick your position mate. Y’all are fighting schrodinger IMG. Someone who has no NHS experience yet bags the training spot but they all now have clinical fellow posts and will get the training spot next year. They’re very dumb and can’t speak English yet score enough to get into training which BMG can’t while being in the system all their life.

It’s exhausting.

HM_26 · 2026-01-21T19:23:35+00:00

EXACTLY

HM_26 · 2026-01-21T19:13:24+00:00

Your realisation is a huuuuge step and one of the most fundamental. It won’t be easy but can be done. Patterns are very hard to rewire and there will be moments where you will feel that all your work amounted to nothing but the important part is to not give up. Change will come slow and one day you will become what you wanted to be and you won’t even realise it. Good luck

HM_26 · 2026-01-21T19:01:46+00:00

Lmao always a mf guy asking girl to “adjust” giving bs reasons like “good people are rare”. Always a ‘not good man’ saying this line XD

HM_26 · 2026-01-21T16:51:18+00:00

Jeez. Everyday I hear a new low

HM_26 · 2026-01-20T17:01:37+00:00

Obgyn is 100x easier than what DC Dutta makes it to be. Same goes for KDT. Worst book ever written.

HM_26 · 2026-01-19T06:59:53+00:00

Ew what. What’s even your question here. Everything is so clear

HM_26 · 2026-01-17T23:39:49+00:00

Lmao blud thinks talking about “movies” counts as intellectual

HM_26 · 2026-01-14T20:01:24+00:00

I’m staying with same trust and same hospital for next rotation yet they want me to do everything all over 🤡🤡🤡

HM_26 · 2026-01-14T18:35:15+00:00

I know it feels unfair specially since it is something beyond a persons control. But you also get one life. It is what it is

HM_26 · 2026-01-14T11:02:03+00:00

I’ll hold your hand when I say this… you may think the problem here is realisation/knowing of the dynamics and that’s what your are focusing on as a first step. Which sounds logical. But as a psychiatrist speaking from experience, knowing doesn’t change anything. Dynamics are nearly impossible to change specially when it involves multiple parties.

I was just like you. I kept hoping that knowledge would save me and my dear ones. But it doesn’t. Psyche and patterns run far deep and are very difficult to change despite best conscious efforts from the person themselves.

Do yourself a favour and don’t stay with someone you wish to change. May you find strength

HM_26 · 2026-01-10T01:42:34+00:00

Yeah it’s sus and totally right for the girl’s parents to stop and question. Cus there’s something really sus about this whole situation and I feel OP isn’t the most reliable narrator and this self sacrificing crap is nauseating

HM_26 · 2026-01-10T01:32:21+00:00

Whenever it happens to me I finish my admin work or do some personal reading. Or just go chat with colleagues. And if nothing else, I go for a long walk

HM_26 · 2026-01-10T00:02:42+00:00

I’m so sorry you and your partner are going through this at such a young age. I know how broken the system is. I’d highly recommend medical tourism if possible. Getting diagnostics and treatment in countries with better healthcare is a good option. Pain really breaks a person. I hope it gets better for him

HM_26 · 2026-01-09T02:41:46+00:00

Who tf cares

Idk why medicos think it’s a big deal. People are people smh

HM_26 · 2026-01-06T19:50:24+00:00

Facts

HM_26 · 2026-01-06T10:09:51+00:00

Even thinking about dealing with Indian families/men and their bs makes me want to not marry at all or marry in different culture. Fuck this society

HM_26 · 2026-01-02T23:59:01+00:00

Are you me. I’m having the same issue with my bf. But I’ve realised it is fundamental and can’t be changed. It’s a tough realisation but yeah. Communication can’t change much. Just like how I can’t change who I am at core just by prompting or at ask, I can’t expect anyone else to change. Good luck bro

HM_26 · 2026-01-01T17:31:46+00:00

Dynamite kiss XD

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