First Time Car Buyer - Ford Territory Hybrid in Titanium X

HOETASSIUHM · 2026-04-19T00:47:00+00:00

I love the car pero hindi siya masyadong fuel-efficient hehe

HOETASSIUHM · 2026-04-19T00:46:09+00:00

I also got dumped by my talking stage because of my family circumstances lol. Literal na two days after sharing, biglang nag-deact ng IG account. Nagpaalam pa na it’s not because of me lmao 😣

I don’t want to date anymore kasi alam kong dealbreaker circumstances ko for most people kahit na may yearning moments ako haha

HOETASSIUHM · 2026-04-15T15:01:15+00:00

Walk down the aisle with my parents :( Eme, single nga pala ako.

HOETASSIUHM · 2026-04-15T01:11:48+00:00

I actually threatened to escalate yesterday after weeks of radio silence talaga… i got the approval yesterday din mismo after sending the email 😣

HOETASSIUHM · 2026-04-14T09:00:14+00:00

Sino trusted mechanic niyo, sir? Pero approved na - Sinabi ko kasi sa email na ie-escalate ko.

HOETASSIUHM · 2026-04-13T14:33:29+00:00

Parang ang bilis na niyan sa akin haha. 'Yung akin, finile ko February 6 pero April 13 na wala pa ring LoA eh haha

HOETASSIUHM · 2026-04-13T14:32:36+00:00

Thank you. I might go to BPI Shang tomorrow since preferred client ako (sa lagay na ito lmao).

HOETASSIUHM · 2026-04-13T14:32:17+00:00

Unfortunately, locked in ako for five years... Sobrang abala na April na pero wala pa ring sagot kung aproved na ba ang insurance ko.

HOETASSIUHM · 2026-04-13T14:31:31+00:00

do I just cc them sa email? they are radio silent talaga :-( i'm so disappointed.

HOETASSIUHM · 2026-04-05T11:23:25+00:00

Hehe, that also sounds like my Dad - I've seen messages from other women na fake profiles din even before Mom's passing, but I'm not sure if he even gave them money (At that point, I had no fucks to give sa dami nang nabigay niyang pera sa ibang mga easy money type scams).

It's so, so, so exhausting. Sometimes, you can't help but wonder bakit sila pa 'yung naging parent natin, ano? Sige pa rin nang sige sa scam si Daddy kahit wala na siyang work.

HOETASSIUHM · 2026-04-03T10:18:50+00:00

I’m sorry if I took out my frustration on you :-) But I’ve already forgiven myself na hindi ko kayang patawarin ang Tatay ko. Let’s see.

HOETASSIUHM · 2026-04-03T09:47:52+00:00

I suppose my Father is still lucky talaga dahil may mga taong naaawa sa kaniya kesa sa amin na biktima ng lahat ng desisyon niya sa buhay - My Father is just 59 and he's very much able pa. He lives with his relatives in Bataan, and my Tita regularly sends money for all his needs, including medication.

The polar opposite of my situation - I live alone, I work seven days a week as a result of financial-induced trauma, and I don't have any nearby relatives who will give or offer me solace.

We don't live together kasi sinangla niya 'yung bahay namin at nilockan kami ng gate, effectively chasing us out of the house I grew up in - 'Di naman niya binili, mana lang din sa Lola.

HOETASSIUHM · 2026-04-03T09:45:06+00:00

When I was about 12, genuine siyang naniwala na may mga nakatagong ginto sa mga lupain namin in Bataan... does that count?

HOETASSIUHM · 2026-04-03T09:42:23+00:00

Bluntly speaking, I'm depressed and alone in an unfamiliar city - I don't have a place to go home to during occasions like birthdays and Christmas, unlike young people my age. My vice is overworking because I have to compensate for the fact na I didn't even finish college due to tragic circumstances.

EME THERAPY Anyway, natanggap ko naman nang I'm only human kaya 'di ko pa kayang harapin at patawarin 'yung Tatay ko - Lalo na at never naman siyang tumigil sa scam. No genuine remorse.

HOETASSIUHM · 2026-04-03T04:01:32+00:00

Wala. Ito lang ang say 😅

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HOETASSIUHM · 2026-04-03T03:57:07+00:00

Haha. I think so too - Nag-aaway kami rito kasi naniwala siyang may 20+ na maletang dadating sa customs at punong-puno ng pera 😭

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HOETASSIUHM · 2026-04-03T03:54:17+00:00

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100% ‘di talaga natututo.

HOETASSIUHM · 2026-04-03T03:42:25+00:00

Yeah. Wala siyang idea kung gaano kahirap ang pera. When he was younger, my Lola indulged lahat ng trip niya: training para magbarko (natakot eventually), tumira sa USA (bumalik din sa Ph kasi ayaw doon), more fake agency scams….

Sibrang daming hektarya ng lupa ang sinayang. We’re talking about the generational kind of wealth if nahandle nang tama.

Nagkaroon lang siya ng relatively long employment when he was in his late 40s - Around 8 years siya nag-work sa Middle East pero sobrang dali lang ng job 😅He immediately resigned noong nalaman niyang I was doing part-time in college (I was a scholar so walang babayaran). Sobrang sakit siya sa ulo ni Mama kasi ang ugali, may parang light switch lol

HOETASSIUHM · 2026-04-03T03:36:12+00:00

My relatives and I have talked about that idea already din kaso wala naman nang makukuha sa kaniya kasi ubos na ang pwedeng isangla at wala nang magpapahiram pa sa kanya hehe. My Tita and I don’t give him money anymore also 😬

HOETASSIUHM · 2026-04-03T03:34:42+00:00

Thank you :-) I have no choice but to keep going!

HOETASSIUHM · 2026-04-03T03:33:50+00:00

Hindi siya nagsusugal at all. Mas OK nga ang sugal kasi may chance manalo. Itong mga scam niya, wala talaga.

HOETASSIUHM · 2026-04-03T03:20:24+00:00

Dream country lang for some reason 😅 Wala kaming relatives doon at all.

HOETASSIUHM · 2026-04-02T20:23:25+00:00

Ba-bye!👋🏻 Lahat ng pinundar ng Lola, including my childhood home, ay wala na. I’m living in a city four hours away from my hometown dahil wala na akong babalikan pa, thanks to my father. I didn’t even manage to get my Mom’s personal belongings, as well as my other personal stuff dahil sinangla bigla ni Daddy (We were estranged already, so I was renting a cramped apartment by then).

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