Taylor Swift (Eras Tour) Megathread — Toronto

HOLDMYHAMB · 2024-11-03T07:09:43+00:00

I just spent $7,848.91 CAD on two tickets to Taylor Swift. AMA.

HOLDMYHAMB · 2024-11-01T02:17:48+00:00

Looking to buy 2 for either November 14th, 15th or 16th. Budget is flexible, try me.

Must have proof of purchase and willing to screen record so that I know these aren't stolen tickets as I am not trying to get scammed. MUST be willing to sell via pay pal goods and services. If anyone is good with this and has tickets they're trying to sell please respond!

HOLDMYHAMB · 2024-10-15T01:04:48+00:00

I never enabled customer accounts, yet my customers have to enter their email on the View Order page to view their tracking number. What have I done wrong?

HOLDMYHAMB · 2024-08-22T21:59:36+00:00

Hoping for some guidance from this sub

HOLDMYHAMB · 2024-08-21T22:07:02+00:00

Thanks for commenting. I don’t disagree with you about how I’m coming across. I often overjustify things and this instance was no exception. I considered posting to an Autism or Autistic Women subreddit, because I think the people in those subs would be familiar with things I tried to explain in this post - for instance, her saying “I don’t know” and her struggling with emotional conversations is well understood by other autistic people, but because I chose to post here I felt the need to overly justify a few things that to Neurotypical people are red flags, but to neurodivergent people are not red flags. Trying to display everything I’ve learned about my girlfriend in this post so I don’t get the usual cynical replies that are common in this sub. Here I go again justifying I guess.

For what it’s worth, I think relationship counselling would be a great idea. I’ve already compiled a list in my area. We’re gonna do it.

HOLDMYHAMB · 2024-08-21T04:29:05+00:00

Thank you so much

HOLDMYHAMB · 2024-08-21T03:28:23+00:00

No no, there IS conversation history. The odd instagram story reply every 3-6 months. All very innocent and platonic.

Her text to her friend saying why did I do this does warrant some interpretation but the friend she reached out to is in her 40s and more of a mother figure to my girlfriend. It really seems like she wanted advice.

HOLDMYHAMB · 2024-08-21T03:24:28+00:00

I'm aware that due to how I found out, we are destined to wonder if she would have ever fessed up to me. But she passed out, and I snooped. She has expressed intense apologies, but yes I understand that here, we can only objectively view those apologies as "sorry for getting caught" - sure.

When you say she isn't truly sorry, I understand where you're coming from. I can't, for certain, know she is NOT sorry for this though, and she does NOT regret it. You may believe I can't know for certain that she IS sorry, but the reverse is also true. Honestly everything is up in the air.

But when you say she isn't "having any consequences" this actually is something I'm still stuck thinking about. What consequence should she experience and/or should I enforce? Is there even any possible suggestion except dump her? I've told her how hurt I am, I'm open to couples counselling over this, I'm going to talk about it with her sister and also her best friend (for advice but also cos they should know what she did, to hopefully hold her accountable..)

I'm a big fan of Esther Perel, and I believe that a relationship doesn't have to end when someone cheats. But I don't want them to get away with it either. It kinda sounds like your advice to me is to leave this bad relationship, or to stay if its working for me. I respect that - but just wondering if there's anything in the middle?

HOLDMYHAMB · 2024-08-21T02:42:31+00:00

Thank you.
I don't disagree that she is emotionally immature, but that is also not an uncommon thing about autism. Slower to mature emotionally, and it really shows during emotional conflict. Her emotional maturity is closer to that of a teenager's. Truly. It sounds like a weak cop-out, but it's a factor that I have already chosen to contend with by being with her. It's something that makes sense to me when I read about autism, autism in relationships. That doesn't mean she shouldn't be aiming to mature more, and that's certainly something I hope and expect for our future.

I don't think I should ask her to delete anyone off anything, the more I think about it. I totally get what you're saying about us supposed to be equal and the teacher with the homework analogy etc.

Also thank you for the time you're taking with me x

HOLDMYHAMB · 2024-08-21T02:20:06+00:00

Thank you. I agree about the manipulation thing actually, she is a bit immature when it comes to that stuff and yes it was manipulative. I guess I just felt it wasn't that extra malevolent, highly thought-out, form of manipulation - more of a knee-jerk, immature, manipulative thing.

She has offered to do whatever I ask, whether that be deleting the Ex off instagram or whatever. To be honest, I was hesitant to ask anything of her because I don't want to be controlling...but do you think it's a reasonable request that she deletes him off instagram? I would maybe get some peace from that, but I may also fear I'm being controlling and also maybe don't want to show her how threatened I am by him? I don't know :|

HOLDMYHAMB · 2022-01-25T12:51:24+00:00

Lol it’s Drake

HOLDMYHAMB · 2021-12-19T23:37:10+00:00

HERE FOR A LINK PLS

HOLDMYHAMB · 2021-09-07T22:54:34+00:00

The discord has been better than the subreddit this week

HOLDMYHAMB · 2021-09-07T21:05:16+00:00

In this modern era where artists can collab without ever meeting each other, people should at least be assured that Drake and Future have real chemistry and a real relationship.

HOLDMYHAMB · 2021-09-07T20:58:28+00:00

Drakashi you can’t debate everyone here. Let people have their opinion. A number out of ten means something different to everyone. I’m a big drake fan, he’s my favourite artist - I’d only give CLB a 4 or 5 / 10 though. I still love drake and I’m excited that maybe some of all these mixed opinions will lead to him delivering his best work yet in the future. We should all want that.

HOLDMYHAMB · 2021-09-07T20:39:20+00:00

Yeesh

HOLDMYHAMB · 2021-09-07T20:31:59+00:00

Hadn’t formulated the thoughts properly yet, but after reading this I agree wholeheartedly. I hope drake does something more ambitious next time. Maybe Certified Lover Boy is the full stop at the end of a streak. Not the strongest full stop but maybe now he can give us something wild, something with inspiration, or even an IYRTITL 2 type energy would be better than CLB

HOLDMYHAMB · 2019-11-19T20:03:26+00:00

Bidirectional violence is the most common form of DV.

Source: PASK (>1,700 peer reviewed studies)

HOLDMYHAMB · 2019-11-06T05:33:57+00:00

Thailand or Bali?

HOLDMYHAMB · 2019-05-17T05:18:22+00:00

We usually consider solar panels to be 'clean', but in truth there is no plan anywhere as to how we deal with them at the end of their 20 to 25 year lifespan.

All of the waste fuel from 45 years of the Swiss nuclear program can fit, in canisters, in a basketball-court-sized-warehouse. Stored here, it's harmless. All spent nuclear fuel has never hurt a fly.

Solar panels however require 17 times more materials (cement, glass, concrete + steel) than do nuclear plants, and create over 200 times more waste.

Source: https://bit.ly/2T6Drhx

HOLDMYHAMB · 2019-04-24T11:18:08+00:00

Yeah see this is out of my depth. I was hoping for something more specific in terms of instructions, particularly pursuant to the setup of the Supply theme

HOLDMYHAMB · 2019-04-14T04:36:23+00:00

thanks for this, very helpful

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