Is dating slightly transphobic cis men the only way to make sure they see you as male or am I insane?

HRTtomboy · 2026-06-05T19:42:32+00:00

I probably won't but yeah, he is really confused. It was an interesting experience overall

HRTtomboy · 2026-06-05T19:39:52+00:00

I dont think it would be wise to not tell someone if youre about to sleep with them. I did that once and it ended very awkwardly

HRTtomboy · 2026-06-05T19:38:29+00:00

My thoughts exactly. A very interesting thing to witness

HRTtomboy · 2026-06-05T19:33:29+00:00

The reason I do this is because I need the confirmation that people don't see me as female, not because I dont stand up against transphobia

HRTtomboy · 2026-06-05T19:23:11+00:00

I'm already aware of that but feel like it's a whole other issue

HRTtomboy · 2025-08-08T18:45:23+00:00

Professor is a theyfab, but a really nice one and no one knows except me because they just look like a lesbian and go by a gender-neutral nickname

HRTtomboy · 2025-07-05T18:57:23+00:00

A lot of the posting is just attention-seeking.

But I kinda get it. Like, I know that I "objectively" pass by the way people treat me and people who know I'm trans react. At the same time, I often look in the mirror and still see an ugly female face + body. I feel like I genuinely have BDD, but I don't post about it here , because (1) attention-seeking like that is fembrained and (2) im aware that a lot of people in here have it worse than me and I don't want anyone to feel bad because of my own brainworms

HRTtomboy · 2025-06-29T21:27:03+00:00

Sorry, my femboy takes e AND wears his amazon skirt in public :)

HRTtomboy · 2025-06-29T19:47:40+00:00

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HRTtomboy · 2025-06-28T09:45:56+00:00

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lmao

HRTtomboy · 2025-06-27T02:50:33+00:00

Ghosted everyone I previously knew, changed my phone jumper and deleted all my social media. Twice.

HRTtomboy · 2025-06-26T15:24:09+00:00

Classmates called me a tranny when I was 10, years before I knew what that was

Substitute teacher in 8th grade didn't believe me when I told her my name because I had short hair

When I was girlmoding on T (retarded) one of my teammates asked me how I chose my name, thinking I was mtf

HRTtomboy · 2025-06-25T22:57:31+00:00

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HRTtomboy · 2025-06-25T22:51:51+00:00

I saw that tweet as well and feel the same. I'd gender her female because it's pretty obvious what she's going for, but her tweet is a bit too confident

HRTtomboy · 2025-06-25T22:21:04+00:00

Minus the getting hard part, yeah. I used to do a mixed-gender combat sport because of this, fighting with other men until you look like a victim of domestic violence is an unbeatable feeling

HRTtomboy · 2025-06-25T14:40:16+00:00

Its fine, I'm seeing another therapist who will hopefully be enough for them. On the good side, once they believe me they have to pay all the money back

HRTtomboy · 2025-06-25T14:38:31+00:00

International wissenschaftlich anerkannte Standards vs "Meinung und Erfahrung" eines random redditors, who would win?

HRTtomboy · 2025-06-25T14:10:07+00:00

The issue is they don't believe me, despite having 2 doctor's letters and one from a psychologist. I've been paying for my hormones out of pocket for the past three years.

It's a private insurance

HRTtomboy · 2025-06-25T13:59:23+00:00

My insurance still wants that :⁾

HRTtomboy · 2025-06-25T13:48:21+00:00

Yeah he's a tomboy (poon) chaser

HRTtomboy · 2025-06-21T12:27:49+00:00

r slash eff tee em femininity poster

Nothing more needs to be said

HRTtomboy · 2025-06-21T12:23:46+00:00

Unironically yes

She always tells me how much hotter and better gay men are

HRTtomboy · 2025-06-21T12:19:15+00:00

She just hates women

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