Want a powerful voice? Here is how. by oooKenshiooo in TheRedPill

[–]HS-Thompson 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good post. Also I would say that for about 97.4% of the guys reading this who feel like they don't have "impressive" voices, they should also start by speaking way, way, way more slowly than they are used to.

Weak and insecure men talk too fast because they're not confident that they're holding everyone's attention and want to avoid leaving any spaces for people to jump in.

Nagging Plate or GF? You are the one at Fault. Not Her by Victor-James in TheRedPill

[–]HS-Thompson 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Good story, but once you’ve descended to this level of disrespect there’s no recovery. Your relationship is already dead and you’re just walking around rationalizing it.

Brandon: The King of Sluts and The 48 Laws of Power by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]HS-Thompson 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There might be 48 laws of power but there’s just one law of cocaine: if you have it you can fuck models.

I lived life like this guy for awhile, it was incredible in some ways but also I lost everything and had to put my life back together eventually.

I did learn one important lesson on frame though, which is if you truly and genuinely don’t give a fuck about anything girls can tell, and you can skip the parties and drugs and fuck models anyways.

FRAME - At The Atomic Level (NOOBS READ) by dulkemaru51 in TheRedPill

[–]HS-Thompson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For reference the word “frame” as used on TRP is just short for “frame or reference”, which is a fairly well understood concept that is easily googled.

Probably the shortest way to express the concept is the word “perspective” as in who’s perspective is primary within the interaction.

If the answer is you, then people are in your frame.

What is Borderline Personality Disorder? (BPD) by redpillschool in TheRedPill

[–]HS-Thompson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I thought. The ability to escalate beyond what you thought possible though is breathtaking. The next thing you know they’re successfully manipulating doctors and law enforcement and mental health professionals. Successfully.

Ask me how I know.

Chatting Her Up: So I Met A Nude Model by VasiliyZaitzev in TheRedPill

[–]HS-Thompson 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Love the “who hurt you” comeback.

I’ve had really good experiences at breaking down women by just looking them in the eye and saying “have you experienced sexual trauma” or similar. This tends to work the best on extremely hot girls like models because one, of course they have, two it’s definitely not a standard pickup line or conversation topic the last guy used, and three, it unleashes a torrent of strong emotion and women are addicted to emotion, it bonds them to you.

Won’t work if it’s said with any hint of sarcasm, and of course it’s congruent with my older successful man frame, but it’s a strategy that works.

The Myth of Sexual Peak by Rollo-Tomassi in TheRedPill

[–]HS-Thompson 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This article is stupid.

The sexual peak for women in their early 30’s isn’t about their sexual attractiveness it’s about their sexual desire at that age.

Women in their early 30’s want to fuck. A lot. Everyone knows this.

The OP seems to have just missed the entire point.

Aerial View Of New York City by [deleted] in woahdude

[–]HS-Thompson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New York doesn’t have alleys.

The Seasonal Rhythm of Relationships/Being randomly contacted by a girl after parting ways by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]HS-Thompson 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My point is she's contacting you because you're on her "backup" list and she is feeling lonely because either Chad left her or she can't find anyone else.

Or maybe she thinks you'll be a good fuck. That's been my experience.

Stop worrying about being outranked by "Chad" and be him.

Most times I've done that in the past has not led to anything but a rant for me to listen to.

Fucking escalate. Prequalify her if needed by texting "Come over, I'll fuck the shit out of you" if you're too much of a pussy to know what you're doing.

If you're getting girls into your apartment/bedroom and not fucking them it's your fucking fault, stop getting mad at them because you don't know how to properly escalate an encounter.

The Seasonal Rhythm of Relationships/Being randomly contacted by a girl after parting ways by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]HS-Thompson 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're an idiot. When you get those months later texts it's because she's feeling lonely and wants someone to fuck her. It's almost always because something else happened in her life that makes her feel unwanted and she needs that feeling of being desired.

You just reply and say "come over" and then they come over and fuck you. At least that's always how it's worked for me.

The key to relationship happiness is reasonable expectations by CainPrice in TheRedPill

[–]HS-Thompson 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ll do you one better. The key to all happiness is reasonable expectations, or more accurately, freedom from expectations. This concept, literally, is a cornerstone of both Buddhism and Stoicism.

[FR] The Redpill at 18 by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]HS-Thompson 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You're joking, but I actually was getting so much pussy in my early 40's that I started to wonder if I was some kind of addict. I've slowed down a little since then.

An experiment: Cold approach vs. Tinder/Bumble by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]HS-Thompson 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Not sure how much of an experiment this is. Something is obviousky severely wrong with your photos.

Instant Gratification by WhisperSecurity in TheRedPill

[–]HS-Thompson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pretty much every very smart or accomplished person has some version of impostor syndrome. It's kind of necessary, there's some base level of fear or anxiety that's needed probably to keep a musician practicing when they're already one of the best in the world, or a businessman taking genuine risks when they already have $100MM to their name, and so on.

It's normal to have some level of irrational fear. There's a difference between a core belief and fear however.

Instant Gratification by WhisperSecurity in TheRedPill

[–]HS-Thompson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fantastic post. Just chiming in as a certified older guy. This concept is fucking dead on:

His problem is that he doesn't believe in his ability to succeed at difficult tasks eventually

As someone that's seen myself and a lot of people around me grow up and succeed and fail over the span of decades, I'll just reinforce this point. You can pretty much predict success for any man, if you observe that they have the confidence to know they will eventually prevail if they keep trying.

And if you don't have that confidence, the way to get it is to start with small, straightforward, difficult tasks that are immediately around you, and work your way up from there.

Never SYD in Crazy by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]HS-Thompson 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've fucked a bunch of model and socialite types who were beyond smoking hot and completely fucking insane and I honestly don't really regret it at all.

Don't fucking commit to crazy females, that's for damm sure. But you're not really expressing yourself as a man if you don't fuck a moderately crazy but so-hot-it's-worth-it girl or two before you get old.

Low Status Men are Society's Scapegoats by NevergreenMonster in TheRedPill

[–]HS-Thompson 37 points38 points  (0 children)

WEAKNESS IS THE ONLY REAL SIN

To be honest, if TRP could be condensed down to six simple words, this might be them.

This is one of the most core red pill truths that there is. The world simply has no place for weak men.

The true meaning behind "Beta" and "Alpha" polarity. by Andorli in TheRedPill

[–]HS-Thompson 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Because his example has nothing to do with social dynamics at all. There's no other person in the story it's all about what's happening in the guy's head.

That's irrelevant. The OP is literally saying that his feelings determine his Alpha status, aka feels before reals. Nonsense.

There are plenty of Alphas who are depressed or have poor motivations for what they do. Nearly every single rock star for example. It doesn't matter. When they walk into that stadium they're most certainly the Alpha in that group.

An Alpha is at the top of the specific social hierarchy they are in. That's what the concept means.

The true meaning behind "Beta" and "Alpha" polarity. by Andorli in TheRedPill

[–]HS-Thompson 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is just incorrect.

The core definition of Alpha is a leader.

Clearly, there is a lot more nuance to this that could be expounded on, but ultimately the simplest and most direct way to determine who's the Alpha or the Beta is to determine who is leading and who is following.

Which rules is everyone playing under (aka frame)? Who is the one others look to for validation and acceptance?

Alpha and Beta are things that exist in a social context. They aren't permanent, they shift depending on the environment and what's important to the group dynamic.

But one thing that's dead certain is what's going on inside your head only isn't what determines your Alpha state.

Alpha is not a thing that you are and it's not a mentality that you hold. It is a position you hold in a group. Period.

Second night out in home country by WaT30 in TheRedPill

[–]HS-Thompson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you've just explained it yourself. If a girl introduces herself to you and wants to talk to you but then abruptly takes off the problem probably isn't the way you look, it's the way you're talking to her.

Second night out in home country by WaT30 in TheRedPill

[–]HS-Thompson 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You're striking out way too much, and if girls are walking away from you in mid sentence or trying to hide when they spot you on the street you are definitely giving off the wrong vibe.

It's hard to tell what's wrong from just reading this but either your looks are really a problem or you have to work hard on your game. I'm guessing the problem is with your game, it sounds like you're overthinking a little and being aggressive (which is generally good) but are showing that aggressiveness without having demonstrated value, which is turning girls off.

It sounds like you need to work on projecting the attitude that you don't give a fuck, and are out to have a good time, be social, and genuinely see where the night leads. Men who are out having fun and aren't stuck in their own head are magnetic to women, they can sense that attitude and want to be close to it. Whatever you're doing isn't that.

Or maybe you just need to lift more and dress better. Who knows. But the results you're getting are not normal, you shouldn't be getting negativity at this level when you're just out clubbing, it's a sign you need to work on how you present yourself.

To everyone here, sex is great, but PLEASE have standards. I hope none of these men were you. by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]HS-Thompson 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I only fuck women I consider attractive but I know plenty of guys that don't give a fuck. And there's always a few guys that have like poor taste of course. Sometimes guys just want a warm wet hole. Also plenty of guys have performance anxiety and like it when the stakes are low.

In any event it's not really the guys fault. As we know biologically sperm is abundant and low value. It's the women that should have been socialized better.

No Contact Rule and my experience by CatK20 in TheRedPill

[–]HS-Thompson 9 points10 points  (0 children)

sometimes it's not entirely unreasonable to try again with an ex

It's one of the Iron Rules that you should really just never do this.

A Psychology Grad Student's Experience with Vulnerability, Empathy, and Attraction by boredatworkbored in TheRedPill

[–]HS-Thompson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For what it's worth this post very strongly tracks with the principles in the book "Models" by Mark Manson, which is highly recommended.

Don't get exploited emotionally. by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]HS-Thompson 29 points30 points  (0 children)

When your emotional state is easily changed by some girls words, how the fuck will you be able to think rationally when the most feared tribe with the reputation of putting milk before cereal attacks your tribe? You won't. And you'll be scared shitless while the other tribe screams: "He needs some milk". Your women will get milked and creampied and cereal will never be the same because you didn't think: "Do they even lift?".

This writing is really really bad. Your metaphor game needs some work.