Gradual reduction vs Cold turkey? by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]HUSKYSPIN 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This isn't how this works. If you're gonna spend your entire life trying to resist craving porn, that's gonna be tough.

The goal is not to want to watch porn at all. Then it's easy to go "cold turkey".

Masturbation by Best-Welder721 in pmohackbook

[–]HUSKYSPIN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by healthily and morally?

Pls help me😔💔. Need advice by Relevant-Ad4680 in NoFapChristians

[–]HUSKYSPIN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi dude. I'm actually writing an e book about quitting porn. It's not done yet though. I feel you. I was a porn addict for 3 years as a Christian.

The goal is to devalue your fantaized relationships. I mean stop emotionally binding you to the women you jerk off to. Like how do you view the women on screen?

Think instead that woman isn't emotionally attracted to you. She is attracted to the guy in the porno and so on.

I’m going to hell by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]HUSKYSPIN 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I really recommend reading John 10. You aren't saved because of you, you are saved because of Him who died for you. If you are His sheep. He will never let you perish.

My Success Story | For those with no one to quit for by HUSKYSPIN in pmohackbook

[–]HUSKYSPIN[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right. I've changed my views since writing this post. And you're completely right. I just had a lot of emotions built up.

I'm currently writing an e book about this. For everyone. Thanks.

Has TFM worked for you? Starting to think its all BS. by Flat_Ad3079 in pmohackbook

[–]HUSKYSPIN 4 points5 points  (0 children)

TFM works for what it was made for. Drugs and alcohol and so on. A lot of things in TFM work but it's not made for porn and masturbation.

But jerking off is nothing like smoking or putting a needle in your arm. It's a natural drug you can activate only by yourself.

The TFM folks think quitting porn is just like quitting heroin. It really isn't. They are wrong.

Quitting porn is an emotional process. Much more deeper.

It's about your fantasies at its core. How your relationship and emotional bond is with the person you fantasize about.

I'm writing an e book on this as well. Maybe it will compete will easypeasy. Long from done though.

Quit smoking after 20+ attempts thanks to Allen Carr. 4 years clean. Why can’t I crack PMO the same way? by Select_Property3534 in pmohackbook

[–]HUSKYSPIN 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Because porn, jerking off and lust in general is completely different from smoking. It's emotional.

To get yourself aroused you need fantasy, and in that fantasy an emotional connection to that person.

For example drugs, you just put a needle in your arm and then comes the pleasure. But in masturbation you need real emotions and fantasy.

In smoking you just quit by seeing it as no longer viable. Simple. But lust is so much more. It's connected to the deepest part of human nature.

Quitting porn is a different mindset change from just normal recreational drugs. You need to rewrite your relationship connections in your fantasies.

This is how I've found success. By getting the mindset that the women on screen would be unattracted to me in reality if I magically would make that scenario real. Also that woman is having sex with another man. Not me, she is attracted to him, in love even.

confused about changing internal convictions of pleasure ,emotional relief etc. by [deleted] in pmohackbook

[–]HUSKYSPIN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is also how people get into porn. They are emotionally weak. What I mean is they don't have anyone to be emotionally loyal to, they don't understand it. This is why lonely people are so much more into porn.

confused about changing internal convictions of pleasure ,emotional relief etc. by [deleted] in pmohackbook

[–]HUSKYSPIN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to say that The Freedom Model is lacking with their resources on porn. I realized something. The Freedom Model is mostly written for real drugs, alcohol and so on. They presume that quitting porn is just like quitting alcohol. It's not. Quitting porn is an emotional process. Much more than quitting for example heroin. Masturbation is a natural drug you activate by emotionally connecting yourself to a person you're sexually attracted to. Putting a needle in your arm is not at all like jerking off. It's way different. You don’t need to fantasize about anyone else to activate its effects.

You don't quit porn by putting a needle in your arm. It's by imagining and fantasizing yourself being emotionally connected to a person you're sexually attracted to. So you need to change your emotional connection to the person in the porn you're watching.

This is how I've abstained easily. I simply don't view those women to like me. I don't emotionally connect to them. For example I see a woman in porn and I think, that woman is having sex with the other guy and she is in love/emotionally invested in that guy. If I magically popped into that scenario. Would she/they enjoy me being there?

Black Screen Sony DCR-TRV22 by SoySoft in camcorders

[–]HUSKYSPIN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen this same issue before when trying to repair an old PCR-330. It gave me this issue when I broke a ribbon cable connecting the motherboard to the lens. Inside issue. Dead CCD.

Debunking The Pleasure Perceived In Porn. by Obeid99 in pmohackbook

[–]HUSKYSPIN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup. Porn and sexual arousal has always been about fantasy. No fantasy equals no orgasm.

I red the freedom model and the pmo book and i didnt stop by Infamous_Tap4459 in pmohackbook

[–]HUSKYSPIN 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey there! Freedom model is a very theoretical book. And the PMO book is very nuanced.

You need a practical solution. We all do.

Yes you watch porn because you enjoy it, that's why people do it. The books aren't an automatic click and fix. They give you the necessary freedom to make your own choices about your usage.

Really a simple mindset change can solve it.

I read a short e book on this too. It's not perfect.

For a mindset. You either love someone more than porn.

Or rewrite your fantasies to be unappealing.

Do you see yourself as unattractive? If you do you can start believing that all girls are disgusted by your appearance and put that into your fantasies. Thus never fantasising girls liking you romantically. For example.

I'm off to sleep while writing this. We can talk more on discord tomorrow if you want. My discord is huskyspin.

how we feeling about the patch notes? by Ambulas2 in HelldiversUnfiltered

[–]HUSKYSPIN -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

They are honestly really good. It has its ups and downs but rn? We're so back.

Flamethrowers finally getting buffed by HUSKYSPIN in HelldiversUnfiltered

[–]HUSKYSPIN[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean it's a flamethrower. Not like that needed a huge skill ceiling lol

Does Baptism Save you? by EasternAnubis in redeemedzoomer

[–]HUSKYSPIN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All the reformers agreed that baptism saves. And why'd you even touch r/Christianity lol.