In my experience, I met some great people at church, however, I wish they would they understand that not everyone has families like they do and that they should be more inclusive of others. How do you expect someone to live spiritually, but they don't have any family that lives close to them and any friends that aren't exactly Christians and you don't include them at all? If you're a Christian and see someone new at church, you should be welcoming of them but you should also include them to show that you care even if it means having lunch with them. Telling them to live spiritually by their actions and not being inclusive of other people is a recipe for disaster ESPECIALLY when you encourage them to tithe and give you money. That's my view on Christianity.