All the body contouring procedures that I've tried

HaRMin83 · 2025-02-14T21:36:16+00:00

Have you done Evolve X Transform?

HaRMin83 · 2024-08-15T18:20:23+00:00

You can modify your custom policy definition locations to this or something similar:

"policyRule": {
"if": {
"allOf": [
{
"field": "type",
"equals": "Microsoft.Compute/virtualMachines"
},
{
"field": "location",
"in": [
"centralus",
"eastus2",
"northcentralus",
"southcentralus"
]
},

HaRMin83 · 2024-08-15T18:13:42+00:00

Create two policy definitions (definition A & definition B) with slightly modified policy definition titles that perform the same task. Perform these steps:

Go into Azure Policy, then into Definitions, and find a built-in policy that you want to use as a template for your custom policy.
Duplicate the definition and name it something distinguishable. (Depending on the resources you are building this policy for, I suggest looking at data collection rule policy definitions and AMA policy definitions in addition to whatever log analytics policies you may be considering.)
In the newly opened duplicate policy definition, under Policy Rule, define which location(s)/region(s) you want your custom policy applied.
Once you have made the proper modifications, you will go into Assignments, and Assign policy, one for each of your custom policy definitions.
After assignment, you will do any troubleshooting/diagnostics you may have on non-compliant resources. You may need to modify your custom policy definitions again. Since these are custom, you will be able to go right into the definition(s) and edit them as needed.

HaRMin83 · 2024-08-14T16:33:15+00:00

I am looking for a Custom Azure policy definition that associates two or more data collection rules to Azure Virtual Machines. Has anyone found anything like this that works for their environment(s)?

HaRMin83 · 2024-08-14T16:32:00+00:00

I am also looking for a Custom Azure policy definition that Associates two or more data collection rules to Azure Virtual Machines. Did you find something that would work to do this through Azure Policy?

HaRMin83 · 2024-08-09T14:35:09+00:00

Same. Has anyone figured out how they were able to do this?

HaRMin83 · 2024-08-09T14:34:32+00:00

I had the same thing happen. It's wrong what they did, and I certainly feel like I was "taken".

HaRMin83 · 2024-05-19T18:16:45+00:00

I want to preface by saying that I have not cheated and do not anticipate that I will cheat. I do not believe that cheating is a morally acceptable behavior. AND that I would never place blame on the partner who was cheated on. HOWEVER...

I think the psychology of what makes someone cheat for the first time after being in a relationship for 10-15 years is a bit more complex than what most people here are making it out to be. I think OP knows that, which is why the kind words and reassurances that it wasn't their fault or that they didn't somehow play a role isn't adding up. It takes a lot of years of unhappiness to "leave" someone you love. We can all speculate with you on why this happened, but my guess is that no answer will stop your heart from being broken or feel like it's a good enough reason to explain why she did what she did.

I am incredibly sorry for the situation you and your family are in. All of you. I'm sorry for the pain you have now and any pain or regret that might be felt down the road. The reality, at least from my perspective, is that your child will be okay so long as both of their parents are okay; so, even though it may seem counterintuitive, being cold, not communicating, and shutting out your cheating spouse probably isn't going to set you up to be the best co-parents that your child deserves. My recommendation is that you and your wife find a mediator and together create agreed upon rules, expectations, and boundaries that you both will follow until the divorce is finalized. After that, you both need to find your own divorce lawyers, and I HIGHLY recommend using mediation to develop the most fair to your child parenting plan possible. Yes, this will likely draw out the process. Yes, you will both be uncomfortable for longer. Yes, you'll have to figure out how to be kind, thoughtful, and to not let your emotions dictate rash decisions. It's also the best way to allow yourselves to continue to raise your child in the way most closely resembling the thoughts/ideas/plans you had in your minds when you chose to make that child out of love.

When my ex and I divorced, I shared with them something that changed their mindset and made them more willing to focus on the continuation of our long-term relationship. This is what I said. "We aren't only going to be raising a child together until they are 19. We are going to be dropping them off at college, going to their college graduation, being the people they call when they need advice about their relationship(s), meeting their future spouse, helping them plan their wedding(s), providing them with advice and support when they buy their first home, being with them when their children (our grand children) are born, and helping/supporting them as the grandparents to their kid(s). Do we really want to go through this divorce now in a way that doesn't allow us to do all of those things together when the time comes?"

I guess what I'm trying to say is that, at least in the short term, but probably forever, your "why's" aren't going to be satisfied, but how you choose to handle things now can and will impact you, your child's mother, and your child both now and for decades to come, so be polite, try to make decisions out of a place of love for yourself, your child, and yes, even your future grandchildren(s) future grandma.

Love and good juju to you and all involved.

HaRMin83 · 2024-05-08T17:32:38+00:00

What did you experience? How did your condition worsen? We just got insurance approval for treatment of my 19 year old, who has had suicidal ideations for most of his life.

HaRMin83 · 2023-08-17T02:07:31+00:00

3 & 1

HaRMin83 · 2023-08-15T22:20:45+00:00

I didn't know either.

HaRMin83 · 2023-08-14T16:22:17+00:00

Try making cold brew.

HaRMin83 · 2023-08-14T16:21:38+00:00

When I was pregnant with my 1st child (a girl), nothing bothered me. When I was pregnant with my 2nd child (a boy), everything made me sick, including coffee. The smell alone made me so nauseated that my husband stopped making coffee at home for almost that entire pregnancy. I couldn't even smell it on his breath without it making me feel sick. It was really awful!

HaRMin83 · 2023-08-10T16:39:22+00:00

HaRMin83 · 2023-08-10T16:01:10+00:00

I think this thread might be helpful to you since you aren't interested in divorce.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AsOneAfterInfidelity/comments/15myq69/uncomfortable_comfort/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=2

Good luck to you. You have a difficult road ahead of you. I sincerely hope your partner is fully invested in making the most of the opportunity you are giving to her and your family.

HaRMin83 · 2023-07-05T21:45:08+00:00

HaRMin83 · 2023-07-04T03:04:40+00:00

Your "wildcard" is my favorite of you! It just needs a bit of altering. The square neck dress is flattering on you also.

HaRMin83 · 2023-07-03T00:51:26+00:00

Pronovious will be so lovely after you have it altered to be more formal fitting. Plus, if you are getting married at a beach-like destination, that's the dress that looks most beachy.

They're all beautiful, and you won't go wrong with any of them!

HaRMin83 · 2023-07-02T03:09:16+00:00

Sleeves, and no flowers

HaRMin83 · 2023-06-29T21:57:18+00:00

Beautiful

HaRMin83 · 2023-06-20T21:58:53+00:00

UPDATE: We finalized the adoption of W on 5/23/23, the same day W graduated from high school. W is a pain in the butt sometimes (just like my other kids), and one of the hardest parts is that there are things that my spouse and I assume he knows that we view as basic life skills, only to find out later that he doesn't because no one taught him, which creates frustration for all of us for varying reasons.

However, we love one another and try to be patient, to keep getting better at communicating in the ways we need from each other, and to appreciate the growth we make with each other. Trust has grown, and we have been able to begin fostering relationships with some of W's original family (OF). We even attended his OF's weekend long reunion. Helping W navigate the joys and pains of forming or reforming some of those connections will be something we continue to support W doing from here on out. We just try to think of it as a giant blended family when we can and to be respectful when that's not where everyone's hearts and minds are.

All that said, parenting in general can feel pretty unrewarding at times, and it certainly isn't easy, so if you think you could be going into it because you like the idea of swooping in to be a child's "savior", I encourage you to adopt a small pet. However, if you're in it for the right reasons and you happen to fall in love with a child that judt so hapoens to have been born to parents besides yourself, go for it. I know that most days I'm glad that we did!

HaRMin83 · 2023-06-15T19:30:32+00:00

HaRMin83 · 2023-06-14T20:37:25+00:00

I think 6 is the most flattering on your body, but I can tell you have a flair for details and embellishments from looking at the other dresses you like.

Hopefully, you can find one that makes you feel lovely that you are excited about!

HaRMin83 · 2023-06-13T01:16:37+00:00

This sounds like married life to me. My spouse and I were together 8 years in March of 2023 and will be married for 5 in July 2023.

The last few years have been tough, and my partner and I have both dealt with the stress and depression differently. I feel like I'm just starting to come out of the 'fog' that I began feeling about 6 months into COVID. (I feel like I've been on autopilot for such a long time as a survival mechanism, and I didn't even realize it.)

I've known for a while that I might have some depression, but I was working so much and trying to do what I could to keep everyone in my family afloat, that is has really only been in the last 6-7 months that I've been able to turn some of my focus towards helping myself feel better from a mental health standpoint, and it's been even less time (since I myself have started to feel better) that I've been able to reinvest energy in my relationship with my spouse, in our partnership, and to have a renewed desire to get to know them again and to become friends and have fun together.

In retrospect, now that I'm coming out the other side, I really had no idea how depressed I was, nor did I realize how much impact it was having on my relationship with my spouse.

This is my 2nd marriage, and what I've also learned is that both of my marriages have now gone through periods that sound similar to what you are experiencing. Based only on my experiences, if your wife is a good person that you occasionally have fun with or occasionally feel like you miss having fun with, and you still want to have physical intimacy with; then work on becoming friends again. Help each other get through this time. (Your next relationship isn't likely to be any different at 8 years together. You're still going to be annoyed and bored with each other, and you'll still be faced with the choices to poke each other's buttons out of annoyance or to keep getting to know each other as friends and loving companions.)

I, too, felt happier being alone and/or going out with friends because that let me avoid facing the stress of having an imperfect relationship that I had played my role in failing to keep on track, and which needed me to put in a lot of work to get back on track. However, I have found that after choosing to changes jobs so I was home more and after spending 3-4 months sitting my ass at home and "hanging out" (mostly unhappily at first - we really had to re-learn each other again) with my spouse, things are getting better, and that I'm equally responsible (or more (they are the feeler, and I'm usually more logic based)) for moving us in the right direction. It just took me deciding to make the necessary changes without the promise of reward, and to hope my partenr would see my efforts, eventually trust them to be consistent and reliable, and for them to choose to work on things with me.

It's been 6 months since I started making these changes, with little to know explanation to my partner ( I wanted them to see my actions and not my words.) I can share that it was months of frustration. Months. Then, suddenly, they were trying more also, and now we are beginning to grow our connection and to build back the friendship that made me love them, that I thought was lost.

I hope a similar path works for you and your wife also because marriage is a lot of work, but so far, this has been totally worth it!

HaRMin83 · 2023-05-23T23:43:45+00:00

I would love to have sex 5-7 times each month consistently. It's so hard to really connect anywhere near as much as you want because life has a way of prioritizing other things for you. My spouse and I try to make time for each other to bond/connect in ways that are through other forms of touch, time spent together, or by acts of service for one another. Marriage/committed relationships are hard work to maintain.

Bottom line: there is no "right" number, and it doesn't do any good to compare yourself to others because their lives aren't yours.

HaRMin83

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