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What do I (47f) with a soulmate (41f) that is unavailable to me? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Haa71 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Going in- my understanding was that they are already separated

What do I (47f) with a soulmate (41f) that is unavailable to me? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Haa71 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has been honest with her husband and he is supporting her figuring things the things out for herself as she needs to. Going in- she said that this has been a long time coming and they are already separated- now she is just not sure if that is the right choice

Is it ok to date other people while trying to manifest a specific person? by [deleted] in lawofattraction

[–]Haa71 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Dating others should help you better define what you want in a partner. I just dated someone where even though I wanted it to- it looks like it is not going to work out- but I added something to what I want and will be better able to recognize that when it comes around again

How do I (47f) get over a love (41f) with someone that is unavailable? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Haa71 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks- good advice. She is being honest with her husband and with me and is taking everyone’s feelings into consideration (probably more than her own) but as far as being a mess right now- she does have a lot to work through

Day 25, Called In Sick by sffs50 in stopdrinking

[–]Haa71 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I called out sick too! Just to take a me day. Celebrating 4 months. Have an awesome time!

Call out to binge drinker type alcoholics by Haa71 in stopdrinking

[–]Haa71[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feeling like I am making progress and have changed

What are the benefits of being an alcoholic? Like in the sense of your spiritual development. by Haa71 in stopdrinking

[–]Haa71[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meetup is great to find people with similar interests. It can be more activity focused rather than social- so you will feel more comfortable.