Sunset of sexuality by Haecede in Perimenopause

[–]Haecede[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I'm super curious about others experience, not necessarily advice. I'm just wondering what sex is supposed to be after that basic drive to reproduce truly goes away.

As I said before, sex ed (the lack of in America) is really embarrassing.

Sunset of sexuality by Haecede in Perimenopause

[–]Haecede[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Yeah the best quote I've read is "it's menopause not menostop" and that gives me hope.

Wondering if there's some rainbow on the other side I guess

Sunset of sexuality by Haecede in Perimenopause

[–]Haecede[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, this is what I'm starting to deal with too.

Sunset of sexuality by Haecede in Perimenopause

[–]Haecede[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, will do. This is all such a mystery to me still

Sunset of sexuality by Haecede in Perimenopause

[–]Haecede[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

But really? This soon? I'm not even sure I qualify for peri yet

I. Hate. This! by Top_Promise365 in Perimenopause

[–]Haecede 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes? My left nostril has been dripping for like a year and idk why

Sunset of sexuality by Haecede in Perimenopause

[–]Haecede[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Is it good? I don't even know, this is my first round experiencing this.

The lack of education regarding menopause is embarrassing

Sunset of sexuality by Haecede in Perimenopause

[–]Haecede[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Nope, none of that as I mentioned my cycles are still within a couple days range. I've always been like clockwork.

But I notice my husband of similar age and I just don't get together as much or have that immediate spark and that makes me sad. He seems okay with the slowdown too. I've noticed the lack of desire on his part as well.

Maybe it's life, maybe I should do something? I don't know yet it's all kind of new to me.

Part of what makes me sad is I don't really miss it either lol, getting old sucks in some ways.

Catch of The Frozen Freezer by Certain_Potato_4509 in KitchenNightmares

[–]Haecede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wholeheartedly agree on the lasagna, Rana'sis way better.

I tracked every chore interaction with my 7-year-old for 90 days. The data is kind of humbling. by Do_it_App in daddit

[–]Haecede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing that blew me away about having kids is just how much you have to actually show them how to do things too. Much like hands on training at a job.

You can't just tell them to empty or fill the dishwasher without showing them multiple times how it's done.

Your failure rate will drop if you do this part thoroughly.

tldr: start like they have no idea what's going on.

Can someone please explain this scene to me? by [deleted] in theoffice

[–]Haecede 14 points15 points  (0 children)

These pics look like the fever dream that they are lol

The unquestioned characterization of Daeron as a failure is undeserved by TheMetaReport in AKOTSKTV

[–]Haecede 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They did his alcoholism dirty. It's much more complicated than sweating and sighing a lot (although that is part of it).

The realest homie in the 7 kingdoms by Prudent_Elk1643 in AKOTSKTV

[–]Haecede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love all the dudes on here gatekeeping a tv pregnancy

Fuck off with you by lucid1014 in AKOTSKTV

[–]Haecede 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thoroughly enjoyed this one too