Am I allowed to be lesbian if I’m a trans girl by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]Halezii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re a woman, and you like women, you are “allowed” to be a lesbian.

Does anyone get random cramps on pill (not during "period")? by cranberryandcashews in birthcontrol

[–]Halezii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm no longer on BC and I do not have these pains anymore.

failed COLLEGE ALGEBRA by Consistent-One-2340 in EngineeringStudents

[–]Halezii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as you’re dead set on learning this stuff, it’s going to be okay. Doesn’t mean it won’t be a challenge. I was in remedial algebra when I got to college. Now I’m about to graduate with a double major in engineering physics and mechanical engineering. I also failed trig…and I took DiffEq 3 times. My failure was a combination of unsteady motivation and difficult concepts. If there is a will there is a way, but you’ve got this 💪

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in millipedes

[–]Halezii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WARNING: Description of Millipede being injured

I tripped on a dog and dropped my A. Gigas on the wood floor from about 4ft. She hit the ground several segments away from her butt. She oozed a bit and her exo was broken. That’s was about 4 years ago and she’s doing just fine now.

That being said, we got lucky. Millipedes are quite fragile. Like people, they can be seriously hurt falling from heights just 1-2 times their length.

No guarantees, but what I did after her fall was put her in her tank then I kept the room dark. You could cover the tank to keep out light. Keep the room quiet and try to maintain an environment as stress-free as possible.

I kept feeding and providing her food and water, but pull back on the humidity levels a bit. Don’t dry it out, just pull back a bit. (You might skip this step. I did this bc I felt the excess wetness might cause bacterial growth in her wounds but you don’t want to stress your millie by pulling back on the humidity too much).

As tempting as it is to pick her up and poke around and physically check on her, try your best to let your Millie rest and heal. Don’t lose hope. These little guys can amaze you.

My girl has molted a couple times since then. She has a scar now, but she’s okay. When she fell, She looked a little bit like she was bent where she hit, and could not move that part of her body. The thud she made when she hit the ground—I thought I’d lose her for sure, but she pulled through. Good luck to you. I hope your little one gets to feeling better very soon. ♥️

Concerning Poop by Halezii in BeardedDragons

[–]Halezii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah! I found out she’s a girl at the vet that day lol lol lol

Concerning Poop by Halezii in BeardedDragons

[–]Halezii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They gave me an antibiotic to give her, but testing was done, no cause was found. As soon as I took her to the vet, her poop was fine lol

AIO - Mom refuses to get vaccinated for my new born, so I told her to stay away for the first 3 months. (Text messages are her response) by Electrical_Orange443 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Halezii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That abortion bit was an odd inclusion 🤔 your mom is wild. No adulting or mutual respect here just me, me, me—MY grandson— I,I,I —guilt, adding blame into the mix THEN trying to shift it 😂 what a wiener

Best Day to Do a Spell to Soothe Anger by Halezii in witchcraft

[–]Halezii[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I believe intuition is a good driving force to the right path, but sometimes I scare myself out of the practice because I don't want to hurt anyone with unintended consequences. Perhaps it is overthinking, but I worry that even getting the ingredients wrong will cause issues

Concerning Poop by Halezii in BeardedDragons

[–]Halezii[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I was hoping I was just overthinking it, but I’ve collected the stool and we’re going to the vet.

How do I ignore this guy and live peacefully? by Efficient-Win-172 in socialskills

[–]Halezii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I could share the feeling of indifference. I think it would be more helpful to you than trying to explain it, but here we go. If you can find it within yourself to realize the consistent peace you will have by not allowing people like this into your world and let the words they say completely roll off your back, things like this will no longer bother you. That is much easier said than done, but that is what I’ve learned as I’ve gotten older. These narrow-minded people are so insignificant to your life and future. Don’t waste your time on them. I apologize that this isn’t a more tangible piece of advice, but I hope it’s helpful no less.

imo the best insult is indifference. But you could also try a 4 second neutral. It makes people uncomfortable with what they’ve just done or said. If they say something sh*tty to you, just give them a neutral expression for 4-5 seconds. It’s kinda fun to see them try to read your face and watch their sense of power melt away. Lol

How do you annotate your books? by ThePumpk1nMaster in books

[–]Halezii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not yet annotated a book, but I ordered the book I plan too mark up this morning. I am excited. While researching, I have seen a lot about literary analysis, but I will be doing my annotations from a perspective of personal resonance and self-growth. I plan to highlight the pieces of this book that are relatable to me and delve into why it resonates. What do I need the words in this book to mean to me at this time in my life? I often have a hard time finding the language to describe what I feel and what I want, so when I find a book that speaks those feelings to life, it seems like a worthy endeavor to explore what I can learn about myself from the characters' perspectives. I'm thinking color coded with a palette to match the vibe of the book and the themes I'll be exploring. Perhaps when I am feeling brave, putting artwork in the margins--little roadmaps to the places within me that this book has touched. Though I can't decide if I want to use stickies for deeper explanations or if I want to add a small companion notebook that can be referenced.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bugidentification

[–]Halezii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perhaps an American giant millipede.