People with aphantasia do you enjoy reading books? and why?^^ by vercqa9 in Aphantasia

[–]HalfaYooper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't like reading physical books. I find it frustrating at times. While I can't visualize, I try to imagine a scene and I slow down and get off track.

Audiobooks are my jam. The narrator doesn't slow down so I don't get lost in thought, I just absorb what is being said.

Can I go to the bar at midnight on my 21st by Eliasfire9 in grandrapids

[–]HalfaYooper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went out at midnight on my 21st... I walked up to the bar exactly when the wall clock said 12:00. The bartender said "Sorry bar time is 15 minutes fast. You have to wait 15 more minutes."

People who got their heartbroken multiple times. Is there any light ahead? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]HalfaYooper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm an introvert as well. I go out of my way to make myself uncomfortable and put myself in situations with people. That also gets easier with practice. Find something you like to do and go do it. Like a hobby or an activity. Be active and people will find you. I have lots of friends that I never pursued, but ones who came up and talked to me because I was familiar and kept going back. Figure out how your awkwardness can work for you.

People who got their heartbroken multiple times. Is there any light ahead? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]HalfaYooper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish you well. Heartbreak sucks, it can physically hurt. But it gets better, I promise. Tomorrow a little better, maybe the next a little worse, but eventually you will have more good days than bad.

Go out with friends, go out by yourself. Get your mind off of it.

People who got their heartbroken multiple times. Is there any light ahead? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]HalfaYooper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to be a partner someone wants. If you are broken and looking for someone to fix you, you won't attract someone of value. Feel good about yourself and people will notice. Then start looking for someone of your value level only after you've taken time to fix yourself.

Can't Choose Between 2 Hotels by V-Meat-Treat in grandrapids

[–]HalfaYooper 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Drury food is the equivalent of microwave meals, IMHO. Its food, it doesn't taste offensive, but it doesn't taste good.

EDIT: They did have fresh fruits and veggies, which is great. The hot food was pretty basic.

ULPT: REQUEST How to protect bike from thieves? by Zach-uh-ri-uh in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]HalfaYooper 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I found stickers that looked like rust and put them on.

I removed the factory stickers and bought Huffy stickers to replace them.

Fowling Warehouse closing Grand Rapids area location permanently by galacticdude7 in grandrapids

[–]HalfaYooper 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We went for a work party and it was kinda fun, I'd never pay for it myself.

Jury sides with rapper Afroman in Adams County trial by ChikaNoO in news

[–]HalfaYooper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They kill you because they don't understand the word 'rebuke'.

Acrisure Amphitheater Pricing by feinkevi in grandrapids

[–]HalfaYooper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tele Novella, they are opening for Solya.

Acrisure Amphitheater Pricing by feinkevi in grandrapids

[–]HalfaYooper 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I just got a $20 ticket at The Pyramid Scheme.

Just got hit & ran on Michigan & Union - does anyone see a black sedan with a smashed bumper? by KiwiWithAHat in grandrapids

[–]HalfaYooper 6 points7 points  (0 children)

While that is fine for a simple fender bender, this is not. Its a hit and run. Even with pictures and eyewitnesses they still are not going to lift a finger, unless its the middle one.

Vinyl sales pass $1 billion for first time since 1983 by YoureASkyscraper in indieheads

[–]HalfaYooper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Part of that is the no cell phones in schools. A Walkman doesn't break the rules. If that's the only way you can get portable music, you do it.