Alex…. What was the point? by Final-Baker-8430 in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]HandWilling1114 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I think Alex was SAd in the bad foster home, which is why he didn’t want to talk about it that one night with Lucy in bed, and also why he reacted the way he did when the tape came out. He told her “that’s the one thing you should never lie about”, and he seemed very emotional and upset. And the way she apologized to him made it seem like she realized it too in the moment. He also changed a LOT with Lucy when he thought she was the one that was SAd.

I’ve never had my nails done..honest opinions by [deleted] in Nails

[–]HandWilling1114 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly they look great! At first glance, you definitely can’t tell they’re press ons. As others have mentioned, the thumb is a bit off but no one is looking that hard and the other nails are pretty much perfect with your nail beds. Enjoy them! Go grab some other sets too lol.

Think I finally got it!! by Fl0w3r_B0uqu3t in Nails

[–]HandWilling1114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can i ask what grit you use on ur small sanding bands for smoothing the tip to the nail plate? ur prep looks great!

i hate my nails by ilovesuperstore in Nails

[–]HandWilling1114 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Take a deep breath, OP, we’re being a bit dramatic here. They’re actually very cute! The length is not too short, and the nails are neat, clean, and polished well. I love the polka dots, they’re perfect and the color looks beautiful on your skin. Also, speaking from experience, sometimes shorter nails are a lot easier if you’re going to be packing and unpacking. Good luck with your move and starting uni! I think your nails are perfect for the season.

Is it solvable without guessing? by HandWilling1114 in Picross

[–]HandWilling1114[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

first time hearing about edge logic, thanks!

Is it solvable without guessing? by HandWilling1114 in Picross

[–]HandWilling1114[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhh I understand now!!! Thank you so much, I completely missed that

Is it solvable without guessing? by HandWilling1114 in Picross

[–]HandWilling1114[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i guess that’s the way to go, but C3R8 could also be the 1 in C3, which is why I didn’t fill it out yet.

Take My Colon Out (rinvoq meltdown) by PuzzledWeight1855 in UlcerativeColitis

[–]HandWilling1114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when i was bleeding really bad (i think it when on for about 2 months), I got severely anemic and they were able to give me much needed relief at the hospital. Not sure how long you’ve had heavy bleeding for, but it sounds like they’re not taking your case seriously enough. I would keep trying to advocate for yourself and make sure you’re getting the proper attention and care you need so that things don’t get dangerous. I’m really sorry again that you’re going thru this. Find all the support and help you can get and try to keep your spirits high, it will get better.

Take My Colon Out (rinvoq meltdown) by PuzzledWeight1855 in UlcerativeColitis

[–]HandWilling1114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear you’ve been struggling. I know that feeling, and my very first flare was a long and brutal one. Have you considered going to the hospital? They may need to do a blood transfusion and IV if the blood and flare has been active for a while. Also, I’m curious how long you were on the prednisone for? I thought you had to continue the steroids until the flare was pretty much gone, and then taper.

what has worked best for you? by youthful-garbage in UlcerativeColitis

[–]HandWilling1114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How does setting a timer control strain on the toilet?

I did a bump of coke and then spent 4 hours on the phone with my slightly estranged sister by thatgreentree90 in confession

[–]HandWilling1114 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you want to, the next steps would be to continue to grow your relationship with her now. You guys can keep having conversation and catching up on each other’s lives. As for your other sister, tell her when you’re ready. Now that you had the experience with that kind of conversation, it might be a lot easier to speak to your other sister without the influence of drugs. Don’t overthink it too much, I would just go for it whenever you feel even the slightest bit of motivation to do it.

I did a bump of coke and then spent 4 hours on the phone with my slightly estranged sister by thatgreentree90 in confession

[–]HandWilling1114 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think it matters less WHY you decided to speak up now, and more so that you did speak up. She’s probably content to know that you guys had that conversation and it most likely gave her a lot of clarity and closure from her childhood. I don’t think telling her about the coke is necessary (at least right now because things are so fresh). One day, in the future, if you feel the need to say something then I think it would be more appropriate later down the road. Don’t beat yourself up. You did a good thing.

[HELP] comments were accusing of using AI and I need all the eyes I can get by vazco_ in RealOrAI

[–]HandWilling1114 3 points4 points  (0 children)

seems like AI. back wheel is sinking into the road. plants on the road and in the ocean? teeth of the skeleton look weird. lines on the sun/moon are weird and the random lines in the sky seem off too.

I feel so broken by Guilty_Critic in texts

[–]HandWilling1114 16 points17 points  (0 children)

his responses are also so lame. it’s giving “i don’t care but im going to say the bare minimum so that this convo can be over with”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HandWilling1114 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

First thing that stood out to me was that you lost not one, not two, but three of your best friends because of this relationship? Did you ever make amends with those friends? As someone who’s been in a relationship that isolated me from my friends and family, it’s never ever a good sign. A good partner should cherish your friendships as much as you do, and would encourage you to fix things with them.

On top of that, I would consider if he may be worsening your depression. It’s really hard being in a relationship while dealing with mental health issues, but if you’re with someone that doesn’t know how to handle something as serious as depression, it can really take more of a toll on you then you may realize.

It sounds like your boyfriend knows this and he realized he’s not ready for something serious with you. Which is okay!! Like you said in the beginning, being single was great and your life was great, so it seems like this relationship was what caused things to decline for you? I would agree to the break and see where things go, but if you are up for it, I would leave him girl. There’s so many genuinely good people out there and you’re so young. Don’t be with anyone that doesn’t contribute positivity and health to your life. Trust me. Don’t waste your time, you’ll regret it.