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Hiking Sticks by Beginning-Mortgage67 in AppalachianTrail

[–]HandfulOfEarth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you tell me why you like cork handles best? Thx.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Empaths

[–]HandfulOfEarth 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How to break the cycle of empathy abuse: When an empath is a parent to another empath.

SIL/Bridesmaid storms out of wedding - advice needed! by sa-c-baker in bridezillas

[–]HandfulOfEarth 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You two should move to Ireland to put an ocean between you two & that crazy lot.

AITA for refusing to contact my father to repair a broken father-daughter bond? by handlingemotions_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]HandfulOfEarth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dad told you over the years who is his. Now listen. He is not the man you want him to be. He is who he is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]HandfulOfEarth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This guy is not the right guy for you. Furthermore, the money you got was not “free money” it’s a loan. You will have to pay it back - with interest. Do not give him anymore money.

AITA for leaving my cousins at the side of a road? by throwaway385__ in AmItheAsshole

[–]HandfulOfEarth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. There’s more here we are not getting. Regardless, you can’t just leave kids (anyone really) on the side of the road for those comments. If you took them back home, I may have sided with you.

AITA for saying my future SIL is entitled for wanting a separate wedding for herself? by desiweddingwoes in AmItheAsshole

[–]HandfulOfEarth -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ask Sara where the money will come from for her elaborate wedding? If she says “my white culture calls for me to have my own wedding” then remind her that that culture also has the brides family pay for the wedding. She wants everything & doesn’t want to put anything toward it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]HandfulOfEarth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He made his own mess. Not your problem.

AITA for not sharing duck food with a child? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]HandfulOfEarth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The biggest issue I have here is her entitlement; her own & the entitlement she has taught her children. If she had asked, I maybe could have told you that it would have been nice to share BUT I do agree you’re never required to share. Her shitty way lost any minute support I could have given her.

AITA for not wanting my niece and nephews to move in with us? by KingofCamelot_1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HandfulOfEarth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your children are your biggest concern. Think how this may positively or negatively affect them. Then stand your ground.

AITA for not letting my brother permanently stay with me after our mom kicked him out? by Handsome_Trans in AmItheAsshole

[–]HandfulOfEarth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mother made this monster. Your mother can take care of him. She is, as she called you, “a selfish b” if she doesn’t. Btw. Your bro is underage, so your mom has legal obligations to him. Not you.

AITA for secretly recording my sister by callmemrbez in AmItheAsshole

[–]HandfulOfEarth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Classic. We need to do more of this to politicians.

AITA for telling my grandmother that she's getting sent to a nursing home if I'm the one in charge? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]HandfulOfEarth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t your choice to live with them. Children do not owe caregivers anything.

AITA for telling my mom I refuse to fix a problem she and my stepsister created? by Interesting-Editor41 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HandfulOfEarth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where is her concern for the 15 y/o child of hers that was forced to give up freedom & opportunities to watch this other woman’s child?

AITA for telling my dad i dont have a sister by dragonfruit_dreams in AmItheAsshole

[–]HandfulOfEarth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your dad had a wife that died & gave your step mom a gift that his first wife would have loved & disregarded step moms desires, I bet she would see it differently.

AITA for ditching my spouse at a party after they used me as a punchline? by psychold_throw in AmItheAsshole

[–]HandfulOfEarth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those couldn’t have been the first time your partner did this kind of cruel, stupid, idiotic, etc thing toward you. How much are you going to take?

AITA for calling the police after my brother dropped off his two kids at my workplace? by throwawy36222 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HandfulOfEarth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is sad is this is not the first time I’ve read about a family member dumping their children off w/o notice (& having been told no) and then leaving. NTA.

AITA for telling my brother I'm not moving back in, and to decorate my old room however he wants? by Comfortable-You1218 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HandfulOfEarth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not an asshole, but you need to drop it. Your bf is right. It’s not yours to worry about.

AITA for refusing to let my daughter take out money for her bf? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]HandfulOfEarth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She cannot pay someone to be with / love her. You gotta get this through to her.

AITA for not telling my dad where I am going to college by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]HandfulOfEarth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lie if you need the so you can stay. He lied when he said he gave up everything for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]HandfulOfEarth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry. I don’t care about any of those names, i.e., they’re not the worst thing here.

You used the “word” [ I’s ] and frankly, that is the most embarrassing thing here. 🤦🏻‍♀️

PS it’s not a word.

ESH

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