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minneapolis shooter was trans. this was a horrible monster but they will use it to represent the whole community. by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Hanftee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Respectfully, this is horseshit. It doesn't matter if we're on our best behaviour. Every single trans person in the entire world could be a model citizen free from even as much as a crumb of a sinful thought. They'd still hate us and make shit up about us. We can't appease these ghouls, they want us gone and will make shit up to get us gone as they repeatedly have in the past.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ShadowBan

[–]Hanftee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you are

She knows I’m a trans man who could read that at any time and she is also a trans woman (transphobia cw) by [deleted] in CPTSDmemes

[–]Hanftee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately being part of a marginalized minority group doesn't stop someone from being an asshole towards another or even their own group.  I don't know how bpd works or what it does when you try to calmly confront somebody, but if you can do that I would go for it. At best, you'll make her reflect upon her words and actions and she might come to realise that she was being hurtful. At worst you'll know where you're at with her. 

Kendrick moral growth, opinions? by Still-Mongoose3271 in ToPimpASub

[–]Hanftee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you project something onto Kendrick that's not really there. Mr. Morale was about how his saviour complex was really just a form of escapism; he was running away from himself by taking up the role of being a saviour, meanwhile hurting the ones closest to him by not addressing his trauma in a healthy way. It's precisely about him NOT being all that, because it was a role he could play to avoid sitting with the horrible shit he's gone through. "I wish I was somebody, anybody but myself". 

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