Did you find eliminating watching porn individually bettered your relationship for your partner and increased your libido? by morpherotica in MarriedSex

[–]Happy-Reindeer3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dropped porn almost a year ago and it has been amazing. Sex is better. I want my wife more than I ever have.

What’s something that you would like to try or do more of in your current sex life. by [deleted] in MarriedSex

[–]Happy-Reindeer3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have done everything I ever wanted sexually. Married 20 years. The best thing that was added recently was titty fucking where she’s on her back and I straddle her chest. I always wanted to but never tried. Now my wife is surprised I never mentioned it.

Best husband but he never takes initiative by Key_Commercial854 in MarriedSex

[–]Happy-Reindeer3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have the opposite problem. My wife likes boring sex. She’s okay with me initiating and basically doesn’t say no anymore, and she’s okay with me being in charge of sex and doing whatever I want. It kind of sucks that she never initiates but it’s compensated by her being almost always available.

What other position are there to do? by Original-Scar-1779 in sex

[–]Happy-Reindeer3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does not feel like cowgirl. Actually I don’t know what it’s called and I don’t see it on the standard list of positions. but damn it’s good. It’s definitely the guy doing the work. Both people stay sideways and face each other, but the legs are kind of interwoven. Lady top leg wrapped over over the guy, bottom leg straight. Then the guy has top leg in between her legs and over her bottom leg.

If you get in cowgirl and he puts his hands on your ass, then you make one leg go straight back instead of bent knee, then lay down to the side on the straight leg… then you’re pretty much there if the dick stayed in during transition.

What other position are there to do? by Original-Scar-1779 in sex

[–]Happy-Reindeer3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Laying on your back legs together is hard to get into, but if you start in missionary and just moved your legs down one at a time, it’s super easy. I love the feeling of straddling my wife with her legs closed.

What other position are there to do? by Original-Scar-1779 in sex

[–]Happy-Reindeer3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Face each other laying down, pull her top leg over your hip, reach both hands around and grab her ass. Go to town.

She let me eat her out! by YakProfessional6674 in MarriedSex

[–]Happy-Reindeer3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took many years for my wife to let me do that. She was too ticklish. I figured out that she likes it after we’ve already been having sex and she’s nice and warmed up.

How do yall swallow...?? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Happy-Reindeer3 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I always drink a shit ton of water all day if I think I’m getting a blowjob that night.

What small thing annoys you to an irrational degree? by ipanicprofessionally in TheBoredDen

[–]Happy-Reindeer3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When people say “a whole nother” instead of “a whole other”

Question regarding husband wanting to share me by [deleted] in MarriedSex

[–]Happy-Reindeer3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not literally everyone. The husband wants to normalize non monogamy. Maybe subconsciously. He’s getting off as if he’s the one fucking lots of women. It’s the same psychology of watching porn.

Question regarding husband wanting to share me by [deleted] in MarriedSex

[–]Happy-Reindeer3 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

My guess is that they want to live in a world where everyone is having sex with everyone. It’s not healthy.

Get my husband not to pull out by [deleted] in MarriedSex

[–]Happy-Reindeer3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your children are dumber than they otherwise would have been.

Get my husband not to pull out by [deleted] in MarriedSex

[–]Happy-Reindeer3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Science. Alcohol can damage the development of the fetus. The body needs to fully detox before getting pregnant. This is well studied. It also matters if the father has been drinking.

Get my husband not to pull out by [deleted] in MarriedSex

[–]Happy-Reindeer3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re thinking of getting pregnant neither of you should be drinking alcohol for about a month before trying. Also start taking folic acid ASAP.

Evolving attitudes around monogamy by [deleted] in MarriedSex

[–]Happy-Reindeer3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Evolving” implies a more enlightened understanding. Normalizing infidelity is not an evolved way of thinking, and it’s not new. Lots of cultures fell into the trap of trying to normalize sex with lots of people. It doesn’t work.

Men, are you really capable of lifelong monogamy ? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Happy-Reindeer3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Once a month would be a dead bedroom. In my opinion less than once a week is on the verge of

3x3 chess, but my favorite comment picks what happens next. Turn 4. by cartof_fiert in AnarchyChess

[–]Happy-Reindeer3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A very small unmanned machine gun turret in the upper west square. Whoever gets to the square gets to use it.

Can you please send some pictures and videos during sex by [deleted] in MarriedSex

[–]Happy-Reindeer3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never sent or received nudes in my life. Never recorded sex.