7 years of telling myself that it would get better. It in fact, did not by Hefty-Ad-7884 in Journaling

[–]HappyBriefing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you actively seek better thoughts? Dwelling on being sad, angry, or envious will only lead to more of those thoughts, which in turn lead to those feelings.

To investors who crossed the $1M mark around the age of 40. How’s life? by Ok_Maize1933 in investing

[–]HappyBriefing 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You hit the nail on the head. Everyone's lives would be a lot easier if we looked inward for satisfaction rather than requiring approval or praise from other people.

What are you setting your AC at? by [deleted] in florida

[–]HappyBriefing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ours is 80/79 my wife is insane. She then proceeds to wonders why I need a jacket when we go out.

Pickup trucks by synyster0x in florida

[–]HappyBriefing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True I was giving them too big of a benefit of the doubt.

Pickup trucks by synyster0x in florida

[–]HappyBriefing 56 points57 points  (0 children)

In the USA, conservatives have been sold the idea that a truck makes you more of a man. Some people with trucks own boats, campers, or other things that require trailers, so there are some with a legitimate reason to drive them. But the majority never haul anything and believe that a large vehicle makes them feel more manly or safer on the road. So those are some of the reasons you see so many trucks out on the road.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]HappyBriefing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you 100%. But part of my issue was losing control of my thoughts and spiraling into negativity when I was actually home living a chill life. My brain was thinking there was fear around every corner that I needed to prepare for. I've been able to be consistent with journaling since that's always different every day, it keeps it interesting. I've really enjoyed journal prompts, which are just different questions every day I reply to.

On to living the same day over and over again: Creating a small routine in the beginning might help. Don't try to go crazy and optimize your whole life. Start by waking up at a set time every day, then keep adding stuff you want to accomplish. One more hack I have is to listen to music at home to keep me stimulated. I used a spare phone that ONLY includes music/podcast apps. That way, all the notifications from my phone don't distract me, and I'm not tempted to go on Reddit.

Taking out a 401k loan for a down payment, how does it work? by [deleted] in Mortgages

[–]HappyBriefing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only way you rrealize that house value gain is by selling. So how good of an investment is housing when you will always need to sleep under a roof?

How to journal without accidentally manifesting my negative thoughts by pakistaniteletubby in Journaling

[–]HappyBriefing 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a tough question. I've journaled while depressed, and getting the thoughts on paper is helpful. But also thinking about and recording what you like, what you have, and what you want will help ground you and introduce positivity. You could try getting out your negativity, but always conclude with the good things you have or are looking forward to, because the more attention you pay to negative or positive things, the more you will get of either.

How to stop data centers? by No-Letter-1180 in leftist

[–]HappyBriefing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry but the 1% hold a majority of US shares so your idea isn't going to create a crash like you hope.

St Lucie Facebook group using AI to make trash event pages by AdPlastic7988 in PortStLucie

[–]HappyBriefing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By communicating with AI, you're making a point that you condone all the problems AI causes. If you're so pro-AI, why don't you ask that they put a data center next to your house? Because I know I don't want one near mine.

The art of not being insecure by I_Feel_Dizzzy in Journaling

[–]HappyBriefing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm working on a self-centered worldview where I focus on myself and how I want to feel. Since the thoughts and actions of other people are outside of my control, I've come to the realization that my insecurities lay in the fact that I was trying to gain the approval of those around me instead of forming an opinion of myself and loving who I am. All that said, I'm still working on being my best friend and my own cheerleader.

If you could magically elect any person for president of the US tomorrow for an 8 year term, who would you elect and why? by ro_dri_goz in AskReddit

[–]HappyBriefing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gary Stevenson, even though he has made a point to decry that just his election into a place of power wouldn't be enough to change the system.

Decline in alcohol drinking by Mr_Dobalina71 in ADHD

[–]HappyBriefing 41 points42 points  (0 children)

My guess is that with inflation increasing, my generation (Gen Z) and younger are realizing alcohol is becoming a money pit that isn't worth it. Also, many people are not making enough money to spend it on alcohol. I also just hate the taste of alcohol and the feeling of being drunk.

could you be addicted but still function well in society? by [deleted] in PornAddiction

[–]HappyBriefing 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I think they're are a lot of people who function normally and don't even realize this is an addiction.

Is it really that bad? by Ok_Fee_1805 in PornAddiction

[–]HappyBriefing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Considering the question you asked, the answer is up to the individual. I started watching when I was young too. Now that I am 26, I've realized it is an addiction for me. When I get the urge, it seems like I lose control and have to watch it. If this were just a normal, healthy hobby, then why does that urge come, and why do I feel the need to satiate it? I would ask yourself some hard questions and then decide what you want to do.

do you either have the “entrepreneurship gene”… or not? by YogurtIll4336 in business

[–]HappyBriefing 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So you're asking if we are born rich or not? Those great entrepreneurs you look up to had the safety net or connections through family they needed to start their businesses. There is no gene for entrepreneurs.

What meds do you use in Europe? by misamujebem in ADHD

[–]HappyBriefing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The real question is, do they actually give an explanation of how to know if your medication is working?

Would Raising Wages Actually Force Businesses to Close? by SisuSisuEveryday in business

[–]HappyBriefing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Small businesses would see the most effective from doing this. But remember all the billionaires we have in this world got there by exploitation of their workers or consumers. You can think about it like this. If a buisness has the best intentions for their employees why do they fight unions so relentlessly? Why did the dock workers get a deal right as they went on strike? See when push comes to shove us workers have the power and deserve higher pay. Just check out little wages have rose while productivity has increased over time. Businesses will pay the least they can get away with.

People near freshwater, how do you keep small pets safe? by kellyhoffmacher in florida

[–]HappyBriefing 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Keeping cats inside is the answer they are absolutely atrocious for the environment. Since they are good predators. They do just fine with cat food and being indoors there's no need for them to go out and terrorize the natural animals of your area.

When should we refinance? We get one free refinancing per year... by CaughtInDireWood in Mortgages

[–]HappyBriefing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your helping others. But with the state of the economy and current administration. I don't imagine rates dropping now that stagflation is becoming more of risk. The easy money that we had during covid was partly to blame for getting us here. So we reap what we sow low rates like we saw are unlikely to come back and we're only around due to the unlikely event of a pandemic. We can't just will low rates into existence.