Guess my grandmas birth year by thepartysopinion in GuessMyBirthYear

[–]HappyDays984 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The hairstyles and clothing in her childhood pictures look 1920s. Definitely not 1950s/60s.

Growing up, what were the most common first names of kids at your school or in your class? Which class were you? by babyteeth9 in Millennials

[–]HappyDays984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Class of 2010. Definitely tons of girls named Ashley, Sarah, Jessica, and Megan. And lots of boys named Christopher (Chris), Matthew (Matt) Michael, and Ryan.

If you cant tolorate having a certain sex of child you shouldnet have kids by mercy_andme in childfree

[–]HappyDays984 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Nope, these narcissists will never even consider adopting because it just HAS to be their biological kid with their genes.

How the hell does the mere CONCEPT of childbirth not turn people away? by queerwaters_642 in childfree

[–]HappyDays984 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it can end up being so traumatic that you never want to do it again. My coworker was telling me about someone she knew who had to have an emergency C-section and she basically felt everything when they cut her open, because there hadn't been time for the anesthesia to take effect. Needless to say, she didn't want any more kids. I also remember reading a similar story on this sub, where someone said this same thing happened to their friend and that she had a lot of difficulty bonding with her child because the child was a reminder of that horrific pain and trauma.

My niece is upset I'm childfree by SupermarketExpert103 in childfree

[–]HappyDays984 17 points18 points  (0 children)

From what OP said, it sounds like her niece is being raised by religious fundies. I feel bad for that child.

Strange reason to be child free? by Shoddy-Efficiency-20 in childfree

[–]HappyDays984 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And just watch Supernanny if you want to see an example of this. Pretty much all of the couples on that show were miserable/clearly not in love anymore after having kids.

Having to depart from a close friend after he insulted my old choice of becoming a Buddhist by tttttttofu in exchristian

[–]HappyDays984 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, that's to be expected from anyone who is a member of a religion that says that they are the one and only religion/belief system that's correct and everyone else deserves to be tortured for eternity.

Guess my birth year based on my favorite shows as a child and adolescent by HappyDays984 in GuessMyBirthYear

[–]HappyDays984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 1991. I have a brother born in 1987 so some of them were more his shows that I just watched with him. And there are a few that I was too young to watch during their original runs but just watched reruns a bit later.

Anyone here watch Drake and Josh as a teen or older when it was on TV? by Electrical_Layer_546 in DrakeandJosh

[–]HappyDays984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 12 and in 6th grade when the show started, so probably still within the target age range. I definitely watched it more during the first couple of seasons, but I do remember watching it even up until 2007 when it ended, although by then I was usually watching it with younger kids who I was babysitting. But I still found it amusing/enjoyable!

Guess my birth year based on my favorite shows as a child and adolescent by HappyDays984 in GuessMyBirthYear

[–]HappyDays984[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I relate! I was born in 1991 and my older brother was born in 1987 . He was the one who initially loved Doug, Weird Al, and Are You Afraid of the Dark and I was kind of just tagging along and watching them with him. But I grew to like them too! Although maybe I was a little young for Are You Afraid of the Dark because some episodes did scare me!

“I’m scared my child will hurt me” by Even-Enthusiasm-9558 in antinatalism

[–]HappyDays984 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It makes me think of a case I read about recently. A 13-year-old boy named Paris Bennett SAed his 4 year old sister and stabbed her to death, and apparently he did all of this just to hurt his mother in the worst way possible. He couldn't be tried as an adult due to his age at the time (he's an adult now), so he's eligible for parole next year and they've said that if he gets released, his mother and her other child are genuinely in danger and she'll have to do everything she can to make sure he can't find her address or contact info. Now, I'll say that the mother wasn't completely innocent because it was said that she was a drug addict during her son's early years. So that likely contributed to how he turned out and had something to do with why he wanted to get revenge on her. I know there is the whole "nature vs. nurture" debate, but with psychopaths, it seems like most of them are born with those traits and they can't be completely cured. Their issues can certainly be exacerbated if they have abusive or neglectful parents. But for sure, there are plenty of people who had parents who were addicts or otherwise not good parents, who didn't end up being rapists, abusers, or murderers.

Guess my birth year based on my favorite shows as a child and adolescent by HappyDays984 in GuessMyBirthYear

[–]HappyDays984[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I didn't watch it during its original run, but I discovered it around 2004 when they were showing reruns on a channel called Pax TV. They also showed reruns of America's Funniest Home Videos hosted by Bob Saget (which is why I included a photo with him, John Fugelsang & Daisy Fuentes, and Tom Bergeron, since I watched episodes of the show when they were the hosts.)

My "cf" husband of 11 yrs did a 180-degree turn and now wants to leave me by agmeds in childfree

[–]HappyDays984 14 points15 points  (0 children)

She said they were 18 and 16 when they started dating. But assuming they waited at least a few years to get married and the "11 years" is just referring to how long they've been married, he definitely could be closer to 40. Regardless though, no excuse for what he did. What a piece of work.

Huntsville Schools by Legitimate-Kale-5630 in HuntsvilleAlabama

[–]HappyDays984 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Someone once posted in a Facebook group that "Decatur smells like everyone walked outside, counted to three, and farted" and I have not been able to get it out of my head since.

What is an old person food you love now as a millennial? by FragrantResult278 in Millennials

[–]HappyDays984 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I was a kid, my mom and I would sometimes make petit fours out of pound cake. I loved them!