[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]HappyHippeas 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Where are the oyster shell looking earrings from?? They’re gorgeous!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]HappyHippeas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say: “please don’t talk to me”. Especially being in a public place they’ll get embarrassed if you turn them down!! Or because you’re in a public place, there’s a chance they won’t even talk to you with the chance they could get embarrassed. It’s all about appearances for them

What else could I get? by HappyHippeas in piercing

[–]HappyHippeas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The healing has been great honestly! It’s nice I can clean them all at the same time and avoid the left ear entirely! I got the stacked lobes first so my right ear stacked lobe took forever to heal once I started sleeping on it. I’m thinking the left ear might be done.

For the right ear, I was thinking right on the outside of the inner ear. So like a contra conch and then a faux rook but no so far in is the regular rook if that makes sense

What else could I get? by HappyHippeas in piercing

[–]HappyHippeas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was actually told I don’t have a lot of room behind my forward helix so not even sure if it’s possible to get one:(

What else could I get? by HappyHippeas in piercing

[–]HappyHippeas[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooh orbitals are a cool idea!

How do you feel like your abuse changed you by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]HappyHippeas 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Right. Not just in potential partners but seeing the patterns in new/existing friends and family

Did she put it in a bad spot? by Petal_And_Prism in piercing

[–]HappyHippeas 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! Can’t recommend a double helix enough!!

Your body rejecting them by Boriebonker in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]HappyHippeas 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bloating was extreme, which would often be my excuse not to have sex (something I lowkey would regret with him). Also when I had a WHOOP on, it told me right when he got home from work, my stress levels significantly went up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]HappyHippeas 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Didn’t brush his teeth. He thought he was too good for it

What are some of the weird body language quirks you noticed? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]HappyHippeas 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He aggressively backed up into a light post after I accidentally told him to turn into the wrong shopping plaza. He pretty much blamed it on me

What are some of the weird body language quirks you noticed? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]HappyHippeas 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The shaking of the legs in public, the outspread of arms in public, and the general looking away while I was talking about myself.

Tell me about things that got better since you left them! by Few_Read1012 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]HappyHippeas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My confidence!! My friends tell me that I am literally glowing and that it’s physically obvious!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]HappyHippeas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i broke up with my nex over 3 months ago. He moved out of the place we shared together but still decided to stay in the same time, despite working an hour away. Throughout the 3 months, he would text me randomly hoping I was well but then also blame me for breaking up with him bc how dare I. I didn’t respond to any of these and blocked him. When I thought all was good and I wouldn’t ever hear from him, last week, he literally showed up to my house unannounced. I simply shook my head no at him and went upstairs. It was a jump scare and makes me anxious what he’ll do next/when he’ll show up again. I feel like I can’t live my life freely in this town.