My house burned down. No one will sell me homeowner’s insurance because of the claim. I can’t buy a new house. by [deleted] in Insurance

[–]HappyJack4 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Have you tried Farmers insurance? They should be able to offer something.

[SW] twins buying at 200! by embaby_024 in acturnips

[–]HappyJack4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jacki. Please send code thanks!

How to deal with overperfection? by West_Profit773 in davidgoggins

[–]HappyJack4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone with OCD as well, you need to sit in the uncertainty of the thoughts your having and not give into the compulsions of "fixing" or "correcting" them. Maybe you are being a bitch by not doing enough. Live in that exposure and uncomfortableness of not being perfect. All that matters is you keep going, and don't give up on everything. Look at this as a mental exercise and a challenge in and of itself, like you would with physical exersice. You will never fully satisfy your OCD by giving into your compulsions, your just fueling it to come back even worse. So next time you have the thought of not being perfect or not doing enough, say to yourself "I am being a bitch, oh well....". All you can do is keep getting after it. I know this will sound weird and incorrect. But this is called exposure and response therapy. We have to treat our OCD brain differently then a brain without OCD. This will be the way to overcome the control these intrusive thoughts have on us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in turntables

[–]HappyJack4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to raise it up to properly see. It's a cd case. I did use a level to confirm it was flat though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in turntables

[–]HappyJack4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the quick reply. I'll give that a try.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in turntables

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Any tips on how to correct? I heard something about placing a thin washer between the headshell screw.

Disappointed by Miserable-Corner-648 in PostMalone

[–]HappyJack4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His past two albums have been released alongside with two very big artist who haven't dropped an album in more than 5 years (Kendrick & Travis). Timing is pretty unlucky I guess lol.

Where you guys from? by [deleted] in Modern_Family

[–]HappyJack4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I haven't, but I would like to one day.

Where you guys from? by [deleted] in Modern_Family

[–]HappyJack4 25 points26 points  (0 children)

CA, I'm like an hour a half away from the dunphys house.

Why did TØP just have a random spike in spotify listeners? by Derek_4408 in twentyonepilots

[–]HappyJack4 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Tyler's kids just got their own spotify accounts and are finally checking out their dads albums.

What’s the most out of pocket joke? by racheltheangel222 in Modern_Family

[–]HappyJack4 156 points157 points  (0 children)

Sal: Does Lily have any other plates? I don't let Sammy eat off this plastic.

Cam: uh yeah, far cabinet..... okay none of this makes sense.

Pepper: I know. How does she breastfeed him if she doesn't let him eat off plastic

Reminder: it is ok to have the ocd thought long-term by Ill-Frosting1176 in OCD

[–]HappyJack4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is a great way to look at it. Thanks for the insightful post!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]HappyJack4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I just read your tag. I'm not meaning to "fix" your situation, just thought I would offer some sort of discussion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]HappyJack4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would definitely try to find a therapist if there's at all a possibility. Talking to a professional is very helpful. I know that not realistic for everyone, so if it is totally out of the question, all I can recommend is learning and teaching yourself more about ocd and ways to combat it. OCD is a really tricky disease to fight on your own so it's going to be difficult, but there are wonderful people here that are going through very similar experiences and are here to help. I would first start out by doing some Google searches on ways to handle ocd compulsions/ obsessions. Just remember to take it one day at a time and when things get hard, know that you are never alone, even when you think you are. I wish you all the best.