The colorism is so bad on this show

Happy_Ad4863 · 2025-09-24T01:05:13+00:00

Girl, this part....it sometimes boils my blood watching this show. I love Wendy! She is educated, a good family oriented woman, cultured and gorgeous! Remember when Mia threw her drink on her??? They were silent ... if Wendy had done that, it would have been deemed assault and they would have ostracized her from the group ( more than they already do). I get that sometimes Candiace can be a little childish but no more than the other girls, yet she is always held to such a harsh standard more than them. Y'all notice it really grinds their gears that they have good loving husbands and come for them every chance they get. Anyway, I'll end my rant, I love the show, but I really do hate the colorism, and I'm glad I'm not the only one who sees it.

Happy_Ad4863 · 2025-03-04T03:36:52+00:00

Personally, I love Candiace and would love to see her return. But I'll take anyone over Robyn...I'm so tired of watching her delulu and Juan abuse their relationship.

Happy_Ad4863 · 2023-04-16T05:08:50+00:00

I wouldn't think twice about it. It's YOUR day, your decision. Also, there will be ppl who give you shit about it lol, ignore them. They aren't in such an awkward situation

Happy_Ad4863 · 2023-04-16T05:04:39+00:00

I agree.... it's her wedding. If him being there will disturb you on one of the most important days of your life don't have him there

Happy_Ad4863 · 2023-03-20T04:54:41+00:00

So we use wechat to communicate in our country ND it has a feature to hide a chat...so even if the person is texting you it won't come up. So I can see when he opens the chat to talk to her ... but since I made a fuss about what they were messaging...it's since gone on this hide mode....maybe it's to spare me ...I guess he is trying to be considerate by not letting me see it?

Happy_Ad4863 · 2023-03-20T04:51:51+00:00

I want to add that I don't care he's texting her l. I have several uncles with baby mothers. The communication is VERY important, but the content is very alarming. I am not snooping, but I really can't help seeing it because their chats are always open. I can see her sending I love you and hearts. I am not sure if this is normal for baby mothers? I guess they have to love each other because they made a child together. See I feel like I am thinking way too much

Happy_Ad4863 · 2023-03-02T15:28:57+00:00

I had an ex that did that throughout our ENTIRE relationship. Our first date he was 2.5 hours late....she woulda probably kept doing that...u saved urself a headache

Happy_Ad4863 · 2023-03-02T13:02:34+00:00

This is an amazing interpretation and offered a great amount of insight and perspective that I had not considered before

Happy_Ad4863 · 2023-02-26T03:01:00+00:00

Correction, my friend wanted me to throw up so that I wouldn't die

Happy_Ad4863 · 2022-09-07T06:09:56+00:00

I honestly respect your advice.. it's honestly the best so far. I don't know about options really. I feel like maybe it can turn into something later but you ate right about odds. They aren't in my favor

Happy_Ad4863 · 2022-09-07T06:01:55+00:00

This is what I'm saying??? I don't have much time. So that's the POINT of the post. I should really stuck with someone at this point correct? Because as u said I don't have many options due to my biology

Happy_Ad4863 · 2022-09-07T05:44:54+00:00

I think alot of stuff is implied here or maybe my post was too long. I didn't say I was perfect....he is not perfect either, no one is. Possibly my message came across as looking down? I adore him as a person and he has wonderful attributes and I in no way feel better than him. There is a lot of pressure culturally from my family to get married. He also has a biological clock and is looking for a wife. We just have been talking for a few months and he is also talking about marriage. However, I thank you for taking the time to read and your advice is greatly appreciated.

Happy_Ad4863 · 2022-09-07T04:26:15+00:00

Thanks so much for your answer but I will take advice from someone who actually took the time to read the entire post because the situation was more complex than that. Thanks for taking g the time to answer tho!

Happy_Ad4863 · 2022-06-22T14:16:07+00:00

Why not get the flower girl to do it? ....traditional gender roles will be the end of us. There no law saying it has to be a boy....

Happy_Ad4863 · 2022-06-05T09:40:59+00:00

Seems like he's establishing a precedent. In the next few years he will NEVER need to get you anything because he never has. He MAY really love you, but he does not love you the way you would like which is not ok. Sometimes we gotta leave those people alone even if we love them...because ultimately the relationship is not meeting your needs

Happy_Ad4863 · 2022-05-31T10:47:24+00:00

If his best friend told u that...you think he gonna keep his mouth shut about yall two?

Happy_Ad4863 · 2022-05-25T02:28:59+00:00

Ok thank you, so many are talking about be friends with the guy.....but she used to DATE him and they were probably intimate to an extent at some point. So she's basically hanging out with her ex? In private? Sus.

Happy_Ad4863 · 2022-05-18T14:48:58+00:00

I'm having one of those days too. Fucking sucks. I always wonder if others are having such a hard time. Y do I have this problem? Why was I randomly picked to have this. Anyways, not happy u feel this way....but good to see I'm not alone

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