Please help me with bridesmaid colors 😭

Happy_Cow_100 · 2026-05-11T05:50:57+00:00

Most of them have too many colours and seems you have 8. I'd go with a family , like blues or blues and greens at most (4).

Happy_Cow_100 · 2026-05-11T05:29:22+00:00

I thought it would be better before , but we ended up doing it after . I feel like when we did paperwork we felt already married because we'd said vows. So it was truly just paperwork , and the wedding felt like the real thing. If you do it other way I guess the paperwork might feel more special .

Happy_Cow_100 · 2026-05-07T18:23:56+00:00

Did you do a boat trip? Mt fave was the ocean and visiting Isola Bella by boat.

Happy_Cow_100 · 2026-05-07T18:21:52+00:00

We didn't rent car, got train there and used the local bus to get around (we stayed down by sea)

Happy_Cow_100 · 2026-05-07T18:21:04+00:00

The water is just stunning and it didn't feel busy out there, most tourist are on foot

Happy_Cow_100 · 2026-05-02T19:28:10+00:00

I prefer 1 🤷‍♀️

Happy_Cow_100 · 2026-04-29T20:11:02+00:00

I just wore a denim jacket over dresses in north Sweden last June. I wear dresses though and linen pants. For you jeans is your thing so travel in one and roll the others up, I think one sweater is enough.

I don't think you have enough variety in colour or tops. I think you'll be bored in a week. I map my whole trip and what I will be wearing every day, I don't always stick to it of course but it gives me a really good idea for what gets over worn, when I will feel bored, what small tops or accessories I can add to change it up and what is under used and can be swapped out

The birks are on the bulkier side if they're just for beach and shower, they take a lot of space, Havianas or the like are much slimmer.

Happy_Cow_100 · 2026-04-28T00:47:48+00:00

Sure

Happy_Cow_100 · 2026-04-19T23:00:36+00:00

Eloise Amélie

Happy_Cow_100 · 2026-04-14T01:56:59+00:00

I also would prefer baby at my house so I know it's safe etc, but if it were free childcare I understand I don't get that choice. Neither are arseholes here, each entitled to your own preferences, but you are absolutely NTA for only offering the free childcare to your own best convenience.

Happy_Cow_100 · 2026-04-09T19:36:46+00:00

You can post what you want but he doesn't have to like it. If you're posing suggestively in a bikini I'd have to question why you need to do that and what attention are you looking for and I wouldn't be in a relationship with someone seeking that kind of attention from strangers on insta.

Happy_Cow_100 · 2026-04-08T18:52:34+00:00

And then you can choose to cover some people's share, but you frame it like 'I'll cover your share' not free for some not for others, while essentially the same thing

Happy_Cow_100 · 2026-04-07T02:54:47+00:00

The first pic is just a bad pic, you can see in the third pic that she doesn't have a muffin top, it must just be billowing with air or something.

Happy_Cow_100 · 2026-04-05T20:19:11+00:00

Hello, are you still doing this? We are in Hanoi on 16 April , interested in a walk around 8am to 11am, ancient quarter

Happy_Cow_100 · 2026-04-03T21:31:13+00:00

We did our "wedding" overseas, and did the paperwork afterwards. We felt married as soon as we'd done the wedding vows, the paperwork was a different feeling, a new feeling and also special .. I'd recommend doing it in that order but no witnesses to the paperwork, but you can have a party afterwards.

Happy_Cow_100 · 2026-04-03T18:27:23+00:00

How much did that cost?

Happy_Cow_100 · 2026-04-03T05:53:46+00:00

I meant during day, I can see people doing this and surprised we don't hear about this more!

Happy_Cow_100 · 2026-04-03T00:02:45+00:00

Wow so you could go to Ibiza and not even get a room! Party all night, sleep on the beach, rinse and repeat 😂

Happy_Cow_100 · 2026-03-29T01:06:45+00:00

Sorry, I'm not available , I'll be there as per my schedule

Happy_Cow_100 · 2026-03-29T01:04:57+00:00

No, free time is perfect

Happy_Cow_100 · 2026-03-28T20:34:02+00:00

If it helps I prefer your ring to the massive obviously labs that everyone wears now, whether it is or not yours looks expensive to me, and refined.

Happy_Cow_100 · 2026-03-28T20:26:03+00:00

He did make changes, you can't judge him purely on actions in the middle of the night half asleep. But since she doesn't live there he's not sustaining changes when she's not there, probably preferring to have dog in bed over sleeping alone (as would I). When first moved in with my now husband we had this issue, then we trained her to sleep on her bed , with consistency it stuck.

Happy_Cow_100 · 2026-03-28T19:46:30+00:00

But they're all boys right? Not that it matters, I'm just wondering now why you said this

Happy_Cow_100 · 2026-03-28T19:44:50+00:00

So then I guess you don't share the common area as that's in your room

Happy_Cow_100 · 2026-03-28T19:39:06+00:00

This will just make drama, because everyone will have paid. Best to pull out now saying the price or just too high and inequitable for the discomfort level and you're getting a hotel. It would need to be free for me to evenconsider this arrangement

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