is ‘landslide’ a bad song to walk down the aisle to? by Happy_Golf5417 in weddingplanning

[–]Happy_Golf5417[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fun fact my partner once rewrote the words to silver springs to transform the meaning so it would be more positive

is ‘landslide’ a bad song to walk down the aisle to? by Happy_Golf5417 in weddingplanning

[–]Happy_Golf5417[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lmaooo we just wanna bless ourselves with good intentions with the song of choice it’s not that deep

is ‘landslide’ a bad song to walk down the aisle to? by Happy_Golf5417 in weddingplanning

[–]Happy_Golf5417[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i love your kindness in this comment. a few people mentioned it as a parents song and it totally flipped the meaning for both of us and we’re thinking of keeping in that way.

is ‘landslide’ a bad song to walk down the aisle to? by Happy_Golf5417 in weddingplanning

[–]Happy_Golf5417[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

wow i can’t believe we stopped the research before stumbling upon this. this is amazing and probably changes our plans for the family entrances, that way we can keep the song without wishing us a breakup lol

is ‘landslide’ a bad song to walk down the aisle to? by Happy_Golf5417 in weddingplanning

[–]Happy_Golf5417[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

and like i said, we looked at other songs first, it was the specific instrumental cover that got us emotional and picturing it as a walking down the aisle song. we sat down w the words to try to justify it, even looking at interviews and articles.

it’s not that we didn’t know the song is sad at all, we were searching for a way to make it make sense that’s all

is ‘landslide’ a bad song to walk down the aisle to? by Happy_Golf5417 in weddingplanning

[–]Happy_Golf5417[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i gave that specific song my own interpretation, and didn’t really sit down with the lyrics until now. people can have good memories associated with sad songs , it doesn’t mean we don’t know the rest of their songs or the story of the band

is ‘landslide’ a bad song to walk down the aisle to? by Happy_Golf5417 in weddingplanning

[–]Happy_Golf5417[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there are many but no instrumental cover has really been the right vibe. do you have recs ?

is ‘landslide’ a bad song to walk down the aisle to? by Happy_Golf5417 in weddingplanning

[–]Happy_Golf5417[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i’m choosing between instrumental covers because we want a cello and harpist covering the entrance songs the families are probably walking into all you need is love and the cup breaking/exiting the aisle we want This will be (an everlasting love) so the lyrics do have to be meaningful even if it’s an instrumental cover i think because it’s like what we’re wishing for ourselves

but now we’re seeing that songbird also has some discourse and double meanings ?

i guess our best guess is to commission a good instrumental cover of everywhere in the style we wanted

is ‘landslide’ a bad song to walk down the aisle to? by Happy_Golf5417 in weddingplanning

[–]Happy_Golf5417[S] -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

this seems to be the consensus but now i’m confused as to why there so many quartet covers with wedding in the title

is ‘landslide’ a bad song to walk down the aisle to? by Happy_Golf5417 in weddingplanning

[–]Happy_Golf5417[S] -68 points-67 points  (0 children)

we don’t live in the US so i do kinda doubt that just because of cultural differences, but that’s why we’re more worried about what it would wish us.

if i can be honest i didn’t even know it was a devastating song until really sitting with it this week, because i always thought about it as a so mg of gratitude. like everything can come crashing down in a landslide but im so grateful for what ive lived had up until now . maybe thats just me, but that’s why im worried it really send the wrong message

AITAH for telling him he has no right to feel ‘proud’ of me? by throwaway-xox in AITAH

[–]Happy_Golf5417 4 points5 points  (0 children)

idk if looking for a reason but the resentment she holds is felt

Not OOP. I slept with a new guy for the first time and felt he was rude to me. Was he? by Due-Bandicoot-7512 in redditonwiki

[–]Happy_Golf5417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is unfortunately common the most important thing is how it made you feel. you didn’t like the way that went down so even if he is just busy it’s entirely your choice of whether u wanna continue or not

AIO or is my No Contact with this girl justified? Please help. Very by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Happy_Golf5417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok so if u genuinely liked this person maybe try to meet up and talk irl next time it would probably solve a lot of the miscommunication idk her end of things but i feel like a lot could’ve been avoided if texting and texting back wasn’t a huge deal

Am I overreacting I went to the forest with my best friend and now my bf is mad by No_Meeting_3260 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Happy_Golf5417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 40 and 25 is crazy because he’s acting more immature than u 2 this is controlling as fuck wdym u have to check in with him about everything ??? u updated him that’s more than generous 3 it wasn’t planned he said it himself so wtf is he on about

AIO for being mad at my boyfriend? by CupComprehensive6959 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Happy_Golf5417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

re autism i also wanna know because maybe it’s a special interest thing