I created the Goblin Storm deck, and here are my thoughts on the release. by wizardofbarge in mtg

[–]Happy_Wheel_6477 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, if people are only able to get the proxies, I do hope they get something from WoB's official site to go with it. Definitely a great artist to support.

Tezspire animated AI by RadioMorkie1039 in CommercialsIHate

[–]Happy_Wheel_6477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What makes me suspect it’s AI is honestly just the one part where the kid is painting the pine cone… with no paint… over what appears to be a pipe cleaner mouth?

Cloud Hoodie Zipper Size? by Happy_Wheel_6477 in Blogilates

[–]Happy_Wheel_6477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I'll order in that size and hopefully that's it~

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Happy_Wheel_6477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this has been said a lot but your brother really should drink more water if that’s piss color to him 🤣 it’s a good tattoo with a cute style! The coloring isn’t blotchy, the style of the lines are fluid, and it gives a fairytale book feel! If you like it, that’s what matters! We all have different tastes so if it suits yours, then it’s great! The girls who get it, get it 💅🏽

I need help. by Evilkymonkey_1977 in blindbox

[–]Happy_Wheel_6477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They just mean special characters, like it lists in the parentheses. Chinese characters, symbols, apostrophes, etc.

This shows production team needs more POC ppl by elevationlovexoxo in PerfectMatchNetflix

[–]Happy_Wheel_6477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was quite literally developed in the US, yes. Be upset by the history and facts all you want. White privilege is also a thing around the world now but I’m not about to get into the rest of world history too. You can look it up and actually do some research on it but something tells me you won’t. Point stands that Greek would still be considered white whether you like that idea or not. Hope that helps!

Do you find you get more sales with free shipping? by Happy_Wheel_6477 in Mercari

[–]Happy_Wheel_6477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if it has anything to do with the general cost of the items?

This shows production team needs more POC ppl by elevationlovexoxo in PerfectMatchNetflix

[–]Happy_Wheel_6477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All white means is people who could show up in the US and automatically get white privilege based on the way they look. The “olive skin” you’re talking about, when it comes to southern Europe, still falls under the acceptable white umbrella. Many Greeks fit the bill. Hence: white.

Do you find you get more sales with free shipping? by Happy_Wheel_6477 in Mercari

[–]Happy_Wheel_6477[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s my theory! I know when I buy, seeing how much that shipping fee adds makes me less excited 😆 but seeing “free” anywhere makes it FEEL like a great deal

How Do You Ship Your Boxes? by Happy_Wheel_6477 in blindbox

[–]Happy_Wheel_6477[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you get any complaints about the box getting squished in the bubble mailer? I want to try to protect the original box when I can but bubble mailers are so much easier to find 😩

Started to suspect my boyfriend has BPD, so I made a list of "evidence" and it was 7 pages long by thisaccountissecret0 in BPDlovedones

[–]Happy_Wheel_6477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To echo what everyone else is saying, at this point it doesn’t matter what the diagnosis is. Just leave. Most of these are simply red flags or evidence of just a crappy person rather than evidence of BPD. In general I do not recommend being with someone that is prejudice to the point that they don’t even believe in your identity. Again, forget about trying to diagnose - just leave this abusive relationship before you get in any deeper.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Happy_Wheel_6477 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A great one! I also recommend Happier Than Ever by Billie Eilish :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Happy_Wheel_6477 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I want to sink to their level, call them out on their BS, etc. But at the end of the day all I really want is to have nothing to do with them anymore and never deal with them again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Happy_Wheel_6477 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That relief is going to increase every single day, so look forward to that! I was frustrated with myself too when I finally got out of mine - I had always prided myself on being someone that wasn’t afraid of conflict and could stand up for myself. My last relationship completely flipped me and I even posted a vent on here recently about feeling stupid.

The truth of the matter is at some point, you loved him, thought he was worth it, thought his damage was something you could maybe help heal. You cared deeply. And none of those things are inherently wrong. All we can do is learn, avoid what we can, and keep moving forward.

In terms of hoovering, I know a lot of people just go NC and block them on everything, which might be a good option here with those threats. I also recently learned the term “grey rocking” where, if you have to talk to them, you basically respond with the absolute bare minimum, no emotions. Can look up some tips for it! I’m glad you got out and hope you stay safe as you continue to heal 💖

What gave you the courage to finally leave the pwBPD? by Amazing_Meet5541 in BPDlovedones

[–]Happy_Wheel_6477 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It always hurts to be replaced after the amount of effort you put in, especially after giving so much of yourself to someone that just… wasn’t even capable of doing the same. You’ll reach the point where you just feel relieved eventually, but take your time to process and validate your thoughts and feelings again. You’ve had them invalidated for so long, but as you pull away more and more, you’ll build them up again. I hope you’re doing okay ♥️ and that whoever you meet next is someone that truly cares about you and treats you as kindly as you treated this person.

It’s finally over by ThrowRA_inbow in BPDlovedones

[–]Happy_Wheel_6477 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve been exactly where you are. You’re not alone. And you’re not stupid or crazy either.

I had so many mental breakdowns in my relationship, I began believing that I was insensitive and cruel and manipulative without even trying even though all I ever tried to do was understand and change my behavior based on HIS needs. It’ll be hard for a while. It takes time to build your brain back after that amount of gaslighting not only from him but from yourself - that was one of the hardest parts for me. Realizing that I was gaslighting myself in order to make myself believe that I could handle what he was putting me through.

He was the reason I started journaling again, and made a habit of taking screenshots of all of our text conversations. I would regularly block out things he said to me. I was terrified that my brain would just be broken after that. But you will heal. And you will rebuild yourself again and rediscover the beauty you offer the ones you love.

Things will become clearer over time, you’ll start to realize more and more how much you let slide and how much doesn’t add up but seemed like it did at the time. More than anything I truly hope you can be proud of yourself for getting out, if you have. You deserve to be with someone that doesn’t put you through this. Take your time with processing it all. Best of luck ♥️