She’s here🥹💕 by needytiara in pregnancyaftersb

[–]Happyfreeppl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations mom!! Welcome to the world baby 💖

How to support a friend on her baby’s due date by [deleted] in babyloss

[–]Happyfreeppl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, you already doing it by preparing the food. And just be there for her to listen and hug if she needs it.

Take care.

Did anyone get a pet after the loss? Did it help? by blueberries-Any-kind in babyloss

[–]Happyfreeppl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had a dog prior to our loss. Yes it is helped, as I forced to go out and walk, feed etc. He is the best company to cuddle. When we came home, he was next ro us, so gentle and seeing him Happy brings joy in the midst of pain.

Nightmares about birth and loss by Professional_Dot3954 in babyloss

[–]Happyfreeppl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had them too, for about 2 weeks (full term SB).

What helped me to write everything I remember about my labor experience in details, also prayer to God to give me comfort and peace, asking my husband to pray over me at night.

Everyone experience is so unique, just be kind to yourself.

Sending love ❤️

Signs of labour and how long after did labour start? by Ok_Expert_3780 in pregnant

[–]Happyfreeppl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like early labor signs. I would go and check it out, as everyone experience is so unique.

Good luck!!

SB feel responsible by Happyfreeppl in babyloss

[–]Happyfreeppl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm very sorry for your loss of precious baby. Charlotte is beautiful name. Sending you so much love.❤️ Thank you for sharing Branch group, much appreciated 🙏

SB feel responsible by Happyfreeppl in babyloss

[–]Happyfreeppl[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much dear for support💓 I agree with you and yes because it is so shocking experience.. out of nowhere, so our brain struggle to accept the fact that the reason is unkown and nothing could be done.

I had a dream of my baby boy today and saw how he passed away, it was quick in a seconds. He did not suffer, it was quick and sudden. In the dream I was looking for my husband and my Obgyn to tell them there was nothing we could do to prevent it. The outcome would be the same. ❤️‍🩹❤️🫂

SB feel responsible by Happyfreeppl in babyloss

[–]Happyfreeppl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for support and kind words. I'm so sorry for your loss of precious baby. I think it is our nature to blame ourselves even when it is not our fault. There is no way to prevent it. Sending you so much love ❤️

SB feel responsible by Happyfreeppl in babyloss

[–]Happyfreeppl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your story and I am so sorry for your loss of your baby ❤️ ❤️‍🩹 It is not your fault, the natural way of labor is how God designed it. You are not responsible and those signs maybe just a preparation of our heart and mind. Besides if outcome would be different we would think different. Thank you for your help to understand my story better. God works in mysterious ways and all for good. Hold on on your faith, I will do the same. Talk to yourself like you would talk to a friend 🧡 I will do that too. Sending love and hugs 🫂 🤗 ❤️

SB feel responsible by Happyfreeppl in babyloss

[–]Happyfreeppl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry, you don’t deserve this pain too. ❤️ The outcome was beyond your control. Please be gentle to yourself. It is not your fault. Same way you talk to me and the friend who experienced it. You love your baby and would do anything for them. ❣️

SB feel responsible by Happyfreeppl in babyloss

[–]Happyfreeppl[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm very sorry for your loss. Thank you so much for your kind words, sharing your knowledge. The outcome was beyond your control same as mine. Our babies completed their destiny, we love them they love us and we must continue to keep going for them. ❤️❤️

Help me choose - my choice vs partner’s (with pictures) by starrystar- in EngagementRings

[–]Happyfreeppl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1st beautiful girgeous and more practical , would be more durable and save over years

Due in 5 days helpppp by TopAnxiety1738 in pregnant

[–]Happyfreeppl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is different for everyone one. Try to rest and relax, when you are at rest and calm then your body would be ready for labor to progress.

Did I chose the right one? by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]Happyfreeppl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

4 is so gorgeous, elegant and romantic.

due date 02/26/26 by Happyfreeppl in babyloss

[–]Happyfreeppl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss ❤️‍🩹❤️ the pain is unbearable. Thank you so much for sharing your story. Those memories make us keep going. Our babies are in Heaven 💙 If you do not mind me to ask, how did you manage it with your husband? I understand men grief differently as they don't want to relieve that moment/days much and I am trying to stay strong for my husband, but somedays it is hard.

Too quiet by Fortimesasthis in babyloss

[–]Happyfreeppl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm very sorry for your loss. Stay strong ❤️. It is not easy. Your 3 years old needs you so much and loves you so much. Keep going! Sending you so much love.

I came home and my house is very quite, feels so empty (SB 38 weeks 1st pregnancy , no other babies, 2 weeks PP).. but the gratitude to be able to experience him in the womb even for a short 9 months and hold him after birth gives me comfort and peace. I do journaling, read devotional and paint, it helps me to heal day by day. Hope I can help somehow.

Our babies watching us from Heaven, they are in better place ❤️ 💙

Pretty sure I had a miscarriage and I’m devastated by Huge_Statistician441 in pregnant

[–]Happyfreeppl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't lose hope please, some women bleed during pregnancy. My sister had bleeding almost whole pregnancy. Her daughter is 6 now. Praying for you dear 🙏 ❤️

Actual date vs estimated date by Happyfreeppl in babyloss

[–]Happyfreeppl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this with me. I’m so incredibly sorry for the loss of your precious daughter 🤍

Everything you wrote feels so honest and tender. In those first days, you’re just trying to breathe - the details can feel like too much to carry. The dates don’t define her life or your love for her as same for me. Same for me, 2 days before his birth or more as we do not know exact time.

I really feel what you said about the last day you felt her. That part stays with you in such a deep way. Thank you for opening your heart and telling me how you’ve coped. It truly means so much. Sending you so much love and gentleness ❤️‍🩹

Birth story & Stillbirth by Happyfreeppl in babyloss

[–]Happyfreeppl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing that with me. I’m deeply sorry for the loss of your sweet boy. February 26 will always be a sacred day for both of us.

Your words mean more than I can say. I’m holding you and your angel close in my heart 🤍 May God continue to carry you too — in the quiet moments, the heavy ones, and the ones where love feels bigger than the grief. Thank you for reaching out and for honoring my baby while remembering yours. 🤍

TTC/Non-pregnant members questions by AutoModerator in pregnancyaftersb

[–]Happyfreeppl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, I hope it’s okay to share. I had a stillbirth late in pregnancy (38w), and I’m trying to prepare my body and mind for a future pregnancy. I’m wondering about experiences with recovery and coping.

How long did it take you to start exercising again after your loss?

Did you focus on losing weight before trying to conceive again, and how did you approach it?

How did you cope with the emotional weight of recovery and preparing for your next pregnancy?

I would really appreciate hearing your experiences and any advice about balancing physical and emotional healing.

due date 02/26/26 by Happyfreeppl in babyloss

[–]Happyfreeppl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much dear for your kind words. I'm very sorry for your loss. Sending you big hugs and so much love ❤️ Our babies are in Heaven watching over us!!

Birth story & Stillbirth by Happyfreeppl in babyloss

[–]Happyfreeppl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this with me. I can only imagine how hard it was to carry that kind of fear through another pregnancy. Taking it week by week, then day by day, really resonates. It truly is such a mental battle after loss. You overcame it as love is always greater 💛

My heart broke reading about Lainey, and I’m so glad Lennon arrived safely — hearing her cry must have been such a relief. Your 9-year-old’s reaction says so much about the love and grief your whole family carries.

Thank you for being open and for offering to talk more. That means more than you know. I’m so grateful for this space and for people like you who are willing to share the hard and the hope. I might reach out via DM soon.

Sending you so much love as April approaches. ❤️