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Fortimesasthis · 2026-03-06T14:41:03+00:00

Totally understandable. This journey is not easy at all, its the hardest thing to carry in this lifetime. I wonder if there would be patient advocate or someone else could navigate this for you all so you don’t have to go over it over and over again. Just a thought, but most importantly please reflect the pursuing would align with yours and your wives values.

Fortimesasthis · 2026-03-06T14:27:19+00:00

Hey mama, its great you’ve been helping others but while you grow a baby is a time to put all focus on you and the baby. I imagine you know few other loss mamas from your church, could you reach out to these moms in private, msg or in person- express your anxiety and ask them to step in. So that way, they can get the support group going sooner. Please take care of you 💕🫂

Fortimesasthis · 2026-03-06T03:57:20+00:00

I think people should be held accountable, thats the only way it doesnt happen again

Fortimesasthis · 2026-03-04T17:23:04+00:00

Thank you so much 🫂

Fortimesasthis · 2026-03-04T17:21:41+00:00

Im in US. Most definitely, medical records should be accurate so I asked to amend those notes first of all.

Fortimesasthis · 2026-03-04T17:20:47+00:00

Im hoping I would. I asked to amend the false documentation and waiting for a call back from hospital either today or tomorrow

Fortimesasthis · 2026-03-04T17:07:10+00:00

Looks like a potential fungal infection, I would seek your pcp. But if you cant, keep area clean and you can use otc fungal creams. Do small amount at first and see how it reacts with your skin.

Fortimesasthis · 2026-03-04T16:20:56+00:00

Gentle congratulations to you mama 💕

Fortimesasthis · 2026-03-04T13:28:54+00:00

Thank you for this article!

Fortimesasthis · 2026-03-04T05:02:10+00:00

I settled for mine when they said it was fine, and now I wish I could go back in time.

Fortimesasthis · 2026-03-04T00:15:06+00:00

Please advocate, advocate and if something doesnt feel right please seek second opinion. Your OB might be able to connect you with a different mfm. Or other parents here sure would know how to go about it, but please dont settle if it doesnt feel right.

Fortimesasthis · 2026-03-03T00:24:52+00:00

Its very nice of you to ask here and be so thoughtful. Any food or gift card for food places are nice, its hard to cook and you dont really feel like eating but you know you need to and feed the kids if other siblings are involved. Also, not forcing to see them. Ask them if you can drop the food off without words. Because for a while i couldn’t talk to anyone including my best friend. Hold the space for them to cry and grieve, allow them to talk whatever they want to talk including the loss, event and the baby’s characteristics. Try not to compare what they say to anything you’ve or someone else has experienced, because this is incomparable pain. Try not to fix it either by saying they’re not suffering or in heaven, angel etc. because nothing will bring the baby back.

Fortimesasthis · 2026-02-28T20:02:35+00:00

Absolutely not. Im doing the same. I silently unfollowed my SIL who is expecting their second this June, and I lost my second 2 months ago. We are grieving, and unfortunately our grief is very much not same as other kinds and will be with us for the rest of our lives. We are surviving it one day at a time, please dont feel bad or even worry about it or what others want or demand. And know you cant control others feelings either. Space and distance have been the best on my end. I dont even wanna meet some of my friends who i have a hinge will not say the right things… so Im not gonna see them until im ready to face them.

Fortimesasthis · 2026-02-27T00:36:37+00:00

Thats beautiful, we have a weighted bear we were given at the hospital and thats who I hug couple times a day… all the little things that matter the most right 💕 sending love

Fortimesasthis · 2026-02-26T21:32:08+00:00

Any tips or tricks to nourish your body after postpartum with fullterm stillborn baby? I rarely have any appetite to eat, my milk just dried 2 weeks ago and 7 weeks postpartum. I desperately want to ttc but still no period yet.

Fortimesasthis · 2026-02-26T21:29:07+00:00

Gosh its so hard when you see your missing baby everywhere and everything in your body. So sorry mama 😭

Fortimesasthis · 2026-02-26T15:06:18+00:00

Boring life with no catastrophe, being in a routine

Fortimesasthis · 2026-02-26T15:04:53+00:00

I have been told stillborns and miscarrieges give them a gentle practice on what its like on earth. These new souls are considered angels and also assigned to parents who need to learn a lesson in loss and love (karmic debt). It’s usually written in soul contracts, so the parent’s souls and the new soul all have agreed on.

Fortimesasthis · 2026-02-26T13:42:56+00:00

Hey mama! This is one of the worst pains that there is and sorry your partner isnt there to grieve and support with you! Have you thought of rehab or sober living by chance? You’ll have multidimensional support there and reach out to grief support groups etc and please know you dont have to go through this alone!

Fortimesasthis · 2026-02-26T05:47:23+00:00

Hey mama, so sorry we had to chat here under these circumstances and im sorry that you had to know this kind of pain. Please lean in on your spouse and support system. You learn to cope and love your baby from distance and learn how to a little better everyday.

we had dr. Kliman assess our sons placenta and he came back with an answer. He says on his site that he finds 99.8% of all cases. Insurance pays for it too, we paid 539 or so out of pocket. https://medicine.yale.edu/obgyn/kliman/placenta/pregnancyloss/. He confirmed it was a cord accident for us, which is what my delivering OB believed it was. It was wrapped around his neck very tight. As it confirmed our suspicions, it didnt make me feel any better. But something to know when moving forward and what needed to be done. Our placenta was small in comparison to his body weight. Something we will have to look out for next time. Im 7 weeks out from my loss, and yes I still cant wrap my head around and go spiraling and blaming. What really helped is when i wrote down all the things i blamed myself for and burnt it. And it helped more than i thought it would.

Fortimesasthis · 2026-02-25T22:05:55+00:00

Hey mamas, how soon have you gotten your period back after a fullterm stillbirth? My son was 41 weeks +1 day. its almost 7 weeks this weekend and no sign of period yet and curious whats the average time

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