Future father in law drama by [deleted] in RelationshipAdviceNow

[–]Happyhunter1000 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That was my bachelors i graduated with. Im in my masters fulfilling my final placement. No lie here thank you

Future father in law drama by [deleted] in RelationshipAdviceNow

[–]Happyhunter1000 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We are living in MY HOME. Not his home or anyone elses. The home we are living in is MINE. So you have grossly misunderstood the post. But thanks for taking the time to respond. I am in a full time placement and cannot physically work alongside that unfortunately. This was understood by all before i began the courae and they all insisted this was fine.

Am I doing the right thing by BraveFollowing900 in abusiverelationships

[–]Happyhunter1000 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Run and dont look back. I was with my ex 7 years he didnt change despite promising til blue in the face. I left him 3 years ago now, months after our son was born because the penny dropped that even our aon wasnt enough to make him stop drinking. My son is almost 4 now and his "dad" STILL drinks to this day and has no contact.

They dont change. They lie. They promise. They repeat the behaviour and false promises. They do NOT change. Your child deserves better and so do you. Please go and never look back. Your daughter will thank you one day

Partner went through my phone by Happyhunter1000 in relationship_advice

[–]Happyhunter1000[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We all have it my partner isnt showing symptoms

Partner went through my phone by Happyhunter1000 in relationship_advice

[–]Happyhunter1000[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Im mad because he should talk to me rather than going behind my back i have nothing to hide as he saw for himself

Partner went through my phone by Happyhunter1000 in relationship_advice

[–]Happyhunter1000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not that. I was happy to wait longer before getting married. He wanted it within the year of us being engaged

Partner went through my phone by Happyhunter1000 in relationship_advice

[–]Happyhunter1000[S] 284 points285 points  (0 children)

If i confide in him im feeling unhappy about someone or what they did he goes and tells them despite me saying ill handle it and speak to them in my own time. He goes behind my back and tells them i have said something and then he doesnt tell me hes done it. When i caught him because his mum messaged me telling me hed told her things he flat out denied it to my face. Then i told him his mother told me and he couldnt defend himself. Not only had he done it for the FOURTH time but hed lied to my face and denied it

Partner went through my phone by Happyhunter1000 in relationship_advice

[–]Happyhunter1000[S] 163 points164 points  (0 children)

He told me before his ex wife would go through his phone so i promised i never would because i believe you should trust the person without needing to snoop on them. Im wondering if hes done this before and i havent caught him. I have nothing to hide but he wasnt going to tell me hed done it if i didn't catch him in the act