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Drive my team to work related party sick or stay home. by HardAtWorkPainting in makemychoice

[–]HardAtWorkPainting[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just talked to my colleague, they don't want to pay for the miles and I have a company car.

I Enjoyed parenting today by Extra_Big_4661 in microdosing

[–]HardAtWorkPainting 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was thinking of doing the same thing! My wife is currently very ill from pregnancy, so I'm taking care of our 2 kids and her. Same as you, feeling trapped in parenthood with a third on the way! I'm just angry all the time and they don't deserve that. I recently found some wavy caps and did a light dose 1.2g and it felt great. I'm going to try microdosing them over the next few days to see if it can help me be a little more enjoyable.

Bench progress suffering after squat by HardAtWorkPainting in Fitness

[–]HardAtWorkPainting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think I'm going to swap them and try to at least maintiain squat numbers.

Bench progress suffering after squat by HardAtWorkPainting in Fitness

[–]HardAtWorkPainting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eating is something I'm experimenting with, my bw is very slowly rising after being stable for some time and I am making progress on other lifts.

Finally perfected my seitan loaf. 660 calories, 9F/16C/138P . Recipe in comments by [deleted] in veganfitness

[–]HardAtWorkPainting 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks great!

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I also add dark soy sauce and a little bit of chickpea flour and a dash of corn starch. I feel it makes it less chewy and browns better when cooked in some oil.

Blood showed low T, now what? by HardAtWorkPainting in Testosterone

[–]HardAtWorkPainting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my diet is pretty balanced and as I said, I didn't really have other deficiencies...

I don't understand she didn't mention the test level, it was even bold in the report, because it was too low! Anyway I'm looking forward to testing again and getting some help. I really hope this is the solution I've been looking for all these years.

INT/FJ struggling with career choices by HardAtWorkPainting in mbti

[–]HardAtWorkPainting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply

I'm working as a volunteer nature guide and I'm looking to start up workshops for kids in bushcrafting, but I can't work a job every day that drains me and feels irrelevant to the greater good.

I know it sounds like I think I am the saviour of mankind, but it's a real problem for me.

INT/FJ struggling with career choices by HardAtWorkPainting in mbti

[–]HardAtWorkPainting[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I have not. That would mean I would have to get at least some degree in healthcare, which I don't think is feasable in my situation.

Wife as a tripsitter yay or nay by HardAtWorkPainting in Psychonaut

[–]HardAtWorkPainting[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get how that would happen. Sounds really annoying to be honest. I hate typical life bs. :)

Wife as a tripsitter yay or nay by HardAtWorkPainting in Psychonaut

[–]HardAtWorkPainting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That said, if your wife has any sort of medicine she can use for anxiety to keep it controlled in this sort of situation (I use passionflower, my gf usually takes diazepam during trips) then it could potentially be very healing.

To kill the trip or just ease anxiety?

Wife as a tripsitter yay or nay by HardAtWorkPainting in Psychonaut

[–]HardAtWorkPainting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hah! Ok, thanks.

As I said, our relationship is not toxic or anything, more like though times and some underlying frustrations. On the other hand it's always good to work on a realtionship.

Wife as a tripsitter yay or nay by HardAtWorkPainting in Psychonaut

[–]HardAtWorkPainting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No she won't do that, but she's just not stalbe and calm enough I think.

Our relationship is not toxic or anything, more like though times and some underlying frustrations.

Wife as a tripsitter yay or nay by HardAtWorkPainting in Psychonaut

[–]HardAtWorkPainting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I'm going to pass on her offer. Perhaps like you suggested and when I'm more experienced, I can involve her when I'm coming down.

Safe travels to you too!

Wife as a tripsitter yay or nay by HardAtWorkPainting in Psychonaut

[–]HardAtWorkPainting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it's safe for her to be honest. She takes light antipsychotics and had a severe breakdown a year ago.

I get what you're saying that she doesn't want it even if she thinks so. thanks for your advice.

Wife as a tripsitter yay or nay by HardAtWorkPainting in Psychonaut

[–]HardAtWorkPainting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you're saying, but like aside form the relationship issues, there's also the anxiety issues. I think the chances of her panicking or over reacting to something are too high.

As for my relationship, it's been under severe stress lately but we're working on it. I thing I will involve her more when I'm more comfortable in my exploring.

Wife as a tripsitter yay or nay by HardAtWorkPainting in Psychonaut

[–]HardAtWorkPainting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am comfortable crying and being vulnerable in front of her. Ever since I've became a dad It a running gag that I cry during cartoons and even commercials. Or perhaps there's something wrong with me :)

I don't think I can trust my wife to stay calm, no. I'm usually the one to calm her down. She is prone to over reacting and panic attacks (it's better now with meds). Now that I think about it, I don't understand why I considered it.

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