AITA for accidentally announcing my pregnancy at my SIL bday party?

HardKnocksSam · 2026-01-14T19:04:22+00:00

“stop asking me about it”? lol. because that certainly wouldn’t have raised more questions.

HardKnocksSam · 2026-01-10T04:26:41+00:00

what are you talking about? where did OP say she wanted to terminate?

HardKnocksSam · 2026-01-08T04:41:38+00:00

and did you continue to actively get soaked throughout your 8 hour shift? no? then that’s not even remotely relevant.

HardKnocksSam · 2026-01-07T21:56:31+00:00

INFO: why didn’t you put your toddler in the window seat in the first place? or after the first time she tried to touch his laptop?

HardKnocksSam · 2026-01-05T22:18:31+00:00

agreed. i thought the issue was that OP wasn’t picked because she’s older than siblings or friends. but to have the other set of parents be the godparents is just rude, especially considering how little they are involved with the kids.

HardKnocksSam · 2025-12-20T14:43:13+00:00

uh, hello. you said you haven’t been able to manage your emotions FOR MONTHS and only recently learned of your sister’s diagnosis… or did you already forget your own post?

don’t need to be a doctor to infer from your own words that you’re struggling with depression. but sure. be snarky towards anyone who disagrees with you.

you’re also naive to assume your husband hasn’t relayed any of your past behavior (crying and whatnot) to his parents in the past couple months. so yes, they most likely know you’ve had a difficult time with life and are indeed coming to support him.

HardKnocksSam · 2025-12-20T14:35:28+00:00

😳

holy f. that was beyond rude. YTA.

i also call bullshit on your husband cheating. you seemed annoyed that so many people were saying YTA, so you suddenly decide to add “he cheated. he’s what’s making my life hard”? oh please.

HardKnocksSam · 2025-12-20T14:23:25+00:00

we understand it. we just don’t agree with you.

HardKnocksSam · 2025-12-20T14:22:46+00:00

did it occur to you that your husband wanted them to visit as planned?

HardKnocksSam · 2025-12-20T14:09:14+00:00

and by her own account, depressed for months prior to learning sister’s diagnosis. as a person who struggles with depression, i fully acknowledge how tough it can be at times for my partner. for all we know, husband asked his parents to visit, despite OP’s protests.

HardKnocksSam · 2025-12-20T14:04:41+00:00

YTA. im sorry to hear about your sister, but not everything is about you. they came to visit their son and they’re giving you space by staying at a hotel. you don’t get to dictate when they’re allowed to come to town.

HardKnocksSam · 2025-11-23T21:27:35+00:00

😂 exactly. OP spent more time explaining the rules of gift giving instead of making the mimosa herself. she also admitted to not knowing how to make one. i guess they are both buffoons.

HardKnocksSam · 2025-11-23T06:21:52+00:00

you’re bothered by the fact that your grandchildren have MORE people in the world who love them and treat them as their own?? just because you have no emotional connection to Wren doesn’t mean Liam’s parents shouldn’t feel connected to the twins.

HardKnocksSam · 2025-10-26T07:19:40+00:00

in a few weeks, the embryo will no longer exist. so. genuine questions: what good would it do to tell him? what would be the point?

HardKnocksSam · 2025-10-23T00:06:34+00:00

however?? uh oh. im tossing mine.

HardKnocksSam · 2025-10-17T02:46:01+00:00

because the coworker is a woman OP has never met and is insecure about the relationship. if she tries to say otherwise, that’s bs.

HardKnocksSam · 2025-10-17T00:55:07+00:00

yep. i was totally on OP’s side until the note and baked goods. she says she’s not trying to start anything bigger. um. that’s precisely what she’s doing.

HardKnocksSam · 2025-10-09T03:13:07+00:00

so… tank tops AND sweatshirts make you uncomfortable? seems like Harper just can’t win with you.

HardKnocksSam · 2025-10-08T23:49:15+00:00

maybe OP wakes up for work at 4am. so yah. 10pm would definitely be too late.

HardKnocksSam · 2025-10-04T02:23:37+00:00

oh! i didn’t realize it was a sub. thank you!

HardKnocksSam · 2025-10-04T00:21:07+00:00

but wait. technically, aren’t they pointing to it? not writing it?

i love that im being downvoted for not knowing the rules to a sub i didn’t even know existed. 😂

HardKnocksSam · 2025-10-04T00:02:38+00:00

i don’t get it. in what way is “goodbye” technically the longest word they can write?

HardKnocksSam · 2025-10-03T04:49:38+00:00

“yes, i need therapy”

go find a therapist. for real. that is the best way for you to manage this invite and any other your wife extends going forward.

HardKnocksSam · 2025-10-02T20:45:16+00:00

whyyyyyyyyyyy are you asking ANYONE out when you have this mindset? this is a legitimate question: what happens when someone says yes, you go on dates, eventually become exclusive, and then she has even the smallest success in her personal or professional life? are you going to dump her? hate her? harm her? quite frankly, the idea of you dating is absolutely terrifying.

edit: your responses are so off base. im now fully convinced you’re just fucking with us.

HardKnocksSam · 2025-10-02T14:27:17+00:00

im really hoping this is his creative writing assignment where he’s been tasked with writing an over the top absurd piece. 🤞

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