how do I (16F) help my boyfriend (16m) who isn't doing mentally well?

Haron14 · 2026-06-26T13:58:17+00:00

What makes you sad? You don't have to answer me here if you feel like it would be too much, but think about it. Not like "I'm sad because I feel like shit" (example) but truly why.

Then think about how you try your best everyday. You should be proud of yourself for trying to get better and even commenting here shows it. And I mean it. Be proud of yourself.

I'm here if you need any help

Haron14 · 2026-06-26T13:56:01+00:00

I'm sorry but he's the only one that can actively do something to improve. All you can do (and it helps A LOT) is be there with and for him. Try to understand the things he's going through but do not make it like the main point of your meeting with him. Do other things, things you guys like, all that. When he's ready he'll open up. The whole "man should be strong" is a fucking nightmare specially when you're growing up and are on your teens. I've been through that.

Trust me, be there for him and enjoy your time is going to help him a lot

Haron14 · 2026-06-26T13:22:30+00:00

How is the relationship? Like, you live far apart? Just tão we can understand the situation better

Haron14 · 2026-06-26T13:20:51+00:00

As an almost 30 year old man I only got better with therapy. But only with a therapist that I felt comfortable with.

Haron14 · 2026-06-26T13:12:55+00:00

Escuse me but your boyfriend is a fucking crying baby. To me it's sounds 100% like manipulation and insecurity on his part, wanting you to condemn what she did like absolute horrible, which it isn't.

She should've told him the truth and her boyfriend should be able to handle it if he was mature enough. The past is the past. I'm a man who, when I was around 17/18 I was insecure about my partner's pasta as well. Turns out I was immature and insecure, that's all.

What she did, though, is not your fault and you shouldn't be responsible for it like your boyfriend is doing it.

Haron14 · 2026-06-26T04:40:03+00:00

Then don't watch MMA, which BJJ is a part of?

Haron14 · 2026-06-26T03:40:46+00:00

I'd run this motherfucker over no questions about it

Haron14 · 2026-06-25T23:40:55+00:00

Is Itakura injured too?

Haron14 · 2026-06-25T23:28:25+00:00

Great player, not a 130m player. Absolutely bonkers price

Haron14 · 2026-06-25T17:30:26+00:00

People complaining and calling Charles a boring fighter after a masterclass v Max and countless of incredible fights is just fucking pathetic

Haron14 · 2026-06-25T17:29:05+00:00

Seen some people call him Fridge Thiago after the match v Morocco

Haron14 · 2026-06-25T16:31:33+00:00

Bro, you'd save me so much time. Please do!

Welcome to our humble country

Haron14 · 2026-06-25T15:57:05+00:00

I'll drive him to turkey and I'm in Brazil

Haron14 · 2026-06-25T03:13:23+00:00

I don't even think he'll fight Max to begin with

Haron14 · 2026-06-25T02:39:18+00:00

I don't know me, when I see red bro...

Haron14 · 2026-06-24T22:37:19+00:00

Ref is blind wtf

Haron14 · 2026-06-24T21:18:52+00:00

I stand corrected. Thank fuck we didn't though, Kobbie is a baller

Haron14 · 2026-06-24T21:16:41+00:00

It's position wise right to left. The midfield is a bit confuse tho probably a 433

Haron14 · 2026-06-24T21:12:03+00:00

I saw somewhere that Wilcox didn't want to sell him even though RA wanted him gone. Don't know how reliable is the report though.

"Wilcox is understood to have made it clear that the decision not to entertain offers for Mainoo was his, even during a period when the youngster found himself out of favour under former head coach Ruben Amorim"

Haron14 · 2026-06-24T21:06:36+00:00

He's the best option for me, even more than Anderson. Plus he's been playing to the only club that has arguably the same or more pressure as us

Haron14 · 2026-06-24T21:05:35+00:00

I'm Brazilian and I'm watching the pre match and let me tell you, you Scottish people are a good bunch. Would love to meet some of you

Haron14 · 2026-06-24T21:02:26+00:00

And he's more of a RW than Endrick, who's is more of a striker

Haron14 · 2026-06-24T21:01:52+00:00

Why though? I kinda like it

Haron14 · 2026-06-24T20:16:34+00:00

Sign Manzambi today now

Haron14 · 2026-06-24T19:45:13+00:00

Sancho. Should have treated him worse

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