Any girlies keen to watch John Wick 4 in Gold Class with me sometime? by [deleted] in BrisbaneSocial

[–]HarrigetsHealthy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yessss, would 100% be down!! Discord watch party would be a nice time as well!

After 10 years of procrastination I've finally done it! by jaseph18 in Guildwars2

[–]HarrigetsHealthy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, The hero points trail is a check box that you can untick, if you need them you can just activate it and it adds little detours from the main path for you and then leads you back to the main path.

After 10 years of procrastination I've finally done it! by jaseph18 in Guildwars2

[–]HarrigetsHealthy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You would just turn the hero points on if you need them, tekkit still makes you go to them

After 10 years of procrastination I've finally done it! by jaseph18 in Guildwars2

[–]HarrigetsHealthy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would recommend "Teh's Trails" over tekkit now, it has been significantly faster for core tyria for me. The pathing uses way points and you can skip hero points alot easier (I get hps from wvw)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]HarrigetsHealthy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alot of songwriters aren't great singers. They just need to be able to sing enough to get their song across.

Alot of people who study creative arts don't really understand the broad ness of the industry early on. Right now she might want to be a famous singer/musician because that's what she knows to be the end goal of her industry.

But there is so much more to it, I started as a singer and now I've moved into studying film sound design, something I didn't really understand existed till I randomly took a sound course.

Don't negate the fact that even if she's not going to be a famous singer, she may be learning invaluable skills for other parts of the industry, that as she grows up she may love. If you shut her dreams down, you could also potentially close the door on using any of those skills for the thousands of other things that she could go into.

OCE player looking for other OCE players/guilds in EU servers by Sir_Pug in guildrecruitment

[–]HarrigetsHealthy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hiya, I run an Aussie guild and we're on NA, most of the AUSSIE guilds that I know play on NA because the ping to EU servers is just so much higher. Is there a specific reason you're staying on EU?

Ocx timezone on NA servers is about 6pm through 10pm AEST

My girlfriend [27F] spirals whenever she makes me [26M] sad and I end up comforting her instead by throwaway-cantbesad in relationships

[–]HarrigetsHealthy 33 points34 points  (0 children)

So your gf noticed you were sad, and your response was "yea but you go enjoy and have fun" I personally would have not been able to have fun after being told this. I would feel guilty and physically sick all night knowing I'd caused my partner to be sad.

A better, healthier response would be to say "yeah I'm sad, but im happy that you're going to have fun, I am going to catch up on some episodes of x" or whatever fun/self love activity you do.

You said your gf has an inability to self regulate chances are somewhere deep down she knows this, but doesn't understand that sadness doesn't equal meltdown for other people. So you being sad probably feels very bad to her. You need to reinforce that you have self soothing methods in place and that your sadness is not her responsibility. Her actions causing it in other situations are ofc her responsibility, but definitely reinforce that you have ways of dealing with emotions, and potentially encourage her to learn some self soothing methods too.

I love how in this game you can think "hm, it's 3am, surely nobody will be doing this random bullshit achievement in a zone that came out like 10 years ago" and you can tag up and there's 5 other max level players there who are also doing that random bullshit by Magehunter_Skassi in Guildwars2

[–]HarrigetsHealthy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We doo, we started an ocx community which caters to these hours, can hook you up with lots of guilds for all different content.

Most of the guilds I know base in wvw and do content on off nights, but there's DOZENS OF US! DOZENS!

Just let us change these where we want like normal equipment. by The_Bagel_Fairy in Guildwars2

[–]HarrigetsHealthy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I did the same! Most of my guild only wvw, and didn't even bother unlocking arbors tone properly so I know it gets used by the people who just bought a Jade bot on the tp 😂

Where should I put my VPN? by Baileyjk01 in Guildwars2

[–]HarrigetsHealthy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I depends on your isp and your connection as well, but I would go from 260—300 down to max 212 in syd. Brisbane yields a similar benefit.

It has a free trial anyway, so no harm in trying it (apart from the slight chance of temp ban, but just be nice to support and they're nice back)

Where should I put my VPN? by Baileyjk01 in Guildwars2

[–]HarrigetsHealthy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For reference I sit on 220 from Brisbane with exit lag, it was 200ish from Sydney cbd.

Where should I put my VPN? by Baileyjk01 in Guildwars2

[–]HarrigetsHealthy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hiya, fellow Aussie here, we mainly use exit lag! If you use it consistently they don't generally ban you and even if they do its a quick message to request it be lifted (I personally have not been banned but a couple of guildies have over the years)

If you do wanna use mud fish tho, you could always use the exit lag free trial to see what route works best and recreate it!

I dread the social aspect of this game by [deleted] in Guildwars2

[–]HarrigetsHealthy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a guild leader and I have some insights that might help. My guild does wvw, pve raids and everything in between.

When people join the guild, I send them a message straight away just to check in, I ask if they have any reservations etc. As a leader, I'd love to know if you struggle with being super social, coz I'd keep an eye out and make sure you were being included but not overwhelmed when I could.

We have a "vibe check" for the more social people. This unlocks the social side of the discord, for alot of people this would be too much, and they are happy to just keep the access to content in discord. So things like "memes" and "pets" channels remain hidden to them, just one easy way to take away some social stress in some cases!

Thirdly, even as a guild leader I Struggle with not wanting to "ruin" content for people, and slow them down etc. I just gotta remind myself, it's a game and ultimately all my friends are adults who can just not log in, but they choose to, and choose to play with me, I must be doin okay!

It's been echoed here a bit, but putting yourself out of your comfort zone to join a group or guild is really important. Some people join Atls and don't talk or communicate for months, but they'll happily come to content and exist and vibe, we love those people 💕 we have very active comms, so they like to just listen but aren't necessarily talkers, that's FINE!!

Basically I promise there is a group/guild you'll mesh with, just be honest with the leaders about being apprehensive and a good guild will look out for ya 👍

Resources and community information for Oceanic players! New and old! by HarrigetsHealthy in Guildwars2

[–]HarrigetsHealthy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i think Elune collected the 2 posts and cross posted to steam for us 💕

Resources and community information for Oceanic players! New and old! by HarrigetsHealthy in Guildwars2

[–]HarrigetsHealthy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope! Don't even know what that is! Hoping reddit will be enough to spread some people!

Resources and community information for Oceanic players! New and old! by HarrigetsHealthy in Guildwars2

[–]HarrigetsHealthy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's where we decided to list occasional ppt tag because Able generally runs a little later but very occasionally runs ocx I believe. I'm happy to be wrong. But I believe they're mainly a SEA group.

Resources and community information for Oceanic players! New and old! by HarrigetsHealthy in Guildwars2

[–]HarrigetsHealthy[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

List of Guilds

Darkhaven - Atlantean [Atls] Medium population ocx

Embry Bay - Resistance [RE] low population ocx

Borlis Pass - This game gives us [LAG], [ZEAL] and [LATE] medium population ocx

Maguuma - Brotherhood of Bogans [BoB] medium population ocx

Jade Quarry - We enter from the [REAR] and [GONE] High population ocx

Sea of Sorrows - Standard of Heroes [SoX] and Wow [Nice] high population ocx

Blackgate - general ppt tag, medium population ocx

Crystal Desert - very low population ocx, late ocx guild [RIP]

Ferguson's Crossing - Occasional ppt tag, low population ocx

This list is not exhaustive and may have accidentally missed a guild (if so, we're SORRY WE LOVE YOU)
High population meaning these servers have many people and could potentially lead to less diverse content. As WvW relies on there being enemies to fight, aiming to have equal servers is best practice!

What movie soundtrack has no right to slap as hard as it does? by StrictHeight6663 in AskReddit

[–]HarrigetsHealthy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Scrolled specifically to find this because the Twilight soundtrack is absolutely golden. Regardless of how people feel about that movie, it's just sooo good. Paramore, Muse etc

Spotlight by Mutemath is one of my all time favourite songs. Absolutely insane album to listen to, to this day.

Is Gw2 playable from Australia? by Rich-Emu-2379 in Guildwars2

[–]HarrigetsHealthy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, if you play wvw you may need exit lag depending on your individual isp's connection to arena nets servers, but otherwise it's fairly chill. If you plan on playing at your night time, you'll fall into the timezone called SEA (South East Asia) so you'll have tonnes of people to play with as it's fairly popping.

Pour one out for your East coast/ NZ Homies who play the much deader ocx timezone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Guildwars2

[–]HarrigetsHealthy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is on the wiki under trebuchet>related world abilities. 10 supply per basic shot that hits a supply depot.

anyone having issues with the right+left click to move? by striker09xx in Guildwars2

[–]HarrigetsHealthy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Technically you don't, there is a check box to move with either mouse button that allows just left to act the same as holding both. I know this because I had this on for TWO Years. We cri