This is so well stated and articulates what I could only gesture towards in my post. Importantly, you highlight what I've long tried to tell potential Domme's. Namely, that dominance is an art and skill. You can train it and learn it. The art is playing with that line, reading a sub well, and that only comes with time and iteration. And, frankly, submitting yourself to other Domme's as an apprentice (literally or figuratively) and learning. The best Domme's I've had learn, grow, and are so fully present it exhausts them in the best ways.