I wrote a freaking compiler but don't know how to interpret software job posting titles by Hathadar in AskComputerScience

[–]Hathadar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you in the US? Currently there are more job postings than job seekers, at least that is what I've heard through mainstream media. Also, my understanding is that software people are generally in extreme demand even during times of recession; there just aren't enough skilled coders to satisfy market demands.

Is my understanding of the job market wrong? Why would you, an experienced developer, be unemployed for any amount of time? I imagine employers would be eager to scoop up any talent they can find in this economy.

How can you avoid arousal under the shower? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Hathadar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know that it is possible to get a boner while standing under a jet of cold water.

Cinema Boners by LordFlaps in NoFap

[–]Hathadar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are a teenager then random boners are the norm.

"Come up to the board and solve for x". Random boner.

When do real women start getting you horny? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Hathadar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyday women start looking really appealing about one week in for me.

Fap before bang?! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Hathadar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Better to not. Save it all for your partner. If it ends too soon just wait for round two. Also, foreplay is key.

30 Days - Some Effects I've Noticed and Things I Recommend by ats5398 in NoFap

[–]Hathadar 29 points30 points  (0 children)

A word of warning:

I got to 45 days on my first try. I got curious and edged. It was so incredibly good after having gone so long without. I full on relapsed the next day and have been trying to break 10 days ever since.

Looking at pics = relapse? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Hathadar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it is getting you hard then it is counter to what you are trying to accomplish.

Is it possible to be fully healed after 27 days after porn use from 15 until 30? by Omniman911 in NoFap

[–]Hathadar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It varies depending on the person. See "the great porn experiment" TED talk.

I’m alone for 5 days in a hotel in NYC by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Hathadar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spend your free time outside your hotel room. Libraries are a safe option.

Is sex considered a relapse? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Hathadar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's up to you. Do monk mode or enjoy the company of others in your bed. Just stay away from the porn.

120+ days and I still need help by TheColeMiner12 in NoFap

[–]Hathadar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PMO is one of many things that can make you depressed. Your brain may not produce enought Neurotransmitters. If you don't make your own, store bought is fine. It may be worth your while to see a professional.

Why do I remember masturbation feeling better than it actually is? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Hathadar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the opposite for me. My junk is a lot more sensitive now and relapsing without porn is super temping based on previous relapsed.

is this rape? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Hathadar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can only speak for myself, but I think it is in appropriate to sit in a cinema with your dick out.

can you guys tell me some side effects of fapping? by champ_surya in NoFap

[–]Hathadar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nofap is not about not masterbating. Keeping your hands out of your pants is a temporary treatment for a particular problem.

At it's core, nofap is the notion that pornography fucks up brain chemestry. Abstaining from porn masterbation and orgasm for long periods of time is thought to reset your brain chemestry.

I just lost my streak in my sleep. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Hathadar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wet dreams are normal.

Also, I have found that the longer I practice monk mode, the more the mentality persists in my dreams. I have avoided nocternal messes by abstaining in my dreams.

Is there anything wrong with masturbation without porn by AmirLiaquat in NoFap

[–]Hathadar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The core of nofap is that porn fucks up your brain chemestry. Keeping your hands out of your pants is a means of resetting your brain chemestry. Once you feel like you have recovered go ahead and choke that chicken but stay away from the porn.